Is it really bleak to be single and have no children in your later years?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-17
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, sometimes, being single is happy. There are also many unmarried. Maybe it's just that you don't have the right person at the right time.

    Fate is such a thing, whether it is mysterious or not, depends on how you understand it. Perhaps for some so-called successful people or traditional feudal thoughts, people in this life are for the sake of inheritance, but in this era of continuous development, the idea is also progressing, no one can force themselves to do anything, I hope to face the problem of desolation in old age single and childless through their own inner interpretation and thinking. Being single can also be cool.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Being single and having no children in your later years does not mean that you will definitely live a desolate life, and the poor are truly desolate.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some people have children, but the children are not angry, and their old age will be very bleak, and they will always come to gnaw at the old. It's true that no child is lonely in old age.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily, if you have children, it's the same if you are not filial. To ensure that you are healthy, have a certain amount of financial security, usually cultivate some hobbies, do not get bored in your leisure time, make more friends, and live a colorful life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In your later years, you don't have children, really, it's very bleak, and now in this society, there are many single children and daughterless people, but it depends on how we live? If you think about it, you will be happy, and if you don't think well, you will die.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Being single and having no children in old age is the greatest sorrow in life, sometimes it doesn't look miserable on the outside, but in fact the soul is the most empty and lonely, really bleak.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Single and childless in old age, as long as the material life and spiritual life are guaranteed, then it is not bad to be in a bleak situation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The happy time I enjoyed when I was young, carefree, how happy and happy I was, no one in the world can compare, but when I got to Lao Lin, you knew that this price was too great, because I was young, so I don't know, but to the back it must be lonely, and I saw someone else's happy family, but I didn't, this is my choice, no matter where you go? It's the same when you go to a nursing home, the more you look at others with children, you don't have that feeling of love in your heart at all, so it's very lonely!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that the good or bad of old age has little to do with whether there are offspring or not, even if there are many children, there are many contradictions and pains because of economic and other reasons, rather than being tortured by family members like this, it is better to be quiet alone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If single, it feels a bit bleak to have no children in old age, but. As long as you keep your heart calm, it's okay.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you have money, it's nothing, as long as you want to open it, eat and drink enough, you don't have to think about so many things, people's fate is destined, there is really none, then there is no way, or go to a nursing home, and work hard to live.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It also depends on the individual, some people may not want to have children, and it is good to live alone, but everyone's definition is different.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    See how long you want to live and how long you can live. If you are born normally, old age, sick and die, it is recommended to have children, even if you go into a nursing home that is not serious, because you have children, they don't dare to go too far. It's better if your child is around. May all the good people in the world have a good death.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It has to be. When I got older and wanted to drink hot water, no one cared.

    Think about desolation?

    If you can't move again, send it to a nursing home.

    The nurses don't give food or water.

    Sleep on a moldy and smelly mattress.

    Is it bleak,

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Part of it should be.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Look at the monks.

    Isn't it all fun!

    Zifei knows the joy of fish.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, it is different, 78-year-olds, if they do not have children, they will live very lonely in their old age, and the elderly with children will be different, and their old age will be very happy and contented.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course it's different, people with children can at least rely on their children to do some things, let their children support themselves and take them to see a doctor, while people without children can only rely on themselves for everything, which may be particularly helpless.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's really different, especially during the Chinese New Year, when other people's families are reunited, and you are very lonely.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course it's different, people with children are particularly lively during the New Year's holidays, while people without children are deserted.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It also depends on the personal mentality, the mentality is good, what kind of environment, and they are all living very chic and comfortable.

    If the jar is broken, it won't get any better.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, as long as you earn enough money for medical treatment and retirement, you don't have to worry about food and drink, and you have your own hobbies and pursuits, you can live well.

    Why get married, do you add trouble to yourself?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think I've been married all my life, and I'm really lonely when I'm old, but now people can still go to nursing homes, and they can be accompanied and taken care of.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's for sure, because a person has no support, no family joy, and no children's life will definitely not be easy, and it is recommended not to choose single.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Whoever you have become relied on, you have the right to claim to be relied on. This actually has nothing to do with getting married, but when you have the ability, you definitely have to learn to give.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    "If you don't get married for the rest of your life, will it be particularly miserable when you get old? "2 60-year-old single women tell the truth.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Judging from your description, I think that if you don't get married, your old age will indeed be miserable.

    If you don't get married, you will definitely live alone in your old age, and no one will accompany you in such a day, and your soul will be very miserable, including work, if your legs and feet are inconvenient, no one will help you, and no children will definitely be miserable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have no money and no children to take care of in your later years, it will be very miserable. If you save some money in your old age and can be self-sufficient, then you will not be miserable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Old age is miserable or not, it has nothing to do with getting married or not, raising children to prevent old age, such a concept is outdated, how many children can give you anti-aging now? The safest thing to do is that you make a lot of money, and you have a lot of money as a guarantee.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Is it really miserable to be a mother-in-law in your old age if you don't get married?

    If you don't get married, you must be very lonely in your old age, because you have no children and no company from your other half, you must be lonely and lonely, even if you are sick, you are alone.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In old age, you may be more lonely, especially during festivals, when everyone has their children home, you can eat alone, alas.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In previous years, in the end of the base assets, it depends on everyone's living conditions, some people are in good condition, he will not be very miserable in his old age, the current pension facilities are better, and the old will be happy, the old have something to rely on, but the old age is more lonely, that is for sure.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you don't get married, you won't have a life partner, and when you're old age, when you're lonely and lonely, there's no one to be by your side and listen to you. When you are sick, no one runs before and after the cold and asks for warmth, buys you medicine and brings hot water...

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone's thoughts are different, some people feel that a person lives freely, and some people feel that a person is lonely and lonely, I think it is better to get married, and there will be many people to accompany you in your later life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, it won't.

    If you get married, you will be desolate when you give birth to an unfilial offspring.

    You have to take care of your other half, and you have to think about raising your children's children.

    Calculate that much money, enough for how many nannies you can hire.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't get married for life, your old age is not necessarily miserable, it depends on your own ability, if you are a person who is very capable and can entertain yourself, you will be happy in your old age.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It can't be said so absolutely, although some people are not married, they have their own savings to make the rest of their lives better.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you don't get married, you won't be miserable in your old age, and now the pension mechanism is very sound, there will be nursing homes to accept it, and the state will manage it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Not necessarily. In the prime of life, having accumulated sufficient wealth, there will be enough money to protect your old age. It is perfectly possible to hire a babysitter for family matters. Make more friends and you won't feel lonely.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Not necessarily, it just depends on how you live, as long as you don't dink after getting married, you will have children and grandchildren, the family is happy, lively, you are alone if you are not married, but you can also live a good life.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you don't get married, your old age should be quite miserable, after all, if you are alone, you will regret it when you see other people's families, why don't you get married?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Not necessarily if you don't get married, you don't have to be happy in your old age if you are married, the key depends on how you live this life.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Different people will have different old age, married, old people with children and daughters, and some miserable, so whether to get married or not is not the only criterion for judging whether you are happy in your later years.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Not necessarily, you can live your old age without getting married, and you can be very happy.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It is a question of personal outlook on life, depending on the individual's value orientation, well, how to live comfortably, how should you live?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Ah, it may not be wonderful to live in old age without marriage, because you can save enough money to make your life more comfortable, but emotionally it will feel very sad, because it will feel sad to see that everyone else is full of children and grandchildren and you are alone.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There are a lot of people in their forties and fifties who don't have children because they have reached this height of thinking, and those people we also call Dink. The families of these people are also full of the happiness they deserve, and they are more enjoying the value of their lives and experiencing the joy of their lives. There is also a category of children in their forties and fifties who have no children because of childbirth.

    More or less, there will be some knots in the heart, which will affect the mood of ordinary life. So it depends on the individual's ideological realm.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    This topic has always been very popular, and it can only be said that people know how to drink water and know themselves, and there is never a standard answer to the question of life. Single Dink, some people can get a happy experience of freedom and happiness from it, while some people can only feel helpless loneliness and endless regret

    Most of the people who insist that Dink has no regrets uphold a very open outlook on life. They respect the differences between people, and firmly believe that everyone has their own choices, then they are destined to have a different life, if they want to get married, if they want to have children, they want to have children, these are just a part of life, but not all

    They feel that there is still a lot of excitement in life to achieve, such as achieving a career, perfecting a hobby, or simply pursuing a mission in this world. Accomplishing something you want to accomplish is in itself very satisfying and fulfilling. Therefore, the meaning of their life is not attached to their partners or children, and the lonely single dink life in the eyes of outsiders has another comfortable and happy experience in their own eyes.

    And those who think that the old age without children is too miserable also have their own reasoning. After all, people don't stay young and strong foreverRaising children to prevent old age is not only for the consideration of taking care of the aging and decaying body, but also for the spiritual expectation of enjoying the joy of family.

    Especially after having childrenMany adults will experience "secondary growth" in the process of parenting, and become more responsible and missionariesIt's like having a pillar and a goal to strive for in life, and it's not like when you're single, you're always alone, and you will inevitably feel melancholy and drifting. And "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great",Family life with children and grandchildren has always been a vision inherited from tradition.

    In short, single dink, whether for or against, is an individual's own choice. There is no need to go online, you have to use your own set of standards to demand each other. No matter which one you choose, as long as you feel that your life is full and meaningful, that is the most important thing.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    People in their forties and fifties have not yet given birth to children, and they are called the Dink family, and they want to live in a two-person world, and they don't want outsiders to disturb them, and I think such people should have regretted it when they reach a certain age.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Those who have not given birth to children in their forties and fifties are basically people who have a stable income and no worries.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Let's live a good life.,The big reason for not having children is that my life is very rich.,I don't want to disrupt the rhythm because of children.,I should still be living a very comfortable life now.。

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I think those who haven't had children in their forties or fifties are doing well, but they don't have a lot of concern.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Those who have not yet given birth to children at the age of forty or fifty naturally have their own lives, and each individual has his own way of living.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I think so. If you have money, you can hire a nanny when you are old, you can go to a nursing home, but if you don't have money, it will be a terrible thing, if you have money, your children will be filial, and if you don't have money, your children's burden will be relatively heavy, so you can't do without money.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I very much agree with this sentence, because in this society, as long as you have money, you can live well in your old age, and if you don't have money, even if you have children, you won't be happy.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I especially agree with this sentence, because now is a very material society, as long as you have money, almost anything can be bought, and with money you can live in peace.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I don't agree with that. I think that when people reach old age, the main thing should be to have children. In this way, you will be happy in your old age.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Yes, if people have no money in old age, their children will also avoid being unfilial, and they will not be able to enter a nursing home, and life will definitely be very hard.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    When people reach old age, the real desolation is not that they have no children, but that they have no money. I feel that from a certain point of view, it is right, whether you have children or not, if you don't have money, you will not be too happy. Because I haven't experienced that age after all, and I can't appreciate how happy my children are to live together for four generations, I can only look at it from my current point of view, everything is fake, only money is real.

    If your children are filial piety, and they are willing to do their best to support you after you are old, without the slightest complaint, then I feel that it is not very important whether you have money or not, but after all, there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, if you have a disease, although they are distressed, but after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be complaints, at this time will you feel that you are a trouble? Do you feel like a burden?

    If you have money, then no children and children are the same, money is the source of happiness, no matter whether your children take care of you or not, your money is enough to take care of yourself, what is this desolate, people can still do what they want to do when they are old, isn't it a happy thing? Whether you agree with this statement or not,Money is indeed omnipotent in this modern era, people's hearts will be biased, and money is cold and fair.

    If I had to choose, a pair of filial children and enough money for me to squander in my old age, then I would definitely choose money, because filial children may not be filial, but money is always money. After the children start a family, the elderly have become outsiders, and it will be inconvenient to rely on the care of their families for a long time. But it's not the same with moneyMoney is the right to speak, money represents independence, this sentence also applies to the elderly, rich is lonely, I would rather be lonely.

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