What should we do in two places?

Updated on society 2024-06-07
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In this way, it depends on the attitude of the two of you and him If he does a good job over there You can go to him to find a job together If you are better here, then he can also come to your side to start again As long as you really love each other This must be sacrificed by one party Generally speaking, to be honest, it is the girl who follows the boy's side After all, the man is the pillar of the family It is also a man's self-esteem problem Nature Think about it well Communicate with him It is easy to solve It I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That can only say that your relationship with him is not deep, if you really love inseparable, you will think about it so much? You will fly to him without hesitation. My wife and I are like this, separated by thousands of miles, but she gave up too much for me to come to me without being depressed.

    So I swear I'll love her only one in my life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you go to Shanghai or he comes to you, this can be stable.

    This problem can be solved.

    But it can't go on like this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's right. Fight together.

    Don't do things that you regret.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't talk about emotional things.

    There is hope for you to continue.

    If you don't continue, there's no hope at all.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to have faith in yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Long-distance relationships kill people, and lovers will break up.

    Unless you go to her and stay with her, you have no hope!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I feel the same way with you, a long-distance relationship is really tiring, maybe giving up is also a kind of beauty, why not try?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no hope, why don't you go to find the lover next to you, and besides, she has been rejecting you, then there is no drama, don't give up the whole flower crowd for a flower, right? Oh, good luck !

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's really hard to say.

    I'm in a similar situation to you.

    But we're boyfriend and girlfriend anymore.

    In the end, I was still very helpless 88.

    But everyone's situation is different.

    It's up to you to get it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel. Then don't waste your energy.

    Since she has rejected you so many times, she just doesn't want to be with you very much...

    You go on. Maybe my friends didn't have to do it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You say you love each other very much, then there is no problem, in the future anyway, it is going to be in a city, now play more, just contact more, distance is not a problem, and then you can be together during the holidays, we have one here, his girlfriend is teaching, he is engaged in engineering, he runs around the country, only his girlfriend will meet when he comes over on vacation, and now he plans to get married next year, and it is not good, so you will not have a problem, as long as you believe and have confidence in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The biggest problem is that you have to be around him a lot in the future, and you have to be very rich and rich!

    Otherwise, you won't be able to keep her.

    This is the unspoken rule of being a flight attendant.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you're a flight attendant in the future, you're more likely to be out a lot or something.

    Now start to make a good living, chat in your spare time, talk about what's going on, don't push too hard, and don't leave nothing at all.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's hard to say, but in reality, many people have weakened their feelings because they are in two places. Many of my friends had to break up not because of affection, but because they couldn't take care of each other.

    Therefore, people's feelings are just the word gathering and dispersing, I hope you can cherish and try to be reunited and beautiful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The duration will be within a year.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My boyfriend and I are in a different place, but it's been more than two years, almost three years, this looks at people, is in two places, the most troublesome thing is that when texting, one party may be talking ridiculously, and the other party doesn't see it, so it's the most troublesome, so two people have to be considerate and tolerant of each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Basically, there is no absolute answer, but I don't think distance can produce beautiful drops

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The relationship between the two places is indeed hard, and I understand the author's embarrassment.

    But you're 25 years old, and you're pretty steady about your relationships, since you feel that others are reliable.

    So, if two people want to be truly integrated, they must create together, encourage each other, and take care of each other, isn't this kind of life what you think?

    As for your current job position, in fact, it is all relative, there is no best, there may only be better, the key is to see how happy you are?

    Moreover, there is the issue of wages, he only has a salary of more than 1,000 in Beijing, which is 1,000 compared to the current standard of living.

    It's really hard to get by, but you also have a job, and although you don't know what you do, there will be opportunities.

    If you don't want to live together before you get married, it means that you are a good girl, at least you are very upright.

    So, since he has been calling you to go, and you have confirmed the relationship, you can talk to him about marriage, you can get engaged first, and then have a wedding when the economy is better, so that you won't feel so embarrassed.

    Of course, I am not a party to the case, and perhaps I can't fully understand your situation based on your words, but I hope that my little opinion can make you happy, and I wish you happiness and happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't bet your happiness on a man.

    On the other hand, the idea of wanting to rely on someone is inherently problematic.

    What if (in fact, this is very likely) you go to Beijing with him, but he has a new love?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you can change to LG

    He was hopeless.

    You can find me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I suggest you go and see Zhou Yu's train, but you don't want to learn from her, you can pull it by hitting ** every day, and my girlfriend and I used to be like that.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then separate.

    There are a lot of problems that can arise in long-distance relationships.

    If you keep solving problems, you will be very tired.

    Besides, no matter how deep the love is, there will always be problems, and sooner or later it will be consumed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    ··· Look how much you love him... If you want to be with him for the rest of your life... Then go for it...

    If you just think he's good... It's better not to go...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I like your simplicity and sincerity.

    It's best to write a letter, because she is definitely emotionally unstable now, and she doesn't like to talk, and if she hits ** at this time, either she will be silent, or she will cry bitterly, presumably these things will make you very embarrassed. Therefore, ask for the address in advance and write a letter with some comforting words, such as your grandfather in heaven hopes that you will be happy in the future, so there is no need to be too sad, and the old man will not feel good in heaven, and so on to comfort her! Remember to be encouraging!!

    If you want an address, you can ask for a text message directly, you don't have to tell her the reason, you have to give her a surprise!! This is the best way to express your feelings when writing a letter, after all, the words are the most sincere and touching. Secondly, this letter will record her emotional journey during this time, and after you get married in the future, in retrospect, no, it is very worth remembering this journey by hand!

    If you're good at words, playing ** is the second choice.,After all, I said that writing a letter is an advantage over playing **.,Playing ** is too formal.。。。 At most, you can persuade her to stop being sad or something, it's too embarrassing! It's true.

    Finally, I wish you happiness and hope that she will come out of her grief as soon as possible!!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The deceased should live well, but people are emotional animals, especially women, when their relatives are lost, it must be quite painful, at this time he needs more feelings to make up, including family affection, love--- which you need you to give her. When you score **, because sometimes she needs to be quiet, you can text more, comfort her, cherish her, and show that she still has mom and dad, and you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is necessary to care about it at the right time, especially in some details, which women care about.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You often call ** condolences to it, you can't help but contact it! She needs comfort now, too!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Now he needs someone's care and comfort the most.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm in a similar situation to you.

    My girlfriend is just like your boyfriend.

    We haven't seen each other in over 3 months.

    The feeling is getting weaker and weaker.

    I should have asked her to break up

    Long-distance relationships are hard to stick to!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What do you love about him? What's so good about him? You're really infatuated. But you have to know, how can such a man love you, protect you, and give you a lifetime of dependence? So, let's get out there and see what's going on.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When two people are together, they must be the right person. It's an old saying, but it makes a lot of sense.

    I'm in pretty much the same situation as you, except I'm doing it backwards. I showed all the way I could love her, but she didn't take me seriously.

    Also, there are few long-distance relationships that have a good end, you firmly believe in that.

    My girlfriend and I had only been separated for less than a month, and she went to find another man.

    I advise you to let go of your hands.

    In love, you should be happy, or occasionally a little troubled. You're completely annoyed.

    It's not worth it. That's what I thought about at the time, and I just let it go...Even though I still love her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's normal to text and ** more in this situation, you might as well let him call you more or send you first. Going to see him every once in a while, eating, spending a weekend alone or something.

    If he doesn't call you, doesn't text you, or just sends two or three words, then pay attention. Because there is a good saying, because you are busy with work, your mobile phone is out of battery, and your mobile phone is not expensive, it is all an excuse to give your girlfriend, and if a man really loves you and has nothing, he will stand on the roof and shout you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you go to see him every once in a while, you still have to hit ** often.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Contact is fine, but not too often.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The most important thing is to maintain mutual trust!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't check the post obviously, don't doubt him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Me and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we keep it to one a week** and that's it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't know.

    However, I know that I am annoyed here, so it is better to ask the other party directly if I am not too depressed

    I just asked my husband, do you bother me?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Valentine's Day is just a façade! You say I love you and she'll be happy, but it doesn't make much sense! It's Valentine's Day every year, do you want to remember it every year!

    You can't say with absolute certainty that this woman is the other half of your life, everything has changed! It's better to keep fewer memories in love! Save the time of breaking up and reminisce about the past together and can't let go!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't express it. It's all in plain sight.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Use **, I also want to know how I spend Valentine's Day.

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