What do you think a good family state looks like?

In these years, boys marry daughters-in-law and pick and choose, and the same is true for girls to marry. But when you get married, my mother said that in addition to your husband being good to you, the family is also very important, and you have to see what kind of family can live a stable life when you get married, otherwise you can stand it. But, Mom, do you mean you don't want me to marry an orphan?

Is there anyone else in the family you said you can't marry?

1. Don't marry a father-in-law who has a lot of things to do at home.

There is a father-in-law who has a lot of things at home, then you don't want to live a smooth life, what the older generation can't eat if you don't move chopsticks, otherwise you are not educated, this is not a feudal society and it is in your own home, politeness is very important, but you don't have to rise to upbringing. Eventful men are really annoying to women who are more troublesome, and this is generally machismo. What man can't go into the kitchen, he loves to find fault with eating, let his son cook a meal can be said to be heavenly, and he loves to find thorns more than his mother-in-law.

If you get married, you will wait to be trained every day.

2. Don't marry an only son.

Mom and Dad will spoil him too much, and he often does not consider the feelings of others, and most of them have no sense of responsibility and responsibility, and their independence is very poor. That's true. I know a friend, a man, and it really shocked me to see him cry that time, and I haven't cried since I understood it.

A big man, he will cry when he experiences something in his teens, can you hope that he will give you beauty? Moreover, his father and mother must be facing him, you say that other people's sons can't say two words, and it is a matter of time before they get angry.

3. Don't marry if the family is not harmonious.

His father and mother quarrel every day, either smashing dishes or crying, want to have a good dinner, scold if they don't agree, and violently may start directly, the family will not live in peace every day, because there will always be a reason to quarrel. Who can stand it? Family and talent are prosperous, and family troubles must be troublesome every day.

Jiasan is actually angry about a word.

Fourth, don't marry if your parents don't get along well.

If you don't get along well, your parents will be strict with you, even harsh, and they will not be critical of you at all. If you don't have a good word, I'm waiting for you to make mistakes and experience you. Horizontal and vertical women marrying in the past is purely looking for sin, today this is not good, tomorrow is not good, almost with the standard of a saint to demand you, can you stand it?

Fifth, don't marry those who value sons over women.

Patriarchy is something that many families have, but there are also light and heavy, and the son of his family will be like this in the severe, then you have a daughter in the first child, and you have to fry the pot at home. Your parents-in-law will bury you, especially your husband will not give you a good face, marrying into such a family, it is strange to be beautiful.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**. If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful; Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: the sorrows and joys of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy. Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself can be interpreted as follows if it is considered to be a confession in the current society: 1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if they want to care, they may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.