Some people say that the living conditions in Family with Children are also enviable now, what do

The situation of their family is very good, and each meal is several dishes and soup, very happy.

It has been fifteen years since the launch of "Family with Children", and at that time their quality of life was high, and their food, clothing, housing and transportation were very good, a typical well-off family. Compared with now, many people can't reach this level of consumption, eating is not as good as Liu Xing's family, Liu Xing's family wears brands, and most people can't afford to buy a house.

It is indeed enviable, although a family of five is composed of two families, but the family is harmonious, noisy and noisy, and every meal is extremely rich, which is the standard of living that many families cannot catch up with now.

I think it's really enviable, because at that time they lived in very good conditions, lived in big houses, and had a lot of food to eat every day.

That's right! Because the background of the family with children is in Beijing. At that time, the standard of living and the food that their family ate three meals a day were actually better than many ordinary families now.

I have to say that the living conditions among the families with children are indeed enviable, and what is even more enviable is the happiness of the two reorganized families together, which is particularly enviable.

1. Treat children correctly when they make mistakes.

With a happy family atmosphere like "Family with Children", children will tell their parents the truth even if they make mistakes. Sometimes, children lie because the punishment of their parents is too severe, so children cheat and hide. To educate our children, we must first live in the company of peace and joy.

The three children in Family with Children also make various mistakes at this age, which is what most children make.

But if there is a problem, we should not think about how to punish the child. We should first understand the ins and outs of the matter, and then use this mistake to establish the child's view of right and wrong. As a result, there are some things that can be handled happily and easily.

Parents always want their children to live happily ever after, not to cause them harm. When a child makes a mistake, calm down and think about the child's brilliance.

2. See the child's efforts.

Most parents are like Liu Mei in the play: Tell me about the exam? Did you fail the exam again?

Liu Xing: I haven't taken the test yet! Liu Mei:

How do you want to cheat? Liu Xing: Why do you always think I'm bad!

Liu Mei: Let me think on the best side. You must give me a chance!

Positive discipline: Parents should try to observe subtle changes in their children's daily life and learning.

When their child makes some progress, they should not be stingy in praising their child to help them build confidence and increase motivation. In the process, children will get better and better. Laugh at the mistakes of children because it may have had a big impact on their lives.

3. Respect the child's wishes.

When parents are in complete control of their children, there is no point in any dignity and power over the children. A child's perspective is different from ours. It seems obvious to us that for a child it may be wrong and he will not understand.

However, if parents only "inform" everyone in one way, it can cause confusion for children.

When parents are in complete control of their children, there is no point in any dignity and power over the children. In a parent-child relationship, the parents are in the dominant position, and the scales should be slightly tilted in favor of one parent, rather than overwhelming, which is relatively equal.

It's a comedy about a reconstituted family, and their daily stories are so close to our lives that I feel like I'm a character in the show. In this family, the male protagonist Xia Donghai is a reasonable and good father, he is very good at thinking about our children, what the child does wrong, as long as he can correct the mistake, he will be tolerant. I wish my dad would be like him and he would be less smoking, less drinking, more out and about, and more shopping with me and my mom, (because he would go to play cards every night).

The hostess Liu Mei is a more bold person, a standard Chinese-style good wife and mother, I feel that my mother is very like her, she takes care of her three children from study to life, but she is very strict, no mess who does something wrong or what problems arise, as long as she knows, she will not let go easily, and must be clear.

The three children in the play are lively and cute, and my sister Xia Xue is smart and beautiful, she studies seriously and has excellent grades, but I feel that she is a little arrogant. Xia Yu is a cute and innocent little brother, he likes to follow the example of his older brothers and sisters, and often makes many jokes. There is also a naughty ghost Liu Xing, his academic performance is not good, and he is always mischievous, which makes his parents dizzy.

But they play games together, study together, discuss things together, and come up with ghost ideas together, which is really fun! With these three children in the family, there is laughter and laughter every day, and the family is full of warm atmosphere. I wish I had older brothers or older siblings at home, so I wouldn't be lonely.

Watching "Family with Children" every night is a compulsory course for me, and my parents see that I watch it so seriously, and they unconsciously like this TV series. I really hope that all families in the world can be happy and live in harmony like the family in the play.

This article mainly discusses the family with children 1 and 2 (I haven't seen the last few and abandoned the drama), many fans of the drama think that after watching this work, they think that it is borrowed from "Growing Pains", but the screenwriter also cleverly integrates traditional domestic social phenomena and some daily family conflicts, focusing more on the life of the middle class, at least the gold-collar class (although it is a gimmick of ordinary white-collar workers). On the whole, the first part is the best, combining truth and funny perfectly, and learning a lot of truth in laughter. The second part is hotter and more noisy than the first, but the pattern and depth are also larger, such as portraying Xia Donghai's middle-aged unemployment very realistically.

1.Children, like adults, also know their mistakes and do not change, for example, every time Liu Xing understands everything, but every time he makes a mistake, and then he is beaten by Liu Mei.

2。In the city, if there are more than 2 children, and finally the conditional house must live in more than three rooms, the family is more happy.

3；The family atmosphere created by parents has a great impact on children, and the joy of having children 1 and 2 in the family lies in the joyful atmosphere created by Xia Donghai and Liu Mei.

4。One parent should have a weight in the child's heart, and there must be one that encourages the child, so that the child can establish a sense of security in his heart, such as the father-son relationship established by Xia Donghai and Liu Xing.

5。Children have mistakes, it is very difficult for him to realize mistakes, for example, many children do wrong things, do not have the courage to face it, and may also avoid problems because of inner fear, with the passage of time and habits, such behavior is harmful to children, and will only become more and more wrong.

In the play, Xia Donghai teaches Liu Xing to admit his mistakes, which is very classic, he communicates and encourages him to admit his mistakes first, and rewards him accordingly, which is also very useful for cultivating children's good character.

6。As children enter adolescence, they must learn to respect their privacy and not interfere completely in their lives.

Every child has their own little secrets. Sometimes, she doesn't want to be known. If a child is not respected, how can she respect others? - Xia Donghai.

7.We should be good at discovering the strengths and weaknesses of children, rather than blindly accusing them of magnifying their shortcomings. There is such a bridge in the play:

In an exam, when Liu Mei complained about Liu Xing's countdown scores, Xia Donghai found that Liu Xing's strengths seemed to be mathematics and physics.

Liu Xing's popularity in the class is high, and Xia Donghai realized that it was because of his natural communication skills and flexibility, so Xia Donghai did not hesitate to praise him.

8.Don't bring your work emotions home to affect your children, otherwise it is easy to cause them to be more sensitive and suspicious, and form autism.

1. Treat children correctly when they make mistakes.

2. See the child's efforts.

3. Respect the child's wishes.

For many post-90s and some post-00s, they grew up watching "Family with Children", and they are also very familiar with this drama, and the performances of the three young actors in the play are very real, which meets the requirements of the sitcom.

Recently, I was watching a family comedy - "Family with Children", this drama is based on the reorganization of the family as the story clue, the family education method in the play makes me feel too warm, such a loving family cultivates children are not as good as **, for example, let's take a look at such a plot:

Son Liu Xing spent a night making a model - "smoker's lungs", planning to take it to the class Hanzheng competition, but he didn't expect to be in a small fight with his younger brother Xiaoyu, Xiaoyu broke the model, and had no choice but to take the model of the airplane brought back by Xia Yu from abroad and hand it to the teacher, and it was rated as an excellent homework and won the championship. Mother Liu Mei was overjoyed to see that her son, who usually loves to make trouble, actually came back with the championship.

Unexpectedly, Henghui's parents found a draft of their son's apology letter from the trash can the next day, and understood the ins and outs of the matter, and the mother suddenly exploded and wanted to beat her son, but the father immediately grabbed her and explained to the mother that beating her son at this time would not have any effect, but would easily cause rebellion, so why not take advantage of this to educate the incident?

So, the couple bought the handmade materials again, told their son that they thought his championship was earned through hard work, and heard that the child planned to make a model in front of the whole class, so they bought the raw materials ......

As a result, we were happy to see that our son told the truth, learned knowledge through this incident, maintained his self-esteem, and learned a long ......

And what I feel is that if I, as Liu Xing's parents, can I still talk so lightly and communicate with him when I face my son's "cheating", mischief, and bad grades, and then choose to take into account the child's personality and children's psychological changes to personalize education?

Theoretically, this is good for children, but I am still learning and exploring myself......

Today I happened to see an article by Xiaomi, her friend Grace's 16-year-old daughter Pinkie, open***, writes books with her mother, shoots short**, learns editing, and practices photography techniques ......

Xiaomi said that such a pinkie is inseparable from the influence of grace.

After reading it, I feel that such a wise mother, such a child cultivated by parents, regardless of personality, learning ability, psychological endurance, adaptability, because of early learning, I think it will make people feel amazing.

Such parents have given me a lot of inspiration, regardless of grades, but to have love in their hearts, love for life, be able to distinguish between right and wrong, can teach their children to distinguish between right and wrong, and guide them to have the correct three views.

In addition, continuous learning is also an excellent example of leading by example, leading the spirit of the family.

The TV series "Family with Children" can be said to be well-knownThe protagonists in the play have very good living conditions, a life that everyone envies, if we also have a living environment like "Family with Children" in real life, I think it should be happy. Let's analyze it together.

First of all, the living environment of "Family with Children" can be said to be very wealthy, the parents' jobs are very stable, and they have a fixed income, so they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and they can be said to be a well-off family, first of all, they are already rich materially. Therefore, if it were a real life in an environment like "Family with Children", I think it would be very happy.

Secondly, "Family with Children" has a good family atmosphere, parents are very enlightened people, and basically they can be fair and upright, so it is important to find a good family atmosphere. In the play, although they are a reorganized family, they are very warm and harmonious. If you live in an environment like "Family with Children", I think you should be very happy, and the family is harmonious and beautiful, after all, the family and everything is prosperous.

Finally, it is also important for the family to have a good way of educating them. In the play, we can also see that although Liu Xing's grades are not as good as Xia Xue's, and he is also very naughty, as a parent, Liu Xing does not have a little special treatment, but more care, and does not put too much pressure on the child. This may be the opposite of cooperating with some family education in reality, in today's society, many parents are asking their children not to lose at the starting line, so it will give their children a lot of pressure.

And "Family with Children" is the opposite. The parents in the play give their children more care than mandatory requirements, hoping that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Therefore, in the real life environment of "Family with Children", I think it should make it happy.

What do you think? The above is a personal opinion only.

Parents like this are more open-minded, and the education of their children is relatively relaxed, and the three children are also very smart and cute, and the living environment of the family is of course very happy.