How do you do it emotionally and study at the same time? I m in junior high school

I didn't understand love when I fell in love for the first time, friend, you are too young, let it go first.

Be serious when you should study, play when you should play, and don't take up too much emotion.

Just find someone you can learn with, both of you should have a common goal, and then work together.

Think of your feelings as motivation for learning, set your goals, and study hard.

As long as you're socializing with your girlfriend and socializing with your friends, you'll be able to study without thinking about that aspect in junior high school now.

Junior high school should be released first, and encourage each other to be admitted to the ideal school.

On the premise of ensuring the grades, just talk about feelings, if you can talk about feelings with ease, if you usually study hard, what feelings and learning are not wrong?

It's not easy to read in junior high school now, it's much more difficult than when we were young, the questions are very lively, read the books well, get into a good school, really have each other's words in your heart, and there will be many opportunities in the future.

Just don't take your feelings too seriously. The relationship in junior high school will be seen when you grow up, it is just innocent fun.

Turn feelings into motivation for learning, encourage each other, and be an enviable super couple.

I've seen relationships that haven't lasted since junior high school generally break up after graduation.

It's hard, it's hard.

Study together, do homework, and do your homework together

If you are with a good student, it will be much easier, but most good students should not fall in love.

The two study together, but don't study all day, you'll get tired, arrange the time, but sometimes you have to create a bit of a romantic atmosphere

Invest 50% of your energy in your feelings, and 50% in studying, it is recommended to combine these two, don't divide them too far, study with the person you love, slowly get used to letting learning and love accompany your life, when you love, be appropriate, don't be too obsessed, and when you are studying, you should care about her properly.

If you are still in high school and you are struggling to get into the same school, otherwise it is very painful to separate the two places, and if you are in college and you are fighting to work in the same place as her, at least if you are a boy, you have to work hard to surpass her, so she chooses **you will follow**huhu.

Two people encourage each other and support each other.

It's okay to have a clear goal in mind.

In fact, I also had feelings when I was in high school, and at that time I felt that people in love seemed to have better grades, and the scientific theory is that if you have feelings, you will be in a better mood, and if you are in a good mood, you will be good to study, in fact, if two people want to be happy together for a longer time, you should set close goals and work together for them.

I think there are two situations in which you can't do both love and learning.

1. I don't have strong self-control, and I always spend a lot of time thinking about each other. Second, love is unstable, and often disagreements make both parties unhappy.

If you belong to one of them and you are a middle school student, then I advise you to end the relationship as soon as possible. After calming down, devote yourself to your studies.

It should be said that there is a corresponding happiness in all stages of life, and it is difficult to achieve it if you want to occupy it all at a certain time. Anyway, good luck!

...My classmates did a great job.

If you want to: If you learn well, you can be together, others will not object, if you learn well, he (she) will be happy, on the contrary, he (her) will be sad, you won't bear to make him (her) sad, right? Motivate each other and help each other. Two people are always stronger than one person, isn't it?

I'll give you a little advice, you can use love as a motivation to study, thinking in your heart, if I don't study well, he (she) won't be able to raise his or her head, so that the two are not wrong In fact, someone loves very well, and he also has a living head, I wish you success!!

I'm just like you, we feel the same way, mine is:

Learning comes first, feelings come second. It's okay to do emotional things in addition to studying. The key lies in a degree word. Do you understand?

It depends on what kind of academic you belong to, if you are a high school student, it is best not to talk about feelings, if you are a college student, then whatever you want, you can do it.

Puppy love is not anyone's fault, let alone the so-called puppy love is a bad student as you say, as long as you fall in love has no impact on your studies, it is okay, and there is no inevitable relationship between the two.

Let's just say that our homeroom teacher is a very enlightened teacher, he actually does not object to us middle school students falling in love, he also told us: middle school students fall in love, not all wrong, two people together can encourage each other, and there is motivation, isn't this a very good thing? I and the rest of my class agreed with our teacher

Why did you have to give up on him? When the two of you say something of encouragement to each other, don't you also feel motivated to study, and we are now talking about the period of accumulating knowledge, and it is natural to feel tired. I'm in my third year of junior high school now, and I'm about to take the high school entrance examination, so I'm under a lot of pressure to study.

The expectations of teachers and parents are not a little bit more tired than you, and now you can't stand it, what will you do when we are at this time? High school was more exhausting than we are now. So you should have confidence in yourself now, only by studying hard now, and having the tiredness now can you have sweetness in the future!

Think about your future, if you give up now, you will regret it later, and when you think about it later, you will think that everything you have done now is worth it.

I hope you have a good day every day.

Classmate, I was also a student of a key middle school (back then), I also had the same feeling as you at that time, I was also in early love, and I felt that I could give up anything, but I couldn't give up my other half! But then I found out that early love is unreliable (most of them), and when we grow up, we will become more and more realistic, and children's private feelings will become weak in the face of reality. You are from a key middle school, and you definitely have the level to be admitted to a key high school.

But don't let the impulse delay your whole life! When I was in school, I realized the above problems, but I still gave up on the other half of my beloved. Now I've found a better fit for me, and I not only like her but we're like-minded.

You are a girl, and you should pay more attention to your own "safety". I'm from the past, I hope you pay attention to the future, this is what you will never lose! When I was in school, I was tired of studying well, and I was tired too.

Sympathy for you! Hold on, because after perseverance, you will find that happiness is not far away!

Although I am not a super good school student, although I am a junior in junior high school, although I am a boy, although I have not experienced the things you said, but there are still many unpleasant things that I have encountered in my studies like this, and I have to face them calmly, and I have been blind, and I have wanted to give up, but I have persevered, and I must not give up, and I will definitely succeed fighting

Allocate your time. When you study, you concentrate on learning. In love....I'm not in favor of talking so early. Make a deal with your boyfriend and wait until high school to talk about it.

Actually, everything is two-sided, as long as it depends on how you face it, although I am a boy who is only a freshman in high school, however, I should have a little more experience than you!

In fact, puppy love is not a bad thing, it proves that you are recognized, you are a successful person, but you have to learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses to succeed! We can't delay learning because of this, because then there will be opposition from people, causing psychological pressure and causing rebellion among young people!

In fact, you just need to coordinate your studies and relationships. When you study, you study very seriously, and when you are leisure, you can find your little lover to come out and play, and talk about feeling the sweet world of two. You don't need to give up, you can learn to fall in love.

Also, middle school students are also human beings and have emotional needs, so even if you fall in love. You're not a bad boy either. Don't those teachers and parents also have the urge to fall in love at your age?

If you have a good mentality, everything is OK, and life is very good. Good luck.

Don't let other things get in the way of your study. That's how I became a failed high school student. Finally, I entered a junior college.

It's okay, it's not wrong to like someone, anyone will definitely have someone they like, but you'd better not find out, it will be embarrassing. Besides, if he changes his mind, you are the only one who suffers. As for learning, persevere, there will be bitterness and sweetness, learning is boring, boring you have to persevere, and you will always enter the top 100.

Alas, there is no way to solve your situation, so I have an idea for you to hear.

Since you can't put it down, take it out and don't hide it, you find an opportunity to talk to him about what you think, communication can solve the problem, don't be afraid of anything, the worst situation, shame Isn't he alone? You must go to your own heart disease, otherwise it will be very painful.

Now is your extraordinary period, study is important, since you are already with him, you don't need to think so much, just study with peace of mind!

Emotional things can't be forced, then ask him questions about learning, ask if he understands or not, others date you to write homework together, others chat, you talk about the things in class and the books can also be, it depends on whether you can be so patient.

You also need to tie the bell person, confess to him, if he also has a good impression of you, then date, and then the two of them work hard to study, if not, then you can die.

You can think more about your parents, what are they working so hard to make money for, not for you, if you are in love now and your studies are delayed, what does it mean? It means that their hard work, what they have worked hard for most of their lives, in exchange.

You haven't been in love, hey, it's better to fall in love later. Otherwise, you'll get hurt.

My suggestion is to choose the male classmate you liked at first, I believe you should still like him by now, so if you don't try to fall in love with him, you will definitely not be reconciled, and at the same time, no matter who you fall in love with, you will definitely break up because of his relationship, so in this case, you still confess to the boy you liked at the beginning first, and then it depends on the situation if it is unsuccessful, but in order to achieve the best effect, it is better not to confess first, be friends with him first, and understand everything about him, I believe that he will not reject you, and it should be much better to confess when you graduate from junior high school than now.

Be a man, you have to have backbone in other aspects, you have to be submissive to the emotional aspect, someone gives it to you to enjoy, why did you lose it, right?

Do you think you know him? Or does he know you? Can we tolerate each other's shortcomings?

Choose the one who loves you, don't say that it's better to love you than to love you.

You can try to let yourself let go of your feelings for him as much as possible, and secretly encourage yourself, and when you graduate, you will have a lot of time and energy to be with him and do what you want to do. If you delay your studies now because of emotional problems, you will only resent each other in the future, and for the better development of the two of you, you can only let yourself lower this relationship and put your studies first, which is the best way. Because that's how I came to drop.

Recognize your place ......Don't delay your studies.

Emotional things are too complicated, will distract a lot of energy and time, in the third year of high school study time can be very little, so the waste is not worth it, and the two can not exist at the same time, there are too many examples around, only those who have experienced it personally understand, I advise you to choose one......

Keep a proper distance and don't get too close.

Talking about feelings is somewhat distracting, and it's a good idea to make sure that you two won't be very far apart when you go to college.

Listen well in class, complete homework on time, and spend the rest of your time in love.

Encourage each other to choose the same university, one university as the end point.

Just study with her after school.

As I missed it, it is a loss. No one will wait for you in the same place, sometimes you can never figure out what is going on in a girl's heart, all you have to do is be confident. It's not that much you like her, but another feeling is at work.

According to the game, I chose the wrong branch many times, and the strategy failed.

Realistically speaking, you, as a boy, are too subjective, too impulsive, and a little selfish, and don't consider her feelings, and you yourself feel hurt, so what about her? Most girls are delicate, and you don't hurt each other shallowly.

You subjectively think that you can chase her only if you study well, but in fact?

You think that if you are short or not handsome, you should stay away from you, but have you calmed down and asked her seriously?

You are too impulsive, you want to do what you want to do immediately, and if you can't do it, you will get emotional, do you know that you have undoubtedly hurt her by doing this?

You see that she has a good relationship with a poor student (I personally understand that you look down on them), and actually chooses to distance (escape) instead of competition, and only thinks of your own dignity, but have you noticed her psychological changes?

In your description, she seems to be still dating him, I think you should take the initiative to leave now, you are like a hedgehog for warmth, the closer you get, the deeper the wound, you have done too many irreparable things, so now it is better for you to separate from her, maybe she has a good impression of you, but fear must be the main thing.

Give it up, for your sake and for her.