How did your parents react when they learned that you weren t coming home for the Chinese New Year?

They will feel that it is normal, because the amount of ** is too large during the Chinese New Year, and it is also inconvenient to go home.

It's a little lost, but it also shows understanding. After all, the Chinese New Year is a time of reunion, and it is normal for people to show that they miss it.

Parents who can't go home will definitely be sad and lost, but it also depends on the situation, if the children have a good family, parents will feel relieved and relieved, not necessarily Chinese New Year's Eve together, other times to accompany parents more is also possible, in addition parents can also go to their children for the New Year.

With sad faces, the two scolded each other. Keep calling me **, let me be counted all the time, although it is uncomfortable, I also understand what they mean.

1) Parents are the root of their children, and parents have to come back to see their parents when they are siblings, so they will always get together, and if they can meet, they will communicate.

And if one day the parents are gone, the connection may be estranged because of this. Parents are there, home is there, parents are not there, home is scattered, this is a very true portrayal.

2) It is not excluded that some families once had some hidden contradictions, and when the parents were alive, the stool could help mediate, but one day this bond was brokenConflictsIt will erupt, for example, when it comes to the distribution of property, and it is easy to disagree.

There are also some parents who were partial when they were young, although they will not be on the bright side, but the unfavored children may have a pimple in their hearts, and the relationship with their relatives has become more and more cold after the death of their parents, and some even do not get along with each other in old age.

3) On the day when the parents were gone, the children also got married, and some of them also hugged their grandchildren, becauseIt's time to take care of your own little family of children, many of them live with their children, so it is not easy for their own generation to get together.

4) Due toGeographyThe reason is that the brothers and sisters are distributed in different regions, although the traffic is very convenient now, but as they get older and older, many legs and feet are not very convenient, and it is not easy to go out of a long way. Usually there are red and white ceremonies in the family to meet.

The above reasons are actually very realistic, Chinese are the most particular about family affection, but when their parents are gone, many of them can't resist reality, and the warmth and coldness of people are undoubtedly revealed at this time.

[Candy Mom's Message].

Parents are here, Danchun still has a way to come in life; When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. Parents are a lifelong favor, and brothers and sisters are in love for a lifetime.

In fact, this problem still varies from person to person, and some families are more united after their parents leave, but such families usually have a "backbone", or eldest brother, or eldest sister, who can unite the strength of the family.

Some respect their elder sisters, and they will go to their elder sisters' houses together to reunite in the reunion year, just like when their parents were there; Some are brothers and sisters, who usually get along well, and when they get together, they get together.

The main reason is that it is too far away from home, and the round-trip fare needs thousands of costs to consider, so I will not go home for the New Year. Cong Cheng Xiaoxingna didn't think about it and didn't go home for the New Year, so he was forced to choose to work in a company with a number of people.

Every year, there will be many friends who don't want to go home, and some are embarrassed to go home for the New Year because they haven't made any money; However, most young people do not want to go home to avoid being urged to marry by their families and arrange blind dates.

I finally went home during the New Year, I finished the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner on Chinese New Year's Eve, and my parents took you to run relatives when I was in the third year of junior high school, and I will never leave the manuscript to sell such a few topics at the dinner table. Where have you been working lately? How much is your monthly salary now?

Is there a target? You have to hurry up, go home for the New Year.

If you don't bring a partner, don't go home for the New Year.

Some friends may say that it's not yet time for the holiday, and my mother has already called. Question: Child, when are you on vacation, the aunt next door who is at home has found you a partner, and when you come back, I asked the aunt to arrange a time for you to meet.

When you hear this, you will definitely rebel against your parents not to arrange a blind date for you, saying that you will not go; Maybe you don't know how to resist your parents, but you still go, but the last two respectful people are just a formality, and when they come back, they tell their parents, and it's not appropriate to see it.

Some friends may say that I will choose not to go back directly. But it's not recommended here, no matter what you say when you go home for the New Year, you still have to go back to see your parents.

There are no more reasons for this:

Children are not filial, and if they don't come back, they won't be troubled.

The elderly are old, and the New Year has become a burden.

The children are far away abroad and do not want children.

DAO rush!

In fact, children are the flesh and blood of the elderly, and the elderly hope that their children will always be by their side. It was not his intention that the old man did not want his children to go home for the New Year!

Filial piety to the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, as a child, if the elderly do not want you to go home for the New Year, no matter how far and difficult you must go home for the New Year! The old man must be very happy when you go home!

I am afraid that my children will spend a lot of money when they go home, and I will feel sorry for my children when they are tired on the road. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Now the old man is used to being quiet, and there are more people who are upset and tired.

I was away for 15 years, and my parents died.

I didn't have any copy. Tell me to go home for the next year, even I haven't had a child**, in fact, there is no dao, parents have the difficulties of parents, there are more brothers and sisters, you will take care of them more, they are the parents who gave birth to us, no matter what, filial piety is indispensable, don't blame them.

Hey, I feel the same way, your parents come to see you and sit on a hard seat, you go back to sit in a soft sleeper, your parents have a lot of money left for you to hope you live well, you go back and spend a lot of money to buy things for them, so think about how to go back, what way!

Afraid that the road will be inconvenient, the hearts of parents are on their children, and their hearts are on stones...

I'm afraid that you will be distracted by your work, so break the bank. It's rare for parents to understand that your family is the happiest person!

Those who are old and don't want to have children are mainly afraid of spending money.

Needless to say, it's the children who break the hearts of their parents. Otherwise, when people are old, they want their children to come back often. Whatever is delicious, leave it for your children to eat.

Afraid of causing trouble to their children, in fact, parents still want their children to go home for the New Year, have a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, and reunite the family.

There must be an abnormal reason for what is not normal!!

I'm afraid that my daughter will go back and spend money and be tired, and I don't want to cause trouble to my daughter.

Is there something going on at home?

What an unforgivable thing a child has done! Did it break the hearts of your parents?

I'm afraid to see them live badly.

I'm afraid that the children will be busy. Delay work.

There's something at home that you don't want to worry about

It is because the children are not married and have a family.