Why do some people say that the father is the loneliest person in the family

4 answers

Anonymous users2024-02-11

Father's love is sometimes silent, they seem to be strict with us, but also love for us, we tend to eat a piece of sweet sugar, not a bitter melon, when we are young, it is difficult to experience the fatherly love we want, so sometimes the father is the loneliest person in the family.
Anonymous users2024-02-10

Because fathers are generally more strict on the outside and gentle on the inside. Children generally do not see the true feelings of their fathers.
Anonymous users2024-02-09

Father is an honorable and great title. He has to support the family, he has to carry all the external pressures, and he has to bear the burden of family life. Joy is given to the children as much as possible, and the pain is left to themselves, and they refuse to say it and suffer it silently.

Fathers, who are always not good at expressing themselves, always have a serious face, are not good at communicating, are strict with their children's education, and are always the benchmark for their children's behavior. It's not like my mother who asks about the cold and warmth. Fathers are dignified and don't joke with their children easily.

The external appearance of the father, when he is older, does give people a lonely appearance, at this time, the most need for the people around him to give the father great warmth and thoughtful care, especially as a child to care for the father everywhere.
Anonymous users2024-02-08

The word father may not be new to us. Because each of us has a father, and the word father is especially great, because they can be used in our daily life though. But his status and the duties he performs are completely different from what we imagined.

The reason why the father is the loneliest is because he is silently bearing all the pressure of the family and provoking the family alone. He took on the heaviest responsibilities of the family and the love of his family.

A father who can take care of the family is not necessarily a good father, but a good father must work harder to take care of the family. A father who starts a family from marriage to the end, because he may bear more, not only bears all the financial pressure of the family, but also has to pay more for the family, and worry more about the family. Although the mother's duty is also to pay for the family, it is the father who may pay more.

Whether it is psychological or physical pressure, it may still be the heaviest father.

If a father is wronged outside, he will never go home to tell his wife and his children. So when this happens, he will only silently bear the silent distinction, and will only press this kind of thing in his heart, because he doesn't want his family to see his fragile side, so he can only silently choose one person to bear everything. So this should be the loneliest time for my father.

But the same kind of loneliness can reflect the great side of a father.

So many times when the father does not do well or is not thoughtful, we should work harder to tolerate him. Because all the grievances that his father suffered outside will only be alleviated from home. Let the warmth of home alleviate the loneliness and frustration in your heart.

Because your family can let your father know that although he has been wronged outside, or he is very tired outside, there is a family waiting for him after all. Let him know that no matter how cruel the wind and rain outside is, there will be a family waiting for him behind him and supporting him.