How do you find the right match?

My personal opinion is that in life to help people who can help, this can not only promote themselves but also calm their temper, because it is easy to be misunderstood when helping people, but will exercise their temper, even if they are wronged and misunderstood, they can be calm and indifferent, this is particularly important, women are most valued in addition to their appearance is their temper, if you make many people realize that these two points are good, it is difficult to be single for half a year, because no matter when, women with good looks and good temper are scarce, How could it be left. ‍‍

This kind of thing can be encountered but not sought, when contacting the opposite sex, it is important to understand the other party's three views, whether they are similar to themselves, and whether the other party is the type they like.

Try to mess with him as much as possible, a person who really loves you, someone who can accept you, can accept all your little temper, if you mess with him, he will comfort you, and has been comforting you, which means that you have found the right person. ‍‍

I was introduced to my wife by a friend, at that time I was not very rich working in a factory but it was okay to support myself, and I didn't think about finding a girlfriend or what, but a friend said that he wanted to introduce me to let me meet, I dressed very casually, because I didn't take it seriously, when I saw my wife, I felt that I wanted to get married, I wanted to chase this girl, I wanted to give this girl a home, I began to chase, and finally we were together, and now the family of four is very happy and warm, so I can't come in a hurry, Sometimes you have to fight for the right person. ‍‍

It is consistent with their three views, and with a common goal, a common hobby, and a common ideal, so that both parties can live a happier and better life together. ‍‍

First of all, you must achieve a satisfactory state, at least financially independent, empathetic, and have a state of liking and appreciation, in order to find a suitable partner. ‍‍

Wait, looking for a partner must be rather lacking than excessive, the right person will always appear later, don't worry, he will always come. ‍‍

In fact, there is no need to cater too much to the outside world, the most important thing is to do a good job and improve your own value, when you are good enough, it is often others who want to know you. ‍‍

Enhance your own value, if you close your eyes all day and wait for pie to fall from the sky, the person you find will never be satisfied. ‍‍

Specifically, if a person wants to find a suitable object for himself, he needs to start from these aspects:

First, see if the two of them can talk.

As lifelong partners, it is best for two people to live together to have something to say, and have a certain common language, although husband and wife live together for a long time, busy with firewood, rice, oil and salt, eating, drinking and Lazar, but necessary communication and exchange are still indispensable.

If two people often can't talk about going together, can't talk together, talk about each other when they talk, and make awkward conversations when they chat, it's not okay after all, which is called a communication barrier.

Of course, on the basis of chatting, it would be more perfect if they could fit and understand each other on a spiritual and spiritual level.

Second, look at whether the personalities of the two people are compatible.

In principle, everyone's personality is different, and there is no good or bad, acute has the advantages of acute children, and chronic children have the advantages of chronic children. Introversion has the advantage of being introverted, and extroversion has the power of extroversion.

As a partner, it mainly depends on whether they are compatible with each other, whether they have complementary personalities or similar personalities, as long as two people feel comfortable together, do not hate each other, and like each other very much, this is no problem.

Third, see if the three views of two people are the same.

When it comes to the problem of three views, Brother Shan still says that it is not easy to reach the height of the three views of consumption, and in life, many people's understanding of the three views is still relatively non-standardized.

In fact, men and women with inconsistent views can't go together at all, which is why there will be things like and people in groups.

The truth. Although humans are social animals, not everyone in this world can be integrated, and two people who become partners need to transcend many tests and become the same type of people with a high degree of convergence in order to become objects.

Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness and sweetness of love.

There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Ask both parents for their opinions to ensure family harmony.

Marriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to fall in love, and marriage is not only a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.

Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them. Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage.

When you're in love, don't think about getting married right away. Marriage requires careful consideration, not just the immediate happiness, if you want to live happily in the future, you must take the pre-marital issues seriously.

There are many issues to consider when getting married, and "family, hobbies, and personality" are all serious problems, and if you are ready, you don't have to worry about getting married.

1.Social platforms: There are many social platforms now, such as social, dating, dating apps, etc., which can help you expand your social circle and meet more people. You can choose the right platform for you according to your interests and needs.

2.Realistic social occasions: In addition to the ** social platform, real social occasions are also a good place to meet newcomers. You can participate in various social events, parties, social groups, etc., to expand your social circle and increase the opportunity to meet new people.

3.Friend introductions: Your friends and family may know some single people and can ask them for introductions. This way you can meet some people who share common interests and backgrounds, and it can also increase your trust and sense of security.

In short, finding a partner requires a variety of efforts and attempts, and you can expand your social circle and increase the opportunity to meet new people through social platforms, real social occasions, and friend introductions. At the same time, you also need to keep an open mind and patience, don't rush things, believe in fate, and believe that you will meet the right person.

Trust. Someone asked: I like someone, but I don't think he loves me enough, even though he says he loves me very much.

In fact, I have asked myself this kind of question, and I once felt this way, and then I learned that if you feel that the person you are with does not love you, there are probably two possibilities, either he really doesn't love you, or you don't have confidence in yourself.

Some people, although they say that they love you very much, but in fact, they don't love you, they just use some untrue words to create an atmosphere of love for you, but the inside is empty, because he doesn't love you, so he can't do the act of loving you, he can only deceive you through words.

There must be such people, such as often saying nice things to you, but once they need to do something for you, they will find all kinds of excuses to shirk.

Of course, some people really love you, but because you are not confident enough in yourself, you always wonder why he loves you, and in a way, you feel that you are not worthy of the other person.

Care. Trust is an important point in relationships, and it is also important to care. If you really love him, you have to care about him, if you don't know how to care about him, then even if you say you love him very much, he won't feel it.

Because love is sensitive to action, just say no action, no one can be sure that it is true love.

Some people are actually afraid to give in a relationship, especially people who have been hurt in a relationship, they always feel that they have not reciprocated their efforts, because they are afraid of the same result.

However, if you really love someone, but let yourself not care about the other person because you are afraid of giving, then the other person is likely to think that you don't really love him, maybe you have missed someone who could have held hands with you for a lifetime.

If you love someone, you should care about him and do what you want to do to him, and no one can be sure of the result, but if you really treat someone well when you love him, no matter what the result is, you will not have too many regrets when you think about it, and you will not regret it.

On the other hand, if you love someone, but you don't care about him all the time, and you don't do something to express your love because you are afraid of being let down, then when you think about it, most of you will regret it.

The 11 ways to find a partner are as follows:

1. Look for a partner like you did when you were looking for a job.

2. Prepare a "resume", understand yourself and be clear about your demands for the other half, such as height, appearance, education, hometown, personality, etc.

3. The way to find a partner: introduction by family and friends; Combine your own interests and implement the strategy of going out, such as playing badminton, fitness, and running. There may be a different kind of unexpected surprise.

4. Take the initiative to go out and contact some people of the opposite sex of the right age, whether it is your colleague relationship or customer relationship.

5. Mobilize the people around you to help you find it.

6. Don't impulsively veto some people, after all, there are fewer people who fall in love at first sight, unless they are particularly beautiful or handsome, this is a minority after all, and in the end you have to slowly understand that there are more feelings.

7. Learn to recognize people, quickly understand a person, some people can see a person clearly in an instant, and some people will only realize it after getting married or having children.

8. Self-confidence, this is very, very important, believe in yourself, there is always a suitable one for yourself. You can find a job, and I believe you can find a partner. If others are dissatisfied with you, it's not that you can't do it, it's that the other party is not suitable for you.

9. Learn to show yourself, and the peacock is still open. For example, hairstyles, clothing, shoes, skin care, and interesting life experiences to share.

10. Don't exclude blind dates, it's just a quick way to save time. Otherwise, it's over before it starts, and it's a waste of your own time.

11. Be bold, thick-skinned, and have a fine heart.

We should not wait for redemption when we have nothing, we should work hard to climb the rock and face the wind with the same like-minded people. When we meet, we should join hands with the people we love on the road to progress. There is no one you want right now, the right person you really have, in your bright future.

1.Online chatting, now there are some dating friends with the nature of matchmaking**, you can try.

3.Let go of the wind, ask friends, its bend yard can always make friends in work or life, but the friendship is deep or shallow, there are not many people who love to take care of this aspect of gossip, you can tell this matter to the people you trust, let them help, maybe it is because of this Bu Ming thing has become a lifelong friend;

On the other hand, you can also put the news of the person you want to find and chat with a few people, and after a month, someone will give you a message. My social circle is relatively small, so when choosing a marriage partner, I can let my friends and relatives introduce it, so that the marriage partner is more knowledgeable, and because it is introduced by the people around me, it can be more reliable and conducive to future development.

4.Take part in some activities and meet friends. Nowadays, there are many people who love various activities in their lives, such as people who organize weekend outings and play ball together.

Not only can you expand your circle of friends, but you can also enrich your life, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, and maybe get to know your other half.

5.In fact, if you have a life, a hobby, and a circle of friends, it is much more convenient to find a partner.

6.If you really want to get married, then going to a matchmaking is actually a good choice, in fact, this is also a kind of fate, there is no need to exclude, more formal matchmaking has a good method, the right choice is made, and the appearance does not look annoying, in fact, half the success.