The master of psychology is near, thank you

First of all, I would like to say that any experience in childhood can have a significant impact on the formation of a person's character, both positively and negatively.

Now, I would like to write your eight questions.

One. Inferiority complex, I believe everyone has it. It's just that some people care and show obviously.

Some people don't care and can see it. You also said that you have done a good job and have a good appearance, which is your advantage. In fact, low self-esteem is mostly forced by people to come up with it.

Self-confidence is also built step by step.

Two. You care too much about what others think of you. You can't care less, no one can do it without careing, but many things have a degree, and caring too much is also a harm to yourself.

Maybe this is due to an inferiority complex. I want to win the favor of others. I don't think I can do it.

Three. People nowadays may not care much about their relatives. I don't think it's that you lack affection, it's that you don't know how to get along with them, and you shouldn't be in contact or meet very often.

These family affections are as unattainable as love, many people get along, and many people can't get along. Learn to get along with them. Care.

Four. There are so many women in the world, there are always people like you. The key is to be yourself, dare to be friends with them, even if it's just a general friend, and be good to them.

Five. If you have to be principled in everything, isn't it too tiring to be a human being? If you don't feel like you're doing things in your own way, why bother going by the rules, six.

Each person's advantages are different, and this is nothing to worry about. If you are more developed in figurative thinking, don't take it as a weakness, try to overcome the weakness of insufficient abstract thinking. The question itself is quite abstract.

I don't know. Seven. It's not a bad thing to think about the future. At least you have those plans and ideas. Just don't worry about it.

Eight. Perhaps, everyone's definition of happiness is different, but I think that people are content and happy. Sometimes, carry forward the spirit of Ah Q.

Troubles are self-inflicted. If you have the spare time to think about the above questions, it is better to go out for a walk and exercise. Travel, or just read a book to enrich yourself.

It's all my own thoughts.

Wishing you happiness!

You think a lot, what's there to be inferior, you care too much about how others feel about you, so what's there? Who hasn't been hated, and what is it to say that failure is once. Are you restrained with your sister and uncle?

Are you afraid or you don't have confidence, will you look at them with resolute eyes? Needless to say, they will also understand that the children who grow up no longer have low self-esteem. Have you ever tried ignoring other people's feelings and being yourself wholeheartedly for a day?

Maybe you can try it and be selfish and take care of yourself for once. Do you have low self-esteem? Think about it, why did you become a human being for so many species in the world?

Providence. Think about it again, there are so many disabled people in the world, and they are all working hard, and you are able-bodied, why? Providence.

Think again, there are so many poor people in the world who can't even eat, and although I don't know what your family background is, it won't be like this, right? Or the favor of God. Then I thought, how many people in the world can go to college?

And you've been there, why don't you say it, in addition to your own efforts, you still care. And think about it, maybe there is a girl who likes you and you don't notice, or if you like it, go after it, and it's okay to be rejected, at least you won't regret it, right? If you don't think about it, there was something that made you regret it, how painful it should be for you.

I've really written so much, can you not give me points?

After reading it, write down your humble opinions: 1. Learn to be a free and easy person, deal with some things appropriately, and worry about some things when they should be careful, such as work. Some things that should not be lowered and taken lightly, such as some rights and wrongs.

2. Be happy to make friends and find a girlfriend.

As long as you are willing to open your mouth and ignore the other party's reaction, you have succeeded. You have to believe that in the vast sea of people, there are always some people who are willing to be good friends with you, and you always have your own group, no matter how big or small the group is, only care about your heart. You don't have to care about what others say about you, you only care about what you think of yourself, and it's a great leap to defeat yourself.

Find a girlfriend, girls are not demanding, as long as you really love her, love her, like her, I believe girls will accept you.

Your girlfriend will silently support you, give you courage, and think from your standpoint.

May you have a wonderful tomorrow!

I believe how simple it is to have a better tomorrow, because everything is also simple.

I'm also very face-loving, but I pay attention to occasions and events. You first have to put one of your own mindsets right. Don't deliberately deepen simple things, don't compare and fear everything with comparison.

Girls It's not as harsh as you think, I'm 21 years old now, and I've had more than a dozen girlfriends. The first thing to tell you is that my appearance, height, education, and family conditions are all average. It's not that you can't do anything, it's that you've been afraid of it in your childhood.

The most important thing for you is to give yourself confidence. The important thing in life for decades is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. Why suppress yourself so much.

Brother, if you meet the girl you like, go after it. Don't be afraid of the past, it's all gone. Trust you to do it.

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Find something fun to do! This can dilute your useless fantasies, some things you do think too much and worry a lot, this is not necessary, make more friends, communicate with them more and learn from each other, and you will gradually feel how beautiful the world is in the future. It's not as bad as you think, it's the same with pursuing a girlfriend, as long as you take the initiative to meet the girl you like, you should try more to get close to her, don't think too much, sometimes it's not a bad thing to see things simpler, and there may be unexpected effects for you.

Friends, let's open something!

2 "Caigen Tan" is a classic, but are people who have become Buddhas and immortals perfect since ancient times?

The teachings of Buddhism or various religions are actually "good self-cultivation." One book doesn't say much.

3. I think what you wrote above is your momentary thoughts, or that you have summarized some of your usual phenomena at one time, and although you are usually depressed by these phenomena, you don't always think like this, and you always feel depressed because of these things, and you usually give people the impression that you should be optimistic, at least on the outside.

In the end, life is variable, and if you see too much, you will be tired if you see it through, so it is better not to think deeply and not to see through. 20-30 There are a lot of things that are confused in early adulthood, and coupled with the current social situation, you can only self-mediate.

Depression is the loss of a substance in the brain that reduces a person's ability to control their emotions.

So it doesn't hurt to take some medicine.

I've also had depression, and I'll be fine within a few days of taking the medication, don't worry.

I'm pretty much the same as you.

Especially low self-esteem.

Now I'm a little misanthropic.

I've transferred a few psychology articles to my QQ, you go check them out!

Studying psychology itself starts with understanding oneself and ultimately reaches the goal of helping others help themselves. According to your description, you should be in your teens to your twenties.

At present, there are many types of psychology, including management, counseling, and disease research. After professional and systematic learning, most of them will be in business management, human resource management, psychological counseling, school psychological counseling, corporate EAP, mental health centers, etc. More broadly, it is used in marketing, maintaining customer relations, and so on.

Don't look at Lejia's! Just a **! Copying foreigners' theories is their own.

I can only tell you that there have been some psychologists throughout history who have really worked on the mental illness they suffer from, so there's nothing wrong with you coming to study psychology.

Psychology has a wide range of employment, and I can't list them, but I just want to remind you that finding a job after graduating from a good school is not a problem.

Just read some psychology books. "Le Jia - Personality Color" series, "Introvert Advantage", don't need to think about it, think about it, you are an expert, you were born like this.

If you want to learn imagery dialogue, you can take a look at Zhu Jianjun's "Who Am I".

It's normal for you to like your math teacher, and such a knowledgeable and friendly teacher certainly deserves to be liked by students.

You hope to say something that will not only help you study, make you mentally healthier, so that you can improve your math scores at the same time, but also make progress in every subject, let you know what kind of youth has no regrets, and let you know what kind of college entrance examination results are worthy of the humiliating days, so that after you see these words, you will smile slightly and nod your head.

Here it is:

The root of all human problems lies in man's excessive concern for himself. Therefore, the only effective way to get rid of this problem is to forget oneself. When you concentrate on studying, study diligently in a spirit of selflessness, integrate your personal life into the life of all mankind, dedicate yourself to ideals, beliefs, causes, and justice, and contribute to the continuous progress of mankind, you will be able to transcend individual existence and achieve universal existence, transcend the finite and reach the infinite, go beyond the struggle for self and achieve the struggle for the freedom of all mankind, so that you can live youth without regrets, without sorrow, with satisfaction, with nature, and with hope. Happiness in stability and harmony.

Selflessness is the highest state of the human spirit.

Hello friend, you wish I could say something. It helps my learning, makes me mentally healthier, allows me to improve my math scores at the same time, and makes progress in every subject, so that I know what kind of youth has no regrets, and let me know that the aesthetic college entrance examination results are worthy of the humiliating days, let me see these words, smile slightly and nod.

Then I'll start with that; I need to analyze your psyche. Only after interpreting your psychology, then, what kind of youth can you achieve is without regrets.

interpreting the psyche; First; Find the root cause. You have a sensitive personality because of your upbringing. You have suffered, so, know love.

So, you really like the erudition and affinity of the math teacher. Psychologically; This is the budding of adolescent love, and it is the beginning of people's yearning and liking for beautiful things. It is the budding of love for the first time.

Solution; Cherish this feeling, don't break through it, cherish it as the best time, when you grow up, you will know that this is an innocent feeling.

Second; Your upbringing experiences have led to your sensitive personality; Actually, what is needed is to be strong. In other words, when someone can understand me and support me, I work hard. When I meet someone I don't like or a subject I don't like, I can overcome the hardships.

The story of Zeng Guofan's repeated defeats and battles.

Third; The ideal of a person's life is the realization of self-worth; It's about realizing self-worth. There is a need for all-round development. At least the all-round development of the subject in terms of learning.

Don't bow your head in the face of adversity, and watch the teacher you don't like still learn this lesson well. Because only by all-round development can we realize our self-worth and truly benefit mankind.

Fourth; An important point; Not every effort will be successful. We've tried, and even if we don't succeed, don't be discouraged. When we truly learn the spirit of perseverance, we can design a lifelong goal, and the last laugh is the sweetest laugh.

Any success is the accumulation of multiple failures.

In short, you need to interpret your own psychology, so as to learn comprehensively and finally understand; Studying hard and not being afraid of failure, and exercising such a strong character is something that will benefit you for a lifetime. Bless you.

Hello.

First of all, I'm not a psychologist. Actually, it's just some amateur. But I'd love to try to answer your questions.

It doesn't matter if you don't pick it. It's also a test for me

Below. Please give me 3 minutes to give me a brief description of your question.

Youth is precious and unattainable for everyone. Let your youth leave no regrets. Only by following the principle of "learning and expensive" basically means not to deviate from the subject.

In adolescence, it is easy to fall in love with a certain subject teacher, to be good at that science, and to get bored with a certain subject teacher. They also have an aversion to the subjects they teach. This is very normal.

Don't worry, you still need to tie the bell to the bell, please think carefully, if you are dissatisfied with the Chinese teacher, why bother with the subject of Chinese? If I were you, I would have to work hard to make a splash in the Chinese test and annoy the language teacher. In fact, if you don't like him, if you are bent on drilling the horns, and your language scores are not at the level they should have, resulting in lifelong regrets, are you at a loss?

Or does the Chinese teacher regret it?

Remember, no one can succeed casually. As long as you have a comfortable mind and the courage to win, youth will be wonderful!

I wish LZ youth to fly freely!

This is called teacher-student love, generally speaking, it is an abnormal relationship, according to the perspective of freedom, you are very bold, I want you to pay attention to some people who are more talented than you as a teacher, at that time you will think that he is average, as far as we know, there are many teachers and students in universities now, why? Because they're picking the prettiest girls, you're probably pretty, aren't you?