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The main thing is to cultivate connotation. Read more books, beautiful literature, poetry or something (this is very important) You can listen to more aesthetic ** and cultivate sentiment. Deem yourself in a dignified manner.
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As the saying goes: there is poetry and books in the belly. Temperament comes from a person's inner cultivation. It is the embodiment of charm. You may not feel it yourself, but it is mostly due to the feelings that others have generated.
Intrinsic factors: cultural knowledge and moral cognition;
External factors: the environment in which they live and the people they interact with;
For example, scholars and illiterates, pampered people and people forced by life; A girl who often plays with a group of boys as brothers; The temperament of Jia Baoyu, who drowning in a group of women every day.
I believe that if you understand the difference between these examples, you can choose and decide how to cultivate a person's temperament.
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Be yourself, no one can do it, and the people around you don't have any other opinion about themselves, and they always have a reason why they don't like you, so why bother with them, even if you strengthen yourself, it's not what you like, so you can live comfortably.
But because "a lady must be a scholar". A woman who reads is beautiful, but she is elegant without powder, and a woman who reads is very confident because reading can help a woman grow.
And this makes sense, because this smell that comes from the depths of the heart is obviously not something that can be pretended, but this is something that has to be accumulated over a long period of time, and it is not so easy to do.
Can you understand this The expression is not so good.
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To be honest, the point with a fairer complexion will be more likely to give people a sense of temperament, which is external and can be made up. Inside is personal conversation.
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It can be cultivated in terms of clothing and behavior, and some are innate.
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1. Standing: Standing must be upright, raising your head and chest and abdomen, don't look up to the sky, don't stand out your chest, everything should be flat, this is the minimum standing posture, and no matter in **, on what occasion, as long as you are standing, you must maintain this form, and it will form a habit for a long time. If you say no, I can't stand up to that effect, then go home, heels, buttocks, shoulders, and the back of the head against the wall, put your hands vertically, and stand in an upright position with your legs together for half an hour, every day, I don't believe you can't stand up that effect.
2. Sitting, the sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be upright, the buttocks should only sit one-third of the chair, the legs can be caged to the left or the right side, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, and the legs will hang down naturally. But don't spread your legs apart or tilt your legs on a chair, and if you're not used to it, use the break from work to exercise yourself.
3. Walk: Use the word "stand" first, raise your head and chest and abdomen, and don't always look down and count your toes. Walk on the road as your home, your T-shaped stage, but it is not to let you go rampant and domineering, if there is no one next to you, do not squint, walk out of your own momentum, do not rush to shoot stars, and do not walk for fear of stepping on the ants on the road, not fast or slow, steady.
The rest is to walk in a walking posture, you can twist, the twisting of the hips shows your waist posture more, but don't move your upper body all the way, give people a sense of frivolity, both hands vertically, gently swing back and forth, don't take a military posture, not take a straight step, be natural.
4. Another thing to pay attention to in appearance is clothing, not necessarily a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age, figure, and wear your own personality.
5. Well, the appearance is already there, then what you need now is self-confidence, confident that you are the most beautiful and excellent. Don't talk about it, you must be humble, smart people are always praising others. Don't advertise yourself on the Internet like this, how you are, the greater the hope you give, the greater the disappointment when everyone sees you.
Keep it in your heart, radiate it from your heart outward, and show it on your face.
6. When it comes to face, then talk about facial expressions, smile, remember to smile, don't be stunned, and don't laugh. If you can't smile without showing your teeth, then gently raise the corners of your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes, listen to others, or when talking to others, you must look at others, don't look left and right, remember that there is a book that says that a woman's eyes are a floodgate of her heart, then make good use of this gate, show your self-confidence.
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How to improve the temperament of girls.
1. Dress appropriately and appropriately. A person's dress is the first impression of others, not necessarily wearing brand-name clothes, carrying brand-name bags, but to be generous and decent, under normal circumstances, the color of clothes and shoes can not add up to more than three colors. This is the first step to improving your temperament.
2. Know politeness and etiquette. Politeness represents a person's cultivation, etiquette includes treating people, etiquette at the dinner table, etc., it is recommended to enroll in an etiquette class, formal learning, which is a necessary step to enhance temperament.
3. Smile. Smile is the most beautiful language, the most beautiful expression. Smiling is an attitude, but instead of cracking your mouth and laughing up to the sky, you practice a standard smile that shows your eight teeth. Practice in front of the mirror every day.
4. Speak appropriately. Speak in an appropriate voice, express yourself accurately and appropriately, and make a good impression on the other person. Make time to read every day to improve your self-cultivation. As the saying goes: there is poetry and books in the belly.
5. Fitness. Get a fitness card and keep exercising every day, not only to strengthen the body but also to shape the perfect body. In the process of exercising, you will find that you will become more and more confident, and your temperament will naturally improve.
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