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In a relationship, the most difficult thing to solve should be the differences and disagreements between the two parties. Under normal circumstances, once there is a disagreement between two people, it will eventually turn into a violent quarrel, at this time, both parties hurt each other, and what they say is a kind of hurt to the feelings of both parties. Constant quarrels will not help your relationship in any way, but will only eat away at your relationship, and eventually lead to a breakup.

Love is a process of running in with each other, two people get along with each other, and understanding is essential.

In fact, the most fundamental reason for differences of opinion leads to quarrels is communication problems. Inappropriate communication will completely distort what each other wants to say, and sometimes even because of inappropriate communication, the content of the argument between the two people will be shifted, from the original difference of opinion to constantly picking out each other's shortcomings and constantly attacking each other. Many people are in such quarrels, and their feelings for each other gradually disappear.

The first thing you need to do to avoid such a quarrel is to know how to accept each other's opinions and perspectives. Generally, people who quarrel when they have a difference of opinion think that their point of view is correct, and they both want to make the other party accept their point of view, and if both people think like this, then it is inevitable that the quarrel will eventually lead to a quarrel. Only let yourself learn to accept different opinions and respect the other party's different suggestions and opinions.

Only by doing so will you not let the other party think that you are making trouble unreasonably and avoid arguing.

Your boyfriend replies to you like this, he doesn't love you anymore, this is to understand that he is perfunctory to you and break up, right? Find someone who loves you, don't waste time with someone who doesn't love you.

It's good for your boyfriend to be honest, he's very busy at work, it seems that his work is very important, you have to understand more, if you feel straight to wait then give him another chance, maybe he is the person you rely on for the rest of your life.

Maybe he can't do it for the time being, and he really doesn't have time, so why did he say it!

A bit perfunctory, not very sincere.

Summary. *Make your wait worth it**

Allowing your time to be spent on the things you love will not only enrich your life, but also stop you from worrying about whether he has time for you. Being too entangled may make you doubt your relationship, which is not conducive to the development of your relationship and may even wear out the love.

But remember, there is a premise for this: his busyness is indeed for your future. If he genuinely plans for your future and isn't deceiving you, then taking up his own hobbies is a good option.

This way, you can not only get better, but also leave him an exclusive space. He will appreciate your empathy, general knowledge, and see your excellent abilities.

Also, if he can make time for you in his busy time, then you need to re-examine your love. Because true love should not be just one-sided giving and waiting.

My boyfriend kept saying that he was busy and didn't have time to spend with me.

Honey, he's really busy**

Investing that time into something you're passionate about will not only enrich your life, but it will also stop you from worrying about whether he will be there for you. Being too anxious about whether he will be able to accompany you may make you doubt your relationship, which will not be good for your relationship, and may even make your love fade away.

But remember, there's a premise here: your boyfriend is really busy with work and working hard for your future, not cheating on you. Therefore, cultivating your own interests and enriching yourself will not only make you better, but also leave him room for solitude.

He will feel that you are so empathetic, knowledgeable, sensible, and appreciate your excellent abilities.

There is another situation: even if he is busy, he is not completely devoid of time for you. In this case, you need to revisit the love between you. Do you expect him to be there for you as much as you think?

In this case, you have to think about whether the love between the two of you is as important as you think. If the other party doesn't attach great importance to you, so he doesn't want to take time out to accompany you, then when two people are together, he is not willing to spend his time with you, do you think there is any substance in this love? At this time, it is time to think about how the two of you should look at this relationship next, and whether you should stop the loss in time.

Therefore, this matter should be faced in different ways according to different situations, after all, there is no time to accompany during the relationship, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship

Let's be honest with him, and if you can't communicate, break up.

As a man. If you can't coordinate work and life well, it won't be good for you in the future.

Think about it, if you get married, it's even more terrifying.

Work is important, but so is a girlfriend, who plays the role of a potential wife in life.

If you take the initiative to chat with this character, he will ignore him.

1) If you are really busy at work, then you tell him that you can change it slowly. Work is important, but at this age, girlfriend is even more important. You can find a job you like again, but if you miss a girlfriend, it's really a lifetime.

2) If being busy at work is just an excuse, I guess he doesn't like you anymore. Let's do it yourself.

I wish you to make a choice that suits you.

Originally, I typed a lot of words and was going to give you an analysis, but then I thought that breaking up in this situation was the best solution.

Because I did it before, although I was still together after my girlfriend's continuous retention, and finally got married.

But judging from your description, your boyfriend's situation is even more exaggerated than I was at the time. And you don't have many details, you can't tell if your boyfriend is a person who is emotional, maybe he is really tired, so he keeps snubbing you, because the current relationship has always been you giving, he feels that even if he snubs you, you can't run, so break up immediately and explain his position with actions. If he cares, you'll find a way to fix it, and if not, you'll give yourself a fresh start.

ps:You can euphemistically inquire about some news from the mouth of his good brother.,As far as the current situation is concerned, there should be a goal to pursue again.,You're his before you catch up.。。。

I used to be cold to my girlfriend like this, and finally broke up! If a boy really likes you, no matter how tired he is, he always likes to talk to you, because then he will feel much more relaxed, and he really wants to alienate you and finally make you propose to break up, he will not feel too guilty or blame himself. But he'll regret it later, and I was the same at the time.

More than a year, as little as three months, you will share!

Be ready to break up, from today onwards he ignores you and doesn't look for you, and you don't take the initiative to find him. Look at his attitude. This kind of person is unreliable, you must have an attitude, and you can't get used to him.

Deal with it directly: tell him what kind of relationship you want, what kind of communication and interaction between the two people you like, and how his current reaction makes you uncomfortable.

There has to be communication between the two, and if he really cares about you, he will try to make you feel safe, or he will also tell you what kind of relationship he wants.

Only when you fully communicate can you understand whether this relationship is what you want, whether it is worth persevering and bearing, if it is not worth it, why let yourself be in pain?

If he doesn't have the intention to communicate, an email will finish what you want to say, and he won't respond, so he won't have to insist, dear.

I think the situation is quite obvious now, it's just that I don't love it, or I'm tired of it, it's understandable to be tired, but no matter how tired I am, I can find time to talk, talk about my heart, and be more relaxed with the person I love.

He must have another girlfriend. Leave him, don't make yourself so tired.

You're in danger, what do you have to care about what he's up to? Personally, I feel that his heart is not with you anymore, and you don't contact him, if he doesn't look for you for more than a week, give up on him! There's also a big forest!

My situation is the same as yours, and my boyfriend is the same, I contacted him, and I called him either to work or sleep, and always said that he was very busy and tired. I sometimes wonder if he is serious, but he gets angry at me when he sees my message. He said that even if I don't want to be with you, I will tell you directly, is it interesting to lie to you?

I was speechless......

Most of them want to change people, and even if they don't, at least they're tired of you, as can be seen from his reluctance to talk to you.

Ask directly: Do you dislike me anymore? If you want to say that you don't like the two of us to break it immediately, this day the men are chasing me, and I will hang you here?

If you want to say tired. I'm sure everyone is tired. It's just that everyone's mentality is different, and the way of coping is also different.

I'm also tired from going to work every day, sorting out data every day and thinking about solutions, and my head is big, but I never tell my girlfriend that I'm tired. On the contrary, whenever I have time, I go out with her and watch movies. I think, if two people are together are all negative energy, then what's the point of being together?

Why did you find your other half in the first place?

I guess you're going to talk a lot when you're with him, and you always want to talk to him, no matter what you say.

It's clear that he's not interested in you anymore. I don't know how to ask questions.

It is possible that he has changed his mind, so keep an eye on him for a while.

That's not what you want, divide it.

This can only mean that I have lost interest in you, or that I dislike you too annoyingly, and you should talk about it in the next place, and it is better not to leave it overnight.

This is the so-called cold violence, this is best to ask your boyfriend what's going on, see what the problem is, and then how to solve the problem, how to solve it depends on what the problem is, and how you treat this problem.