Do you think I m not in the right mindset? If I don t think, I do!

May I ask you, how can you be with her, the darling of the Creator? Why are you? Are you good enough?

Being a human being is sometimes not too good, and it is far from practical to be high-minded. If you have any conditions, you will find people with whatever conditions. Your vision is not low, and it is impossible for people who surpass her not to have it, but you also need people to be able to look at you.

If you don't improve yourself, you can't get her. A good woman with a bad man is a drama that can only appear on TV. Don't talk about it here.

Let's improve our quality first. You must know that girls nowadays have their eyes set on the sky, and the better the girls, the more so.

What you think is the best is worthless in the eyes of many people, you know? Don't look at everyone with your own eyes or the eyes of the public! The things that everyone values in love are definitely not the same, how many people like beauty, how many people like wisdom, how many people like savagery, and many people like gentleness.

Many things are positive and negative, and not necessarily one side is good

Give it a go and see your bottom line!

It is good to have ideals,,, but many times there is still a gap between the ideals you think in your heart and the reality,, Don't be too aesthetic,, It can be said that there is no girl in this world who is as excellent as you say,,Who has her shortcomings,It's just that you get along with her relatively little,,You don't realize it,, For reference only.

I'm not an expert, I think, bookkeeping is a good thing, but everything has a degree, and it's not beautiful to go too far.

Is your girlfriend a Taurus? Taurus girls are very good at managing money. But your girlfriend seems to have a slight obsessive-compulsive disorder.

But it doesn't matter, each of us will have a little obsessive-compulsive disorder in some ways to a greater or lesser extent, for example, I don't feel safe when I go out without a mobile phone, etc., there should be no problem, and after life is better in the future, it should improve.

Bookkeeping is a good thing, having a plan. However, it is not very good to be so bad, and it is even a little paranoid. Since you are working, rich and rich, and poor and poor, you have to take your girlfriend to enjoy simple pleasures, such as going to the park without spending money, and you can spend a small amount of money to eat a snack.

Tell your girlfriend that we have less money, but it won't affect our joy and happiness. She is too nervous about money, so it affects her mood even worse, and I think she attaches too much importance to the role of money in life. In fact, this is also a sign of insecurity, and you want to hold every point that you can control.

It's a bit psychological, just pay a little attention! But this kind of character is easy to drill the horns, this is not good!

It may be obsessive-compulsive disorder, generally many people will have more or less, it's just a matter of severity, it's best not to say it, it's natural to exist, the more you say it, the more serious it will be, you don't care is the best help for her.

It's okay! It's a good thing to live a good life, if you think she is doing this a little too much, you can sincerely remind her, aren't you in a bad financial situation now? Wouldn't it be okay if you work together! Don't hurt your feelings for this little thing! Come on, landlord!!

It's because the usual habits are too accumulated in the heart, and it is easy to form a wall, so work harder.

I think if you can't control your emotions and temper, maybe it's because you're not strong enough, you're easily controlled by emotions, you don't have that kind of rational thinking to calm yourself down, you can practice more, when you're angry, you think about what you look like now. If a person lives a lifetime, he will live a heart, and when the heart is good, everything will be fine, and when the heart is strong, all problems will not be a problem.

The human heart, though only the size of a fist, is inexhaustible in power when it is strong and can overcome everything, but when it is fragile, it is particularly vulnerable to injury and sentimentality.

The heart is our root, our root, we must work hard to cultivate our heart, so that it becomes stronger and stronger, because only when the heart is strong, can we ** everything.

There are no strong enemies, only oneself that is not strong enough.

Life is a contest between oneself and oneself, and in the final analysis, it is a contest between oneself and one's heart. If you can open your heart and live positively and optimistically, you will find that life is not as bad as you think.

In the face of a difficult life, we must continue to strengthen our hearts, when no one helps, we must rely on ourselves to stand firm, as long as you stand firm, life will not be able to bring you down.

If you are not satisfied with your current life, don't complain, and strive to strengthen your heart, which is our only way out.

As long as your heart is strong enough, there is no obstacle in life that you can't overcome.

On the road of life, there are bumps and bumps, stumbles, if you are not strong enough in your heart, then these bumps and bumps, stumbles, will become your life road, one after another can not get over the hurdles, you will go extremely difficult.

The hurdles in life are not easy, especially the heart hurdles, the most.

I don't know if it's because our parents didn't pay attention to our character cultivation when we were children, which led to this kind of irritable and uncontrollable emotional attitude. Although character is cultivated, as adults, if we want to work hard to change our bad temper, we can still change it.

1. Think about the consequences of irritability. When you are irritable, you tend to do extreme things. It can damage items at the worst and harm yourself and others.

But after the event, there will be a lot of repentance. You can buy a few professional psychology books to read, I believe you can find some life notices in the books to help you get out of the confusion. You need books to guide you, and there are some things that you can't figure out on your own.

2. Don't look for confidants everywhere. When some scholars are irritable, they like to find their confidant big sister, and the big brother complains about his depression. There is really no need for this, it seems to be a relief, but it will also let one more person know your secret.

Inner endurance and control cannot be changed by words. You need to do some substantive training, such as running, insisting on getting up every day and running in the morning, it seems easy, but for a person who doesn't like sports, it's not easy, and insisting on running is a kind of exercise for yourself.

The situation you are talking about is true for most people, unless you are a politician. The key is the mentality, don't be too demanding about things, when you want to get angry, do a deep breath, and leave the scene may have some effect, try it.

People who are willing to lose their temper will unconsciously frown when they hear a word they don't like, or their expressions become fierce or unnatural when you don't know it. Then, seeing your expression, the other party will definitely not listen to it when he comes back. This can only intensify bad emotions, and even lose your temper, raise your voice or something.

What was not a big contradiction turned into a big showdown of self-esteem, no one wanted to lose to the other, and both sides hurt their feelings. And in the end, the angry side is branded as a tantrum person.

Sometimes, I'm just like you. Tell you a way you can try. When you want to lose your temper, find a substitute, a rag doll or something, and if you don't have it, put it on the pillow, if it's outside, face the tree, or point to a cloud in the sky, or a building in the distance.

Send out the anger you want to make, the anger you want to come out of, scold it, and tell all the injustices, grievances, and dissatisfaction you have received, so that your heart will slowly return to peace. Hope you're happy!

That's because you're used to tantrums, you're addicted, and if you don'tantrum, you're going to be like a drug addict and it's hard to feel sick. Every time I want to lose my temper, I tell myself that I know I'm looking for a tantrum feeling, and I can accept it and let it go! Slowly you'll be fine.

I recommend you to read the book "Meet the Unknown Self".

There are many classics or famous sayings to persuade you to maintain a good attitude and control your emotions, many people can understand it very clearly when they are sensible, and it will be difficult to control themselves when they encounter something or meet someone, and it is clear that you don't want to do this to show that your reason is still there, and you must endure more in everything, think more, however, don't lose yourself, you must have your own principles and low lines, and pay attention to the way you speak and do things.

Mentioning this problem shows that you already know the dangers of bad temper, and it is difficult to restrain and change bad temper at once, so it is recommended to do it in several steps.

The first step is to refrain for 30 minutes, no matter how angry the other person may say, put the topic aside, do what you are supposed to do, and deal with the problem after 30 minutes.

The second step is to list the solutions, think of as many solutions as possible from different angles, and list them all for analysis to find the best solution.

The third step is analysis: find a few blank sheets of paper (you can find a few pieces of paper if you think of several solutions before), draw a "T" shape on each piece of paper, write the good consequences of this solution on the left side of T, list the bad consequences on the right side of T, and compare the good and bad. In the end, the most obvious one is your solution.

Use this method to force yourself to think calmly and holistically. Slowly you will find that it does not make you angry as you just heard, and your temper and emotions will slowly come under control.

I can't restrain myself, and I can't control my emotions well. If, but objectively, it is understandable, when a person is attacked or criticized by accusations, there will be resistance in the heart, and everyone will have this emotion. But everyone's cultivation realm can be seen how to deal with this problem.

The more mature approach is to fight back, hit the other party, and then turn around when you are angry and say that you don't think about the consequences. If it is in the face of your boss, he points out to you the shortcomings of your work and hopes that you can accept and correct, which is beneficial to you, and he will give you more help and trust. If you are misunderstood by your boss, you should be honest and honest.

This will earn respect and make a good impression. Quick thinking, good at dealing with small troubles at work and interpersonal relationships.

Remember to manage that your heart is angry, but you must also control it, and you have to fight back, and what you want to say is reasonable, evidence-based, and convincing. If you can't do it, you will be silent, or you will acquiesce.

This is normal. People are like this, in front of people and things, people will release water for themselves, in fact, people are forced out of everything, people's potential is unlimited, and everything comes out when they are forced. Just like quitting smoking, if he is in good health and no one forces him, he may endure it for a few days, but when it comes to the time when he wants to smoke, he will release the water, and he will think, oops!

It's okay to smoke one, or finish smoking this one! It's hard to quit! If a person has lung cancer and has to quit smoking, and then his wife forces him, he will quit!

I can only say that this method is very bad, he knows that it is you, and it is estimated that he will not see you in the future!

You should ask your colleague to go, and then make QQ clear to him in person, as for how things develop in the future, it is up to him.

Don't be too persistent, too pouting, and say it slowly, there are some things that need to be dealt with artistically.

Ah. Stupid girl. Feelings can't be forced.

Divide and divide. Why don't you care?

I know. You might say that outsiders don't understand that feeling.

But. Your pestering will only make him more disgusted.

Why not leave him with a nice back pinch?

Maybe many years later when he thinks of you again.

Right?Obedient hugs

You're not doing it right.

He has already rejected you, and there may be various factors.

You have your friend to talk to him, and because you know him well, he may think that he has met him. What would it be like for him to know that he had been deceived.

It's not impossible to do this, but if he keeps avoiding you, how good can it be, in my opinion, a long pain is better than a short pain, go find someone who loves each other.

It's a little bit wrong for you to do that, but if you meet and make things clear, you'll be fine.

Girl, don't worry, let's pull the object!

Since they are separated, they are separated, and it would be nice to make them clear.

Experience the various states of life, and it is best to experience life and death. Otherwise, what can you surpass them than others?

Being rich is not a bad thing, but being rich is definitely a bad thing!

Robbery goes. I think it's best to have feelings.

Oops, oops. I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I think you can get along with it first.

It's like this when you reach puberty, and I'm no exception. When you feel like you're great, think about your failures or do things you love

What causes me to talk and play with friends more and watch a few funny movies.