What is the biggest issue in life?

I understand your feelings very well, the world is so big, we will always encounter some strange people and strange things on the road of life, no matter what, we have to face it, you can work together I think it is also a minute of fate, try to understand his world, I believe you will soon become friends; Even if you can't be friends, you should treat it with a tolerant heart, people are not afraid of crooked shadows, let him go whatever others say. Only by letting go can you be liberated, and if you are careful, you will only add trouble to yourself.

He must be mentally ill, he takes his misfortune as a reason for revenge, this kind of person is still far away, I don't think ordinary people can influence him.

Don't hang yourself from a tree.

Give up his ladder.

Give him some color to see, you are not easy to bully, he will never dare in the future.

Is your fate in his hands?

Wouldn't you have no hope without him, no?

Don't make yourself so tired and sloppy, men should have their own opinions and opinions in a fair and honest manner.

You are not someone else's puppet, and there is no need to follow other people's blind commands.

Courteously stand. Since your dad is the leader, find a way to transfer an office.

Hehe, I don't drink, even if my own mother comes to let me not drink! Could it be that a leader will use force to make you drink!

Sometimes you can do a good job without drinking.

It's hard. Buying a sutra to recite every day will be good for him.

The problem of life is the torture that we must face as a human being. Life is like a test paper full of test questions, requiring everyone to answer the questions carefully. Whether a person's life is ordinary or wonderful depends on how he answers the questionnaire in this life.

Why do people live? How to live? What is there in this world that is worth pursuing?

Wait for someone to say that people will remember the day of the college entrance examination in this life and it will frequently appear in your dreams, in fact, it is not for me, maybe I have a bad memory, maybe I deliberately forget, but maybe it really doesn't feel much. But it's not that my college entrance examination experience is too ordinary, I don't think so. What I remember is that the afternoon of the first day of the college entrance examination was mathematics, and after the normal exam, I knew that I didn't do well in the exam, because you can imagine the situation when my brain suddenly short-circuited, my uncle came to pick me up and live at home, in the car, my uncle asked me how I did in the exam, I said I didn't know, but I was really uncomfortable when I asked, and when I went to the hidden object cracked home, I didn't speak, I turned on the computer and went crazy to answer the answer, I didn't seem to cry at the time, but I could no longer concentrate on sorting out those things.

I couldn't sleep all night, I don't remember what kind of mood I was in, my parents shouldn't have been able to sleep either, I seemed to be very uncomfortable, an indescribable discomfort, but the next day I went to the exam, I went to the dormitory, talking about my experience, I don't understand why I had such emotions at that time. Later, I also made my roommate cry, because I actually said the answer, and now I think about it, I really feel sorry, why did I say my own pain when everyone was fragile and unbearable, why did I cause a psychological burden to others, shouldn't it be to help others? That afternoon, we moved things back, and everyone seemed very excited, although they were not very happy, but just like that, I came home, and I forgot to take a lot of things, but I didn't want to go back.

I laid out the books all over the hall, and when I was tired of tidying up, I lay down in the stacks, it turned out that it was all over, and now it was time for me to fulfill the wish I had written in my notebook, but then I didn't do any of it.

I think everyone comes into this world with their own issues.

Only those who clearly understand their life problems, and work hard to find solutions step by step, and can finally give complete answers, are the happiest people. It is also the most worthwhile life to live!

For example, when it comes to work, some people think that a job that is easy and free, and can get a high salary without putting in too much time and effort, is considered a good job. However, some people feel that the more challenging the work, the more difficult it is to use all their physical strength, and to devote all their talents to the work is a good job.

I think that the saddest life is for those who don't understand what their life issues are, and they don't have the experience of working hard for it, and their lives come to an abrupt end.

Wouldn't that be a good thing, but wouldn't the relatives live in vain? It is equivalent to coming to this world for nothing.

According to the laws of Buddhism, such a person needs to be reincarnated to find his life subject and complete his life mission again.

Just like a person who fails the exam, he can get the opportunity to retake the exam, which is lucky, but I am afraid that some people will not even have the opportunity to retake the exam, which is really miserable!

I hope that each of us can find our own life topics in this limited life of Qi Nailing, and hand in the perfect answer sheet to live a happy life!

—"The Courage to Be Hated" Night 2: Reading (2).

In the process of growing up, people encounter various kinds of friendships, and Adler divides the interpersonal relationships generated in these processes into three categories: "work issues", "friendship issues", and "love issues", collectively referred to as "life issues".

When you enter the society, you have to face interpersonal relationships, and you are bound to come into contact with these three major life issues. Looking back at my work since then, it seems that my life tasks have been completed rather poorly. First of all, I have been working well, and since I graduated, my teaching ability has been generally good, but my troubles in the first half of the year came from work problems and interpersonal problems.

I don't know how to deal with the relationship with the class teacher, and for various reasons, I inadvertently fell into a "power struggle" with the other party, in the process I was conflicted in my heart and behavior, always trying to prove myself by winning, and finally hurt myself and hid myself behind a thick wall. I don't quite agree with some of the points made on the second night of "The Courage to Be Hated", but it's true that you should be wary of getting caught up in a "power struggle" when dealing with colleagues and students. Words and deeds under the mood are likely to trigger more "struggles".

Dating topics are what I want to write the most, but it also seems to be a bit bad. I've known friends in a working environment for many years, and although I'm not very sociable, I value and care about what I think of as good friends. But I found that I didn't seem so important to my friends and didn't care.

After perceiving these problems, I often wonder if it is because of some things at work that there is a barrier, thinking of the necessity of communication, I ** chatted with her, what she said is that it doesn't matter Yu Zhengshi, Cong Ling has nothing. She didn't seem to have a problem saying that, but I felt like she and I were drifting apart. Actually, she has her own small family, which is indeed different from my life, she has her own things to be busy with, and her personality is not a pleasing type, in fact, I can understand that I am too stubborn.

Actually, the theme of dating and the theme of love are related. I don't quite understand love and affection, but I'm sure I crave love and attention, but at the same time I'm afraid of getting hurt. How do you write a good life topic?

I still don't know. But I also want to tell myself: don't be too afraid, there is no one else outside the walls, only yourself.

Everyone comes into this world with their own homework. The homework here refers to the mission.

Some people do their homework to come to this world to experience life on earth.

Some people do their homework to accomplish something, so they come with a purpose.

Some people's homework is to repay the debts they owed Chi Hu in their previous life, and they have to come to the creditor to repay.

There are also people who have been practitioners for many lifetimes, and they come with a mission.

The homework of each yardside blocker is different, but it affects their own thoughts and choices.

Each subject is a completely different experience for different people. Arsenic in A, honey in B.

Some people have a high level of consciousness, and they have found their lifelong topic early on and worked hard for it.

We spend our whole lives trying to find a lesson that truly belongs to us and do our best to do it.

If you make the best of your life's tasks, your life will be complete.

As the saying goes: Don't listen to the old man, suffer in front of you, and don't expect to hear many old people say: I have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice, we will inevitably bump on the road of life, but with these only Yu Qi has already walked these roads first, first for us to guide the maze, we do tricks for young people, can take a lot of less wrongful road.

Therefore, as a successful person in the industry who has already walked a lot of life paths, James Caan CBE, the current CEO of Recruitment Guide, shared three life topics that he believes are very important on LinkedIn, hoping to serve as a guiding light for all those who are struggling with life.

Whether it's career, relationships, or even family and relationships, don't always think about how to benefit yourself, or always strive for your own good. Instead, we should think about what to do to be the best for each other, if we take a step back, we can take the whole situation up a notch, and if we can create a win-win situation, it means that if we are in the best state, this concession is worth it.

If we always like to follow the pace of the public, then we can become ordinary people after all. Almost all of them are the ones who are unique in the end, and the ones who are really successful in the end. To be able to add a unique light to your life is to follow your own path and learn how to create, not follow.

A person's success or failure should be judged from a long-term perspective, rather than by the success or failure of a single event. Who's life isn't up and down? Who can guarantee that they will be able to walk all the way in life?

Failure is inevitable, but it will help us to achieve true success.