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Your boyfriend is very filial, which means that he is an emotional person, and from your boyfriend's point of view, it is understandable to live with his parents; But from your point of view, it will cause a lot of inconvenience for you and your life. For example, if you are a city girl and your future mother-in-law lives in the countryside, first of all, your perspective and way of looking at problems will be very different, and in the end, one person will have to compromise; Again, city girls love bright clothes and cosmetics that make them beautiful, won't your parents-in-law feel sorry for this expense? Of course, the old man is the place where you are entangled, so compromise to live together for a few years, and when you save enough money to rent or buy a house very close to your mother-in-law's house, go back often to see, even if you are a little smaller, you are still very happy in the world of two.
This is a little bit of my experience, not to be biased against anyone in the question.
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Buy a house and take the old man over, that's how it should be. I will live with my boyfriend's parents when I get married, because he is an only child, and children should take care of the elderly!
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If the parents are very reasonable, it is okay, because his boyfriend has found so much, and he also wants to do a little filial piety. If you agree that he will love you more, but if his parents are unreasonable and do something intolerable, you can talk to your boyfriend well, so that even if his parents can't come to live, you think that you are a reasonable person and a person who thinks about him.
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Of course, it would be unfilial not to take your parents over after buying a house (it's another thing if your parents don't come). If you come, your boyfriend will be tired, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and your boyfriend is the most uncomfortable in the middle, so don't be together if you can't be together. FYI. Good luck.
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If he can agree to live with your parents later? Think about it!
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Yes, if his parents are good, otherwise he can't stand it.
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It's only a matter of time before you live in your boyfriend's house!
But....Before I live at my boyfriend's house, I still want to remind you of a few questions!
1. This man, are you the one who plans to enter the palace of marriage?
2. Are you sure you like him enough?
3. Are you sure he is sincere about you?
4. How long have you been in contact with him? Got it?
5. How does he treat you? Is he going to marry you?
6. Is he a good man with responsibility and responsibility?
If all of the above are positive, you can stay....Because those who decide to enter the palace of marriage can be honest with each other...
In other words, if you've already established a relationship, both parents meet! I know and I'm sure that he himself has taken action and really wants to marry you....That is the inevitable step, and getting along with his parents is also a crucial issue!
But as a girl, I still want to remind you that girls are a little reserved in this society, although it is the 21st century, but...The evaluation of women is still full of "malice"! Fame is its own, um! So we should work hard to maintain it ourselves....Is that right?
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The pressure of living in someone else is definitely not appropriate, and after a long time, there should be contradictions, so it is better to live in your own house.
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Yes, because his parents want you to stay in their house all the time.
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It's better not to be like that, it's easy to be looked down upon by your in-laws in the future.
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There is no inappropriateness, as long as you want to.
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If you're not married, it's not advisable for your parents to stay overnight at your boyfriend's house, and if it's really necessary, it's best to find them a hotel outside.
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Hello, don't try to convince your father Duan Shen's mother, and don't live at your boyfriend's house, such a quarrel lowers your value of holding and respecting, and it is you who suffers. If you want to live on your own, you can consider buying or renting a house.
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I wouldn't choose to live with his parents, because I think young and old people think differently, and it's really easy to have a lot of conflicts when they get along together.
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No, because if you live with your parents, there may be conflicts between the two families, and the lifestyles and living habits are also different.
It is usually difficult, but it depends on whether he has the courage and wisdom to do so. Relying on his parents may be that his parents are too doting, or it may be that his parents want to take care of everything, and he has no chance to rely on himself. You can let him learn to live away from his parents for a period of time to see if he can change and whether he has the ability to face difficulties independently.
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