Is love important for marriage?

Without love, where does marriage come from, indispensable, without love, will marriage last.

Now I personally don't think it's very important, because most people fall in love after getting married, and blind dates are popular now. It may also be forced by the epidemic and reality, and I also changed my opinion because many friends around me had similar situations. Love can't be without, but love takes time to cultivate, and only love without material and economic foundation is not desirable because of reality!

Right, may you figure it out soon, and have a happy marriage

Of course it's important! Love paves the way for marriage, so that each other can understand each other better, so that it is possible to make marriage more satisfying.

Love is only secondary, feelings are important, marriage is established by the real feelings of two people, and marriage is built on the feelings of two people! Happy newlywed!

Extremely important, feelings are the foundation of marriage, after marriage you will find many problems that you have not noticed before, you need to run in with each other for a long time, how can you maintain without feelings!

It really matters, how can there be marriage without love.

A loving marriage is a happy one. Love is especially important for marriage. But love is not all there is to marriage.

Important, a marriage without love is not happy....

Of course it's important, a lifetime of happiness

Of course it's important, love that doesn't aim at marriage is like playing hooligan

Love doesn't matter when you're just marrying for the sake of getting married, it's important when you're marrying for love!

Nonsense, the answer to this one is yes.

Of course, love is the foundation.

After getting married, I feel that love is not very important. Of course, it's not that married life doesn't need love, but in addition to love, if you want to live a happy life, you need to meet many factors. For example, stable economic conditions, harmonious family relationships, and the same concept of life as your lover, etc.

Love is one of the essential elements of marriage. Before getting married, lovers think that there must be love in order to enter into marriage. Because only by entering into marriage with the person you love can you live a happy life.

This concept is of course correct, after all, two individuals living in the same family, if there is no love as the glue, there will be many irreconcilable conflicts and contradictions in life. Only by loving each other can we tolerate each other's shortcomings and faults. Therefore, marriage must have love.

But love is also strong and light, and a happy marriage does not necessarily have strong love. Some people love so much that they regard their lover as the most important person in their lives, and such a life may not necessarily lead to happiness. Because marriage not only has lovers, but also parents and children, only when you pay attention to your lover, you also have the energy to pay attention to others, so that your life can be harmonious and happy.

In addition to love, a happy life needs other factors to support.

As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything. This means that even if the husband and wife love each other deeply, if they live in poverty, there will be conflicts in life. This is also the reason why people have to weigh the economic foundation of both parties before getting married, after all, human beings are only qualified to talk about spiritual needs if they can maintain basic living needs.

In addition to finance and love, married life also includes interpersonal interactions, such as relationships with each other's families. If you don't get along well with your in-laws, even if the relationship between the husband and wife is good, conflicts will arise over time.

After all, the lover and the parents are at both ends of the scale, the palms and backs of the hands are full of meat, if the two do not get along well, life cannot be perfect and happy.

Therefore, if you want to live a happy life, in addition to paying attention to the relationship with your lover, you should also pay attention to the economic level and pay attention to interpersonal communication.

Qian Zhongshu Sanling has a very interesting content in "The Siege of the City":

Now that I think about it, it's naïve to take love so seriously before I got married. To be honest, no matter who you marry, after you get married, you will always find that you are not married to the original person, but to another person. I knew this earlier, the kind of pursuit, love, etc. before marriage can all be saved - it can be seen that marriage does not need too great love, and it is enough to marry capital if you don't hate each other.

As for how to understand this passage, it is necessary to talk about two points specifically:

1. We never know our spouses, we just think we know, because when we are in love, the true aspects of both parties are converged. Or maybe you know someone who is just your spouse when you're in love.

2. Marriage is a change of life, no matter how good the love is, as long as you enter the marriage, you will immediately change a new content, and you think that jujube represents a new beginning.

Therefore, marriage is not the destination of love, love is love, and marriage is just marriage.