There is no banquet in life, why do many people feel reluctant?

There is no banquet in life, and there are no friends in the world who are not separated, and the reason why I am reluctant is because I have moved my feelings and know how to cherish them.

From ancient times to the present, from the middle to the outside, the word friend is not very important, but you will eventually start a family, you will start a business, you will be forced by life to gradually alienate your friends, or you will not be in touch for a long time. But when you are alone and reminiscing about the past, you often think of those old friends in the past, whether you will have some emotion, why the reluctance in your heart will continue. In fact, it is not so much reluctance as cherishing.

Even if you are thousands of miles away, when you recall the past, the corners of your mouth can't help but rise slightly. That's what friends are.

There is no banquet in life, only the fetters in your heart, and your reluctance is that you have not forgotten the fetters in your heart. From playmates when you were a child, to your buddies when you were young, to like-minded comrades when you grow up, your friends have changed one batch after another, and there are a few more who are by your side today. Sometimes you think about your past, of the years you spent together.

If you are not convinced when you are young, no one will inevitably be young and vigorous, but the result of reluctantly getting along is that you go your own way, and you don't get along with each other.

In fact, life comes and goes, and the friends around you will always change, which is growth, and it is also necessary. Even if the best friends of my youth don't get in touch, I still won't give up the time we used to get along in my heart. This is normal human nature.

Reluctance will show that you have not reached cold-bloodedness, and you will remember the feelings of the year. If you meet again one day, you will not be particularly embarrassed, and you will be like your best friends back then, talking and laughing, discussing beautiful gossip, life trivialities, and the future.

There is no banquet in life, "reluctant" is the guide for you to meet again, I hope that our former friends will meet us again, not drunk and not returning.

That's all for today, I hope it will be helpful to you, and don't forget to like it.

After getting along for a long time, you will definitely have feelings, and then there will be a kind of reluctance in your heart, which is a common psychology of people, because people are a kind of emotional animals.

Some people value feelings, they will have feelings after being together for a long time, and people who value feelings will be reluctant, mainly related to personality, some people will put reluctance in their hearts, and some people will express it.

Love over time. Whether it's family or friendship. If the relatives who are close to each other do not move around, they will not be close to each other, as long as the relatives who usually move around often must be reluctant when they are separated. The moment when friends who get along day and night are separated, it will be very reluctant, because a deep affection has been established between them.

People have to leave after all.

From ancient times to the present, friends are extremely cherished words at any time. But fate gathers and fate is scattered, and friends are always accompanied by dispersion and parting.

Perhaps it is precisely because of the difference that the reunion makes people feel so precious, "a glass of wine in the spring breeze of peach and plum, ten years of lights in the night rain of the rivers and lakes", this is my favorite poem.

How many decades are there in life, from childhood playmates, to teenagers, to grown up partners, friends come and go, and there are very few people who can accompany them.

Sometimes I suddenly think of a friend, think about his past, think about his present, and don't know what his life is like, whether it is good or bad. But some longed to see each other again, while others wanted to never see each other again.

Cherish: It turns out that I think the word "cherish" is too general, as if everyone likes to say cherish, but no one can say what cherishes.

Feelings are not an object, you can treasure it carefully, the relationship and emotional cherishing, in my understanding, is to give, is to have a measured distance.

Good feelings, long-term relationships, all need to be slow-heated. Two cups put together, they need to be close to each other to look good, if they are too close together, they will be awkward and inconvenient, and if you push harder, then the cup will break. Friends are like that, keep your distance, be measured, or have a sense of rhythm.

There is no such thing as a feast in life, which means that the moment people get together, it is a sign that they will always be separated. Learn to say goodbye.

It means that in the end, they will be separated, and they cannot be together forever, which is similar to the meaning of Chang'an, which is good but not a place to stay for a long time.

Life is constantly detached, and the trajectory of life is unpredictable and cannot be replicated. People are destined to die by birth, so even if you are a great man or a scientist, you cannot get rid of the laws of time and nature.

There is no banquet in life, that is, no matter how good a friend is, two people cannot be together forever, there will always be a day of separation.

There is no one who is not separated, no matter how good the relationship is, there will be a time when they are separated!

For example, when family and friends get together, they are very happy together, but it is impossible not to separate the banquet without ending! Therefore, after the banquet, relatives and friends went back to their respective homes and separated.

Everyone will always be separated because of their own affairs, but after separation, they must be well and strive for their own careers.

All good things come to an end.