My child was in the first grade, afraid of going to school, and said that he had no friends to play

Hello, you should encourage your child to let him play with his classmates on his own, instead of waiting for his classmates to invite him to play. Some children can't make friends, you can teach them. For example, you can ask him which classmate you like more at school, you can ask his name first, then talk about your own name, and then play together.

It's easy for children to get acquainted. My son is now in kindergarten, and no one played with him at the beginning, so I taught him to play with the children, and the more he praised him, he would be more confident.

1. After entering this period, children are very emotionally unstable, and it is especially easy to bury their thoughts in their hearts. This can lead to increasing psychological stress on them. Therefore, parents must strengthen communication with them and help them relieve psychological pressure.

Let your child understand the right values of friendship. Before the children enter the school, they all live with their parents, who care for them in every way. However, when a child enters the school, it is equivalent to entering a "small society".

Innocent and kind children have not yet established correct friendship values, resulting in children not being able to distinguish between good and bad, forming wrong ways of making friends, and forming some bad habits.

2. Let children understand the meaning of friendship. Children at this time are more vulnerable, but it is normal for good friends to meet other friends. Therefore, parents should pay attention to guiding them to treat friendship correctly through appropriate methods.

Parents should guide them to use language that their children can understand to prevent them from misunderstanding. The beginning of a friendship requires mutual management and maintenance between friends. Good friends understand each other, support each other, and grow each other, but friendship is also a very delicate relationship.

A big misunderstanding, a big quarrel, can lead to the breakdown of friendship. Therefore, friendship requires careful management between friends, heart-to-heart, and sincere attitude towards friendship. There are many ways to "keep fresh" in friendship.

Parents can teach their children how to properly communicate with friends, as well as with each other.

3. During this period, in order to better get along with friends, children will maintain friendship through deliberate flattery, but this practice is undoubtedly wrong. Therefore, parents should guide them to master the correct way to make friends, so as to facilitate their social interactions. A child's good social skills are inseparable from self-confidence.

Only when children are brave and confident can they interact with others generously. On the positive side, there is a lack of ability and confidence to analyze things objectively and comprehensively. This requires parents to teach boys to improve their ability to see through phenomena and objectively analyze the factors that are beneficial and unfavorable to them, especially their strengths and potentials.

Is it a personality issue? Or for some other reason. Or it's a matter of hobbies. Duopei Duan Jian accompanies various hobbies. Communicate with others more. Participate in sports and social activities. You can make friends.

The child has just entered the first grade and can't make friends, and he is not in a hurry. If the child has friends in kindergarten. It means that there is no problem with the child's social regret.

It may be that the child's personality is more slow and hot. I was a little unfamiliar with the first grade. Slowly, it will get better.

Or you can encourage him to make friends. You can talk to him about what is happening in the school, so that he can be interested in the classmates around him. Slowly there will be friends.

Aware of the child's state, our parents do not have the experience of letting the child act according to the parents' wishes at home, and often let the child not have Lu Wu's own plan, the child will learn the parents' behavior habits, and the interaction with classmates at school is also expected to be done by his classmates, there is no child who wants to be commanded by others, and hopes that the child will make friends, and it is necessary to start cultivating from empathy.

This is the critical period of the connection between the young and the primary, the kindergarten is to play the middle school, the primary school is to learn the main, first focus on the child's learning state and the usual learning habits, communicate with the child more in the school, and the old companion or teacher for positive and benign interaction, timely guide the child to adapt to school life, as for the relationship with classmates, as long as the child has no obvious communication barriers, the mood is normal, no problem, take your time, don't be too anxious!

1.Enlighten your child more, let him be positive and optimistic, and dare to talk to his children.

When your child goes to school, he or she will make a lot of classmates and friends. But if you find that your child is withdrawn and very social, how should you teach it as a parent?

1.Cultivate interest

Parents should cultivate their children's interests and hobbies, and vigorously cultivate and encourage them after discovering their children's strengths, so that children can be more confident. Also because of my hobbies, I made more friends. As the saying goes, is it possible to group according to similar things?

Playing games with good friends is a joy for children.

2.Not addicted to games

One of the reasons why a child is uncomfortable is that he is addicted to virtual games and does not want to spend time socializing with others. In the face of this incident, parents should be vigilant. One is to control the child's playtime and gradually reduce it; The second is to give children more and more correct guidance, so that they can distinguish what is real and what is virtual.

3.Practice speaking

If you find that your child is withdrawn and socially avoidant, parents should consciously communicate with their child more. Bend down and patiently communicate with your child to see what the reason is. Is it being shy or being bullied by others.

In the face of this situation, parents should not take it lightly, and should grasp it in time and prescribe the right medicine.

4.Know how to share

When it comes to educating children, we all know that we need to learn to share. But what are the benefits of sharing? This should also be taught to children.

Sharing is doubly happy. When you see that children are having a great time sharing, they will be very happy. As the saying goes, when you send roses, do you have fragrance in your hands?

Therefore, parents should teach their children to experience the joy of sharing.

5.Set a good example for your children

As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black". Parents' self-isolation and lack of good interpersonal relationships will have a subtle impact on children, and children will develop feelings of loneliness and form a withdrawn personality.

Therefore, as the first enlightenment teacher of the child, parents should set a good example for the child in terms of words and deeds, interpersonal communication, etc., and the child will develop a good character unconsciously.

It may be because the child is more withdrawn, it may be that the child's personality is more introverted, so he does not like to make friends, you should take the child out to play more, and communicate with the child more, so that the child can take the initiative to socialize with others.

Parents should encourage their children to make friends, and should also take their children to play in crowded places, parents should accompany their children more, play with their children more, and make their children's personality more cheerful.

1.It is recommended that children participate in group activities and extracurricular activities to increase communication between children and others.

2.Guide children to learn some interesting skills, such as puzzles, painting, **, musical instruments, etc., which can not only improve children's abilities, but also allow children to have common topics with their classmates.

3.Let children participate in social activities, such as tree planting, volunteering and public welfare activities, so that children can feel the joy of contributing to society, enhance children's self-confidence, and win the respect of their classmates.

4.Parents can let their children participate in a variety of social activities, such as board games or other fun indoor activities, so that children can make new friends in a relaxed atmosphere.

My child is in the first grade of primary school, and he says that he has no friends to play with at school, and it is very boring to go to school, how should I guide him?

Hello, you can take the initiative to find friends to play and give the example of the social animal geese: this classmate doesn't play with you, you find another classmate to play. When you're having fun with another classmate, the same classmate who didn't play with you at first will automatically come to you.

The geese all flock in groups, and only the tiger of the king of the forest likes to be alone. In other words, excellent people are accompanied by loneliness, perhaps because you have some special advantages that are not accepted by the public. But you must know that your current classmates will not always accompany you, there will be different classmates at different stages, and if you focus on developing your shining points, you will naturally attract other friends Sun Juechai.