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When it comes to the Qingming Festival, everyone must think of Du Mu's poem, "Qingming": "It rains a lot during the Qingming Festival, and the pedestrians on the road want to break their souls", the Qingming Festival is also an ancient festival in our country, so what is the importance of the Qingming Festival to the grave of the elderly? Let's give you a detailed introduction, interested friends take a look!
The Qingming Festival is on April 5 every year, and it is also called the Xingqing Festival and the March Festival. It also belongs to one of the 24 natural solar terms, and it is also a festival in China. As early as the Zhou Dynasty, there was a Qingming Festival, which has a history of more than 2,500 years, and it is said that it is a festival set up by the Duke of Wen of Jin in order to mourn Jie Zitui.
On the day of the Qingming Festival, a memorial ceremony will be held to remember the ancestors and express condolences to the deceased relatives, so as to find what they have not done well, make better changes, realize the value of life, and set an example for future generations.
There are many customs and habits of the Qingming Festival, such as planting willows, sweeping tombs, stepping on the green, planting trees, amusement, tug-of-war, kite flying, bowing, swinging, prohibiting fire and cold food, etc. Tomb sweeping is one of the most important customs and habits carried out during the Qingming Festival, and most people think that sweeping the tombs of ancestors is the most important.
But the grave is divided into a new grave and an old grave, there is also a certain emphasis on sweeping the tomb, the burial time is called a new grave within three years, the time for the new grave to sweep the tomb is required, the first year is to choose an auspicious day 10 days before the Qingming Festival, when the new tomb is buried for 2 years, the tomb sweeping generally chooses the day of the Qingming Festival, the grave is buried for 3 years, the tomb should be selected in the 10 days after the Qingming Festival, this day also needs to choose an auspicious day. After arriving at the cemetery, you need to add a few handfuls of new soil to the grave, clean up the weeds on the grave or add a few green branches to it, and then apply incense. It is common to use three incense sticks and two candles to place the tributes of fruits, wine, food, etc. brought over in front of the tombstone.
You can also bring some flowers to offer, you can choose white and yellow chrysanthemums, which are also more common for graves. In addition to chrysanthemums, you can also choose carnations and tulips. This is followed by burning paper money and deducting heads, and firecrackers are set off before leaving to show farewell.
In addition, you have to burn paper money everywhere and worship the local mountain gods.
If the burial time of the grave is more than three years, the time to go to the grave is to choose one day within ten days before the Qingming Festival, and the time to go to the grave is generally at the fifth watch, that is, before the sun rises. Legend has it that it was because it was not dawn that the deceased dared to come out to taste the tribute. Generally speaking, tomb sweeping on the day of the Qingming Festival needs to be completed before 3 o'clock in the afternoon, and 5 o'clock in the morning to 7 o'clock in the morning is the best time to go to the tomb to sweep the tomb, and this time period is the most suitable for going to the grave.
Some people who live in the city, because of some reasons or live far away, can not go to the grave by themselves, can choose to burn paper money at the intersection or by the river and other places to bow down to their ancestors, in order to express their grief for the deceased.
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Sweep the grave before the Qingming Festival.
There are many customs and exquisiteness in the Qingming Festival, and going to the grave to sweep the tomb is one of the very common customs, and many people will go back to their hometown to sweep the grave during the Qingming Festival. There are some places that are more broadly referred to as the "first seven and last eight". In other words, you can be buried from three days before the Qingming Festival to four days after the Qingming Festival.
In addition, it is best to sweep the grave between 7 am and 3 pm, which is the best time for us to worship our ancestors.
Because of the lack of fluid after 3 p.m., the yang energy gradually subsides and the yin energy gradually increases. If you're unlucky or in bad health, you're easily haunted by a shadow that can cause you harm. Is it morning or afternoon to sweep the tomb on Qingming Festival.
Generally speaking, there is no specific time regulation, so the time of going to the grave on Qingming Festival can be determined according to your own situation. In ancient times, it was at 5-7 o'clock, that is, the rubble, that is, in the ancient calendar, it was imitated as one. Of course, it is usually not so early, but it is best to complete the worship activities at Qingming Mountain before 3 p.m., because the yang energy has gradually subsided and the yin energy has gradually increased.
If you are from a poor family, it is easy to be haunted or harassed by ghosts.
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When is it good to bury before the Qingming Festival in 2022? From the point of view of customs, the first seven days of the Qingming Festival are very suitable for burial.
Hot ash burial The deceased is buried within 49 days after his death.
100-day burial The deceased is buried within 49 days after his death.
Anniversary Funeral For places where the spirit is kept, it is the most commemorative burial on the anniversary of the deceased relatives according to folk customs, which is called the anniversary funeral.
Custom burial. During the Qingming and winter solstice periods, the first seven and eight are buried, which is called custom burial What should I pay attention to when burying on the Qingming Festival? You can't go out of the funeral shirt search at noon.
If someone dies in the family, most of them die in the morning and are buried in the afternoon, or they die in the afternoon and are buried the next day. It is believed that if you violate the taboo, you will invite evil.
No cats.
Before the funeral, the deceased should stop the morgue and keep the spirit, and avoid the cat leaking and approaching, thinking that if a cat touches it, or jumps before and after, it will be like the deceased will stand suddenly, which has the intention of harming the family.
Double sunrise funerals are not permitted.
There is an ominous omen on the double day, and it is believed that the double sun funeral has the meaning of two dead, so the funeral must be held on a single day, and it is not held on a double day. Introduction to the precautions for adding soil to the grave on the Qingming Festival Precautions 1: The new grave cannot be moved within three years.
Note 2: Add soil to the left and right, and do not move the soil up and down. It is best to add soil on the left and right sides of the tomb when adding soil, but the upper and lower sides of the tomb are absolutely immovable, the lower side of the tomb is the end of the coffin, which is the place where the monument is erected, and the corresponding is the head of the coffin on the upper side.
If the ground is broken in these two places, it will be disrespectful to the memory of the deceased, and feng shui will not be good for future generations.
Note 3: Do not throw the soil, and sprinkle it evenly on the grave. This means when adding soil.
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The burial time of the old man is to bury the deceased within 77 days and 49 days after his death.
During the Qingming Festival, it rains a lot, and pedestrians on the road want to break their souls. The Qingming solar term is the day when family members go to worship their relatives at the beginning of the year, and they will break ground, weed and build graves, etc. It is generally on the Qingming Festival, and it is also very suitable to be buried on the Qingming Festival.
Same-day burials are rare, and three-day burials and seven-day burials have been seen in many places.
Ten miles of different days, hundreds of miles of different languages, thousands of miles of different customs, the author has seen funeral customs in different places. For example, some are buried on three days, some are buried on the same day, some are buried on seven days, and even some are buried after a year.
Precautions for burial dates:
1. Avoid heavy mourning: Heavy mourning means repeating the funeral again, and another person will pass away, if the burial date is not selected, or the relatives die on the heavy mourning day, it is the most unfavorable to their own family members in the funeral customs, which is also called internal heavy mourning.
2. Avoid the date of rushing to the family: When there is a major event in the family, the eldest son and eldest grandson are generally special roles. Many aspects and ceremonies of the funeral are also completed by the eldest son and grandson, and the second thing to avoid after the heavy funeral is to avoid the days when there is a crime against the eldest son.
3. Attention to burial: Because the land in the city is expensive, a cemetery can range from tens of thousands to tens of thousands. Many family members will store their ashes for a long time after their loved ones have been cremated, planning to bury them later. <>
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Summary. It is okay for the ashes to be buried on the Qingming Festival, choose the days before and after the Qingming Festival, preferably before the Qingming Festival. 1. Take the ashes and transport them to the cemetery to wrap the ashes with a red cloth, wrap them diagonally, and then put a one-dollar coin in front of the left and right sides (when the grave is raised, put a carrot in the original position and wrap it in a red cloth).
The items that were originally placed with the urn were wrapped in red cloth and taken to the cemetery, which belonged to the burial goods. Children, grandchildren, etc. can be held, but they cannot land on the ground.
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It is okay for the ashes to be buried on the Qingming Festival, and the days before and after the Qingming Festival are chosen, preferably before the Qingming Festival. 1. Take the ashes and transport them to the cemetery to wrap the ashes with a red cloth, wrap them diagonally, and then put a dollar coin in situ (when the grave is raised, put a carrot in the original position and wrap it in a red cloth). The items that were originally placed with the urn were wrapped in red cloth and taken to the cemetery, which belonged to the burial goods.
Children and grandchildren can be held on stools, hailstones, grandchildren, etc., but they cannot fall to the ground at will.
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It's okay to be a day or two before Qingming. It is also possible on the day of Qingming.
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1. The custom of "blocking the society".
In the past, several 80-year-old grandfathers in the village talked about the custom of "blocking the society" on our side. More than a decade ago, we still retained social customs. A book of silver, before the arrival of the social year in the third year after the death of the old manRelatives and friends of the deceased will come to the grave a few days in advance to pay respects to the deceased.
The blocking society is quietly divided into two categories: "Spring Society" and "Autumn Society". The specific time of the Spring Festival Gala is the fifth day after the Spring Festival.
2. The form of burial.
In fact, barricade is a form of "burial", but there is a difference between the two. The elders of the village said that when a person dies, the grave buried within three years is called a "new grave", and the surviving relatives must clean the offerings the following year. If the family does not have time to pay, then sweep it at the latest before the arrival of the third year of the social year.
The older generation believes that "the new grave does not block the society, which leads to ghost sorrow".There is also a saying of "new graves and communities", that is, new graves do not wait for the state banquet to sweep the tombs, generally two days before the Spring Festival.
3. The relationship between the object and the deceased and the living person.
The village elders said that the lives of the people who had just passed away were unfamiliar, and they would be crowded and bullied everywhere. Therefore, relatives in the world should put incense, chickens, ducks, fish, treasures and other things in front of the door of the Spring Festival Gala. Previous offerings,And the deceased are holding these things to maintain the relationship.
In this way, the deceased can be safe and sound, and the peace and feelings of the deceased loved ones can also be protected.
The above introduces the specific content of the customs of the blocking society, which is also a manifestation of inheritance, so you should understand it. In the local area, we often have new customs for the death of the elderly, in fact, they all have their own intentions, and they all have nostalgia and memorial for the deceased, so when the old man is still alive, do more filial piety.
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