Does the man regret more after the divorce or does the woman regret more? What is the reason for reg

Updated on society 2024-06-16
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Why do some divorced men and women regret it in the end? The main reason for this situation is that when I got married, I didn't completely understand what the true meaning of marriage was, but I played the marriage mistakes in the fairy tale world, and such a marriage divorce is inevitable, and regret is natural.

    Why regret it, life is not an imaginary fairy tale world, reality requires men and women in marriage to pay for it. If you want to reap a point of success, if you want to get a point of beauty, you must pay more than one point, or even a hundred times harder. He is your Prince Charming, she is your Snow White, you fell in love at the beginning, Prince Charming is self-contained, Snow White.

    Pretentious, the two are very affectionate, but at lunchtime, when the two of them are hungry and need to eat, but the two suddenly find that no one wants to go to the kitchen, and then the problem comes out, fortunately, for the first time, the two of them found a restaurant. Question, on the second and third days, I always felt that it was not a way to continue like this, but the prince and princess were self-righteous, and gradually found that the very practical things in marriage were not enough for this one, for example, Prince Charming was not only a BMW, but Snow White was not gentle and lovely.

    Life is beautiful, but the reality is always a little far from the imaginary life, and because you are not the real Prince Charming and Snow White, your father is not the emperor in life after all, and your "palace" is naturally not as gorgeous as in the movie. You also need to work on your own to make ends meet, and one day when you are working, the boss or the boss lady has a bit of an arrogant attitude towards people, which makes people feel blocked, no, go home and look at that one, hey, I wonder if I have found the wrong person. That's it, you are arrogant, you are arrogant.

    You say, okay, just leave.

    The young man, with a high heart, left and felt quite relieved at the time. But the dream is back to reality, life is life, life is life, slowly young people find that the original climbing dragon and phoenix, it turns out that Prince Charming and Snow White are just ideal things, and reality is becoming more and more incompatible. We are all ordinary people, ordinary people naturally have to look for spiritual and material things in the ordinary, those behaviors that are out of reality look back, it is indeed a bit out of the reality of life, out of the ordinary, in the past that is not called life, that is called wasted time.

    When young people go through a period of life experience and begin to understand marriage, they begin to regret it, regret that their roles in the initial love story, and of course the other party are not in place, if they understand life, love, and the true meaning of marriage at that time, and have the mentality of looking at the problem now, is this marriage not. That's all I have to say, because I can only ask questions for the sake of questions, and if you ask why you regret it, that's the general meaning of what I'm talking about. If it can be summed up in one sentence, that is, the two of them were separated from actual life, but lived in a fairy tale world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After the divorce, the man regrets more, because the man's sense of responsibility will gradually appear after the incident, so after the divorce, it is generally the man who feels that the lack of love for the woman will lead to divorce and regret.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think the man regrets it more; Because the man may not be able to live normally after the divorce, the boy generally does not know how to cook or wash clothes, so they will regret it after the marriage.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Generally, the woman regrets it a lot, because after the divorce, the woman will find that she can no longer find someone better than her ex-husband.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are a lot of chicken soup articles on the Internet, saying that the case of a man who was deceived by the mistress after the divorce and ran out of money and sex ended up being miserable, those are all poisonous chicken soupEverything, look at the data!!

    In Roland Miller's book "Intimate Relationships", he has done research and found that among divorced couples in the United States, men generally earn more after divorce than divorced women, have better economic conditions, and have more extensive social interaction with the opposite sex.

    In fact, such a conclusion is not surprising, and the current reality of our country is also the same. In addition, most of the children from divorced families belong to the woman, which further aggravates the financial burden of the woman. originally earned less than her ex-husband and had to bear the children, so it would naturally be more difficult.

    At the same time, it must be more difficult for a divorced mother with children to find a suitable spouse than a divorced father without children. After all, most men are reluctant to accept a divorced woman with children.

    Therefore, in terms of economy and mate selection, divorced women are at a disadvantage. And it seems that such a disadvantage will not change much for a while.

    As a person who has come over, I still recommend that you carefully consider divorce, don't be carried away by impulse, I suggest that you look for marriage guidance before divorce, you can save as much as possible, there are many mature theories abroad that can be referenced, such as the University of Minnesota "Oak Marriage Quality Assessment", he believes that the quality of marriage is the result of the following eleven aspects, and the problems of marriage can be divided into "conflict resolution, financial management, marital expectations, sex life, personality compatibility, sharing and communication, leisure activities, family and friend relationships, role equality, religious beliefs, and children's education", one of which can lead to the breakdown of marriage, where should we start with the problems in front of us? How do I get started? He will give you the answer to what can be quickly improved and save your marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After the divorce, the man had a miserable life.

    First of all, it costs a lot of money for men to buy a house and give gifts. In order to get married, some men may still owe a lot of debts and are overwhelmed, and if they get divorced, the woman will not return the lottery ticket. The man has no money and has to carry a foreign debt, so his life is miserable.

    Secondly,After divorce, sometimes in order to fight for the right to raise children, men voluntarily give up asking women to pay child support. In this way, the burden of raising children for two people falls entirely on the man who is both a father and a mother.

    There are old and young people who have to earn money to support their families and take care of the old and young in the family. There is no need to say that a difficult life is difficult.

    Finally, after a divorce, it is easy for a woman to find a partner. It is difficult for a man to start another family after a divorce. As a result, some people will live alone in a small family for the rest of their lives.

    Loneliness and loneliness have always been with him. When he is old, he has no partner, and his old age is miserable.

    In addition, most men who live in marriage for a long time will get tired of their wives, which, combined with their career achievements, can easily betray the marriage. Despite the painful memories left by his wife, he just wants to start a new life as soon as possible.

    SuchThe man will eventually find out that extramarital affairs are just good-looking and not warm at all, and the woman is just for his money.

    When men don't have money, they miss their ex-wives very much. The previous house was always clean and tidy, no matter how late he came home, there was a warm meal, which was the taste of happiness, so divorce was a blow to most men, and the worst was men.

    It is recommended that men and women in the world cherish the happy life they have now and do not divorce easily. Otherwise, the life of a woman is not good, and the life of a man is even worse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The woman, because the man is more free after the divorce, the woman also has to raise the children, the burden is very heavy, if the ability to work is not strong, you will feel very tired.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is not necessarily, it still depends on the mentality and ability of the two people, and a good attitude will definitely have a better life, at least they will not be obsessed with the divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are no absolutes for this kind of thing.

    It varies from person to person, from time to time, and cannot be generalized!

    After the divorce, those with a good attitude and strong ability will definitely have a better life!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Whether you are doing well or not has nothing to do with divorce, it is only related to your income. Some people who are not divorced are not necessarily doing well.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it the man who is miserable or the woman who is miserable after the divorce? After watching it, I felt deeply.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Under normal circumstances, the woman has a miserable life after the divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on personal ability, and there is no distinction between men and women!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is not necessarily, it mainly depends on the parties.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is mainly determined by one's own financial situation.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's all miserable! Let's get back together!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you regret the divorce, you can remarry, but the marriage registration authority where one of the men and women has a household registration is located to apply for remarriage requires the same materials and procedures as for marriage. or apply for marriage registration with the marriage registration authority where one of the parties has a household registration.

    Article 26 of the Detailed Rules for the Implementation of the Marriage Registration Measures Article 26 After divorce, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume the relationship between husband and wife, they must apply for remarriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority where one of the households is located. The documents and certificates held by both the man and the woman who apply for the registration of remarriage are the same as those held when applying for marriage registration. Article 27: The marriage registration authorities shall handle the registration of remarriage in accordance with the procedures for the registration of marriages and marriages, issue a "Marriage Certificate", and withdraw the divorce certificates of both parties.

    The "Marriage Certificate" and the "Marriage Application" for the registration of remarriage shall indicate the words "remarriage" in the number.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After suing for divorce, if they agree to repentance after divorce, the parties may withdraw the lawsuit. If the parties have already obtained the judgment after suing for divorce, and the judgment of the judgment has taken effect, then the relationship between the parties has ceased to exist.

    Article 1083 of the Civil Code: After divorce, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume their marriage relationship, they shall go to the marriage registration office to re-register their marriage.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is because after the divorce, the man did not live better than the woman, and some men could not take care of themselves, so they would regret it.

    In marriage, when two people can't get along, they may get divorced, but after the divorce, the man is likely to regret it, and they may try to win back the woman. The reason why men regret it is the following:

    It is more difficult for a divorced man to find a good partner again. Now this society is more men than women, many older men and young people have not found a partner, if those divorced men have average conditions, they are even more unlikely to find a partner after divorce, unless they have better conditions, but most people are average. Girls will also be very mindful that the man is married for the second time when they are looking for a partner, so it is more difficult for divorced men to form a family after divorce, and when they encounter this situation, they will regret it.

    After the divorce, there was no one to take care of his daily life, and he did not fit in. Many men don't do anything at home after getting married, he leaves all the housework to his wife, and his wife is responsible for all the big and small things in the house. But after the divorce, there was no one to do these things for him, and he had to do some things by himself, such as doing his own laundry and cooking for himself.

    Some men have a mess of life after a divorce, for example, when they come home without food and their clothes are not washed for weeks. In the face of this bad life, he remembered the good of his ex-wife, and he wanted others to continue to serve him, so he regretted it.

    Men are under more pressure when they get divorced. After the divorce, you will have to face other people's fingers, and relatives or friends may talk about you. After the divorce of women, they can go to the city to work, while the boys' roots are at home, and it is difficult for them to leave the house, and they have to bear these gossips at home.

    When faced with this, they feel very stressed, they don't want to face it, and they regret it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.Not adapting to the new life Men occupy a higher status in society and in the family than women, before the divorce, basically their wives take care of him, he has adapted to the life of a virtuous woman, and suddenly to adapt to the life after the divorce, he will be very uncomfortable. 2.

    A divorced man, if you are not rich or good-looking, it is difficult to find a new relationship, after the divorce, the man may immediately look for a new relationship, but always feel that it is not what he wants, after all, the ex-wife knows himself better and is suitable for himself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because men don't know how to cook or do their own laundry in their married life, they don't know how to do their own laundry, and after the divorce, they have to do these things by themselves, which is not used to it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After the divorce, the boy will feel that his wife is very good and worthwhile, so he will regret it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is it better for men to be more emotionally important than women? Why do women file for divorce? After the divorce, the female rushed to the oak and probably didn't find anything she was satisfied with.

    It depends on what is the reason for leaving! If you have this kind of thought, it means that you don't want to leave at all!

    Some people will, if the determination is not so strong, if he is still a little interesting to his ex-wife in his heart.

    There is another kind, which is particularly bad, that is, both sides can be occupied, and they act on their own opportunities, and such regrets are generally deceitful.

    Men regret it after divorce, either they feel that they hurt others, or they didn't eat enough, and they are born with a nostalgic temperament.

    If you still miss him in your heart and still can't forget him, it means that you still have him in your heart, which means that you divorced a mistake at that time.

    Then you see if he has any other women.

    It depends on whether you have any children between you and him. Usually men don't want to divorce if they have children.

    If you don't have children, you get divorced, and men generally don't have children. Usually women.

    Therefore, women should not divorce easily, so that those men and wild women outside can succeed.

    Continue to spend his money, live in his house, and if you have children, you should also raise your own children dutifully, so that they have nothing to say, and maybe it will save your marriage.

    Men are all the same, just like onions, we want to find our hearts, but in the end, we find that they have no hearts.

    Women are more affectionate, especially when they have children.

    Divorce refers to the legal act of dissolving the marital relationship and terminating the rights and obligations between the husband and wife through agreement or litigation. According to the provisions of China's "Marriage Law", if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce marriage should be granted. "The relationship between husband and wife has indeed broken down" is a legal condition for a divorce.

    Dissolution of marriage. The latter refers specifically to the dissolution of the relationship between husband and wife through legal procedures.

    This statement is not rigorous.

    It's not just women who regret divorce.

    So the key is that the relationship with each other is broken before you can get a divorce.

    Don't be impressed.

    The novelty of love has passed, and it has returned to the ordinary life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you should face these things, why divorce? If it's just that the novelty is gone, and I can't say anything else, I shouldn't be divorced, I don't know how old you are, but how many marriages people can get divorced, how many years of youth, divorced, can you still find someone who you love him and she loves you? ?

    If there is anything that the husband and wife can't talk about or communicate, they will die to save face and suffer the crime.

    What's with? What is the reason?

    What kind of people?

    Different states get different results!

    Something like this!

    If you have children, you will regret it.

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