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Oh, actually, it's not that difficult, really, I've been at home for several years now, of course, I also work, but my job is simpler, just meet with those few people, and the vacation is quite long, belonging to the type of ten days a month, that is, the first twenty days to work, and it is the last day off a day, each time from the first to the twentyth, there are a full ten days at home with children, sometimes one to the first to go to work, all feel unfamiliar with them, but, after doing an hour or two, everyone laughs and talks, It's nothing, the person is still that person, but I've been at home for a long time, I feel unfamiliar, speaking of which, those ideas are what we boring people will think, others don't care about your existence or non-existence, to put it bluntly, they just don't have the heart to care about you at all, let alone take time to reject you, sometimes, you just think too much about yourself, others don't care about us at all, besides, people are so busy now, their own things are not done, how can they still be in the mood to be busy thinking about other people's affairs, unless, That person just doesn't work, so bored that he can only use dealing with people to pass the time at work and spare time, for this kind of person, we don't have to pay attention to it, just live a good life, happiness and comfort are created by themselves, and they are disturbed by people who have to be shut down.
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Convince yourself, do you want to stay at home for the rest of your life? If you don't want to, you have to overcome your weaknesses and face society and life boldly, otherwise, you will always live in your own shadow......
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Don't give up, I am born to be useful, and there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. You can listen to inspirational songs to encourage yourself, such as "Believe in Yourself".I'm really good", etc., try some simple work first, work 100% hard to complete it, ask more if you don't understand, don't be afraid of being embarrassed.
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It's a painful experience, but it makes you stronger.
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A person's character determines his chances. If you like to keep your character, then you have no right to turn down your opportunities.
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Some men think so, and I'm no exception. Sometimes I also think about wanting to leave my girlfriend at home. But then think about it, what era is it now, where is there a woman who stays at home and doesn't go out to work, you can talk to him and take time to talk to him about it, because everyone has their own favorite things to do, and I think you are no exception!
I'm sure you can tell him that he won't be so unreasonable, because I'm such an example, I know a man's heart, maybe he cares about you too much. Tell him about it.
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Communicate with him more.,You can have a debate.,Hehe.,Maybe you can convince him.。。。
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On this question, I feel that women should have a job of their own, and they don't expect you to earn money to support their families, but they have to have their own circle. Your boyfriend doesn't let you go out to work because he loves you and loves you. But, how to put it, the economic base determines the superstructure, and without your own circle, you will become more and more dependent on him, more and more clinging to him, because your circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller.
But a man needs to socialize and earn money to support his family, and gradually you will feel that he cares less and less about you, and you rely more and more on him. This contradiction will eventually be revealed. Find a chance to talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you think!
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I can see that he loves you very much, he doesn't want you to go out and suffer, of course, now for us the work will be more fulfilling, the key to you want to go out to work is to master the method, with the right language and skills to communicate well.
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It's really boring to stay at home all the time.
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Why don't you let you out? Don't even say why?
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A woman can't live dependent on a man, it's not that she doesn't believe him, but if one day the two of you have something unpleasant, he will say that you eat me and drink me, and do something and complain. I've seen a lot of these things with my friends. They also love their husbands very much and want to be full-time wives, but they don't have their own income, and they have to speak below him, women should be self-reliant, otherwise they will regret it in the future.
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Encourage children to go out to play, you also have to often interact with friends and the like, you all bring children, so that you adults communicate on the side, let children play together, I think children still learn from adults, adults don't like to deal with people, children basically don't love.
Whatever you can do with him, take him with him, see the world, encourage him to play with children, socialization is very important, and must be corrected.
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First of all, you have to tell us why.
What is it that makes him reluctant to go out and have fun at home? Fewer friends? Not proactive?
Maybe your child has an inferiority complex, so it's best to encourage him or invite other children to play at your house. You also treat those children who come to your house to play, once they are born and twice mature, and when they get used to it, you encourage them more.
If it's an internet addiction, it's a different story.
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Take your kids out for meaningful activities, limit the amount of time they spend online, and avoid internet addiction.
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This is autism, you have to reflect on yourself as a parent, maybe your own personality is not very extroverted, and your child's personality is often affected by the environment.
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Buy a ball for your child, sign up for an interest class, and let him play.
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Then invite the children to play at home.
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If this woman herself is not a strong woman, if the man's real salary is okay, and the woman doesn't earn it, and her life can be very good, then stay at home. But also enrich yourself.
If it's a strong woman, then forget it and go out to work. Because the women of today are not the women of the past. There are still many men who can make money.
But since this woman dares to come here to post this question, she knows that it is the former at a glance.
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What kind of mess is it? This guy isn't a good bird, don't associate with someone like that!
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Ask the woman what she thinks.
What is there to say here.
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No, this can only be said to be a kind of character of a person.
It can't be said to be a disease.
At best, it's a little autistic.
In fact, sometimes it is very good to indulge in the world of one's own person, but why should you feel inferior?
You must know that no one is necessarily better than anyone.
There's always something about you that no one else can compare.
Live your own life, and don't care what others think.
It's good to be happy.
Live in your own world, not in the eyes of others.
ok?Ann: Don't just be cranky all day long.
Actually, how can I say that, I'm one of those people.
I don't like to talk to people, I just like to be alone, the world of one person, hehe, we're not sick, we're just a little melancholy, what's that, it's too polite, haha, be happy, yes.
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It should be considered a phobia. Social phobia!
But do you know what low self-esteem is?
Do you think you're lowly?
If you always think so, don't you think that you are very much like Liu Quan, the housekeeper of the feudal society and Shen.
You are human and they are human too.
Don't be afraid, just talk and don't need you to take out your heart and be a friend.
There's always one thing you can be proud of.
You are the only one, even if your studies do not go well and your work is not satisfactory.
However, all roads lead to Rome. It is not necessary to have people from Tsinghua University and Peking University to make a fortune.
It's not that the turtle that comes back from studying abroad must be a gold collar.
It's very comfortable to stay at home.
But you always have to take care of yourself.
Only by having more contact with society can we experience the heat and coldness of the world.
in order to really grow up.
can be a child's Optimus Prime.
A slice of heaven at home.
I hope you don't let yourself go on like this, and your life will be wasted from now on.
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To be exact, a pathology, please ask yourself: Are you happy to be alone, happy?
In the long run, there will be autism.
And you have low self-esteem, what is inferiority? Looks? Height? Or what?
Nothing is a problem, the problem is in your psyche. Open your heart and communicate with others more, only more communication can change ...
I wish you a happy day...
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I think that's how I am.
It's not necessarily a disease, but it's definitely a hindrance to a normal life. Get out of the house and meet some new people.
A teacher once taught me that I could climb a mountain often and shout it out loud at the top of the mountain; Set yourself a task to meet a new friend every week; Learn to express your thoughts ......
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Why do you have low self-esteem, so if you don't go out and don't socialize with people, it will produce mental illness, so it is recommended to go out and walk around more.
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The biggest enemy is yourself
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Not necessarily, love is a matter of two people, you don't know, is it because you didn't take the initiative to ask him! A boy with a thick line may take the initiative to say, "Do you want to know my ** number?" Let me tell you. "What? Don't worry too much about such trivial things
Haven't met his friends? Have you only known each other for a short time? Differences in each other's life circles can also lead to this result.
In short, it is not easy to find love, don't doubt it easily. If the doubts are really that heavy, the best thing to do is to find out directly with him. If lovers can't even talk about this kind of thing, how can a relationship last long? Right?
I wish you all happiness!
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I feel like my boyfriend wouldn't admit our relationship if he did, and I didn't think it was necessary.
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Such a boyfriend is not worth your association with him! He's just deceiving you.
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It's quite insecure. Yes for girls.
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Now it seems that they all use mobile phones, and there are few ** at home.
I haven't seen any of his friends, or maybe he doesn't have many friends in the first place.
I just want to say, just these two.
To extrapolate anything is obviously too one-sided.
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Of course not unknowing. Unless he lied to me. You have to be careful. Pay attention to his usual behavior and language. Don't be fooled.
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It's normal for his ** to not know, anyway, he usually uses a mobile phone to contact.
It's a bit of a stretch not to have met any of his friends, so you can talk to him and tell me what you think.
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Well, surely he didn't take you seriously. Break it early!
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You have to pay attention. Would anyone have a boyfriend like that? I haven't known about him for half a year. It's better to divide it.
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These things can be said to him.
Talk about it, say that you really want the people around him to recognize you.
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The slow temperament deceives people and doesn't negotiate, dumb mosquitoes bite people to death, I don't know this truth.
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I don't know how you get along.
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It's human nature! Compare the furniture, it's nothing, don't think too much! You're just waiting to play what to do! Of course, there should be a minimum of politeness to the elders! If you don't care, you don't have to take the initiative to find something to say.
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For such a girl, the decision of your role change is still in your hands, and she has invited you to her house for dinner, what does that mean? To put it bluntly, her boyfriend is in a different place, and he can't quench his thirst from far away, as for what kind of result you want, there is a chance, from your description, I think you still have room to be hurt in the understanding of emotional problems, come on.