Why is it becoming more and more difficult now?

In the face of diversity, it is no longer possible to achieve success through "hard work". From elementary school to middle and high school, we will find that there are very few supplementary learning materials for children from poor families, except for the textbooks distributed by the school. Of course, the same is the study of textbooks.

Children from poor families write countless notes and analyses in their textbooks, which is a manifestation of their hard work and hard work. But because of this, the lack of extracurricular books has narrowed the reading range of children from poor families. If you simply test the content of the school textbook, the poor students will of course do their duty.

However, the society's demand for talents is getting higher and higher, and comprehensive quality begins to determine a person's future and social status. With the rapid development of society, good education is increasingly restricted by the environment. In particular, the proportion of family environments far exceeds that of schooling, such as prenatal and early education, which is not accessible to children from poor families.

For example, in various interest classes, talent classes, training classes, private training, etc. These are not the loss of classroom knowledge, but the fact that these extracurricular learning has deepened the knowledge and information of the children of the "giants", and the gap has widened again. Most of the children of the nobility still came from wealthy families.

The reason why people pay more attention to the children of nobles from poor families is because it is difficult for the children of nobles from poor families to have children. Once a noble son comes out, it will be followed like news. This also shows from another aspect that since ancient times, it has been a miracle that a poor family has a noble son.

It's just that with the development of the times, the emergence of this miracle is becoming more and more difficult. Although with the harmonious development of society, the gap between the rich and the poor has gradually narrowed, and everyone is striding forward on the road to a moderately prosperous society, the gap is still more or less, larger or smaller.

On the one hand, these disparities are related to genetics caused by parents or above; On the other hand, it is also related to one's own education and experience, which will inevitably affect the cultivation of the next generation. Myths of wealth creation are striking at all levels of society, and more and more non-wealth creators are shifting their responsibilities to opportunity, social injustice, and class entrenchment. Because they can't see hope, they can only do everything they can to compensate the child:

I don't care about your future, at least when you were a child, you had what others had. This directly leads to a bad result: the worse the family background, the easier it is to regard normal education as hardship, and be ashamed of making children suffer.

In fact, it is because people nowadays are very rebellious, and even if they are from poor families, they will become lazy and lazy, so if they have no money, they will have even less money.

That's because poor families rarely have the financial means to support their children to do what they want. And children need to help their parents with work at a very young age to relieve the pressure on the family.

Because first of all, compared with ordinary children, poor children have already lost at the starting line. For example, the more favorable the environment, the better the educational conditions received, and the environment can also change people's vision. Poor children not only have to worry about school, but their first concern is food and clothing.

Some poor children can't even solve the problem of food and clothing, how can they have other thoughts to worry about their studies.

In ancient times, it was difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family, but now it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family, why does this happen?

First, the poor door has few resources.

For education, wealthy families have a lot of excellent resources, and if the child's grades are not good, they can immediately find excellent teachers to tutor the child; If your child wants to go to a good high school, you can immediately go to a good school to help your child go to a good school.

Students born in poor families have few educational resources, that is, they can't go to the relationship, and they don't have the money to find excellent teachers, so they can only rely on themselves, and in terms of education, this makes the children of poor families lose at the starting line.

Second, not enough attention is paid to education.

For wealthy families, they attach great importance to their children's learning, enroll their children in various cram schools since they were young, and also let their children participate in interest classes to achieve comprehensive training of children. In poor families, the tuition fees paid for children's school are a problem, let alone having money to attend cram schools and interest classes for children.

At the same time, parents do not pay enough attention to their children's learning, not only do they not teach their children to study, but some parents even persuade their children to give up their studies and go out to work, so that the family can eat with one less mouth and one more person to make money. Some children come home from school and rarely do their homework, and spend most of their time doing farm work and playing.

3. The child's own reasons.

It is not easy to get into a university in a poor school, parents work hard for their children to study, and want their children to get ahead, but some children do not know how to cherish the opportunity to study, fight in school, and skip class. And the children in the big cities are studying seriously, which makes the children lose at the starting line all of a sudden, and it also makes it more difficult for the poor to be a noble child.

There are 3 main reasons why it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family, and it is too difficult for young people!

It is a bit difficult for children from poor families to have access to better educational resources, and the worldview and values transmitted by parents to their children are completely different. They will not have the awareness to participate in vocational skills training, and their vision and world view are quite different, which determines their future height.