Why most people don t like to say sorry

A lot of people don't like to say "I'm sorry" probably due to the following reasons:

1.Self-esteem: Some people think that saying "I'm sorry" lowers their self-esteem, and they may see it as a symbol of admitting their mistakes and making them uncomfortable.

2.Cultural context: In some cultures, saying "I'm sorry" may be seen as too personal or emotional, rather than a way to express genuine apologies. In this case, people may be more inclined to apologize in other ways.

3.Language barrier: Saying "I'm sorry" can be a difficult language expression for some people, especially for those who are not good at speaking English. They may apologize in other ways, such as through actions or words.

4.Habit: Some people may have become accustomed to not using "sorry," or in their lives, the word may not be used often.

In conclusion, everyone's situation and cultural background are different, which can lead to different perceptions and usages of "sorry". In many cases, though, saying "I'm sorry" is a way to apologize and respect others and build better relationships.

Saying thank you has a condescending sense of superiority after being served, and there is face. Saying sorry means that you have made a mistake, which belongs to the category of apology, and you have no face. In short, it has to do with human vanity and dignity. Hope.

Most people don't like to say sorry because they feel that saying sorry is a bit of a loss of face, a little conceited, and they are unwilling to admit that they are wrong, especially in adulthood! The main thing is that I can't let go of my body and admit my mistakes!

Thank you I'm sorry It was originally a kind word, but saying too much makes people feel too polite, but it is not down-to-earth.

However, there's a subtle difference here: saying thank you a lot is acceptable, but always saying sorry can sound awkward.

I saw that someone upstairs mentioned the habits of foreigners, so I will also talk about the cultural differences observed.

First of all, you should be familiar with the words please, thx and other words that foreign people have always put on their lips. Friends who have lived abroad for a long time should know that whether it is ordering food or buying tickets, they need to add please, which has formed a language habit. If you don't say please, not only will you think you're rude, but you'll also feel weird about speaking English.

As for thank you, in the concept of foreigners, parents need to say THX when they hand you a glass of water, which is relatively incomprehensible in the domestic environment.

Chinese culture emphasizes collectivism. A home is a collective, and it is appropriate for people within the collective to support each other, so there is no need to say thank you . But it may also be for this reason that many people are not accustomed to expressing gratitude to others explicitly.

It seems that the service of the waiter outside is deserved, the mutual help between classmates is deserved, the teacher's seniors should take care of you, and if you really want to express your gratitude, you can use other more formal and ceremonious ways, such as gift-giving, and saying a few more thank you on your lips is not so natural.

I feel that such a person is not confident and has low self-esteem, and he feels that it is his own fault in everything he does, well, it is easy to take all the fault on himself and let himself take responsibility.

It's up to you. This society is very realistic, in fact, we all need love and bread! If you really have to choose, then think carefully, do you want love or bread?

Because every choice is like standing at a fork in the road, it depends on how you choose. When you have to choose, you don't have to think about the eyes of the world! Everyone will have different opinions and choices.

If you don't choose love, but bread, maybe you will regret it. If in the future, after you get bread, you will start to miss the people you love, and people will be blind when they are empty. Even having bread can't replace the emptiness in your heart.

You will feel sorry for not choosing love in the first place, which will become a pimple in your heart. If you choose love, even in the end, you and the person you love feel that it is not suitable and separated, at least there will be no regrets! Love should be chosen both intellectually and emotionally.

There is no bread to earn, but love is different. If you really love someone, can you give up love and choose bread? Close your eyes and think about it, can you do it yourself?

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish. True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love. Because, letting go is having everything...Please love well when you cherish it, and bless it when you let go....Sometimes love will make us more motivated, and with motivation, we will work hard to overcome all difficulties!

Some people will work harder because of love, and they will work harder for the happiness of their loved ones, and sometimes love is a good medicine that motivates us. Even without bread and milk, I believe that two people who truly love each other will have everything, because they both know how to work hard to create for what they love.

There will be some people in life and work, who always like to say that the ideas put forward by others are not right, let's analyze the reasons together:

First of all, he has a standard for things in his heart, and he thinks that the standard is very high, if the content of your speech does not meet his standard, he will say that it is not right, in fact, the standard also means limitations, which will make many things lose the possibility.

Secondly, such a person is afraid of being denied, because he will only come up with every plan if he has to be perfect, the more perfect the answer in his heart, the less he wants to be questioned, the Tao Te Ching talks about his heart, if his heart is too full, it is difficult to have opinions to come in, even if he accepts the advice because of some external factors, he is still stubborn in his heart.

Finally, there is a distrust of others, such a person is often accustomed to fighting alone, he will think that if someone else intervenes, it will be a waste of his time, it is better to do it independently, and in the long run, his helpers will become fewer and fewer, and he himself wonders why he has to take care of everything.

Summary: Such a person is a very capable person at work, assertive, decisive, organized, logical, and conscientious, if the task is handed over to him, he will be able to complete it with quality and quantity. But always be aware of his blind spots!

Don't say sorry to me, because after you tell me I'm sorry, I'll pretend to be forgiving and give you peace of mind.

Recently there was a movie called "Like You".

What I like the most is the straightforward dissection of the idea of "saying sorry". It sounds funny, but it really says something that I've been embarrassed to say in my heart.

Sometimes Chiharu really hates when others say sorry to themselves, because you haven't forgiven him in your heart, but you have to pretend to be tolerant to forgive him because of politeness. When someone says sorry to you, you don't forgive, it seems that you are stingy, forgive, and you feel uncomfortable. A simple three words can erase all the mistakes and all the damages?

You hurt me, and you laughed it off, and then left a fluttering sorry, you can shake your hand and pretend to be famous and walk in style, leaving me to stand in place beating my chest, and pretend to forgive you generously, what is the reason?

When you really don't want to forgive at all, the other party's "I'm sorry" can neither change the fait accompli, nor can it reduce your anger and pain, so no matter how much sorry you say, you can't be moved, and how can you really forgive, that verbal forgiveness is just to make the apologetic person feel uncomfortable.

So, when you think that I can't forgive you, then please don't say I'm sorry, I don't want to pretend to be tolerant and generous when I can't forgive.

Because I hate it when people say I'm sorry to me.