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Talk to your father. Fathers must not use swear words when educating their daughters, otherwise they will have a bad impact on their daughter's outlook on life.
Adverse effects. It's very refreshing to vent emotions when swearing, but it also teaches the child badly, and waits for the daughter to reach the rebellious period.
They also use swear words to swear their fathers, so talk to them well and reduce the number of times they swear in front of their daughters.
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It is better to stop it on the spot, parents teach their children not to appear swearing, otherwise it will be harmful to themoutlook on lifeAdverse effects. Swearing may be very emotional catharsis at the time, but it also teaches the children badly, and when they arriveRebellious periodI will also scold you with swear words, and if you can't beat you when the time comes, you will be angry.
Mom should discuss with Dad, not use swearing, be more patient, educate the children seriously, and give them an analysis of what they are wrong with, and they can't do it again in the future. It is best to be friends with your children, so that they can tell you what they do not understand about learning and society, so as to avoid them from making many fearless mistakes.
At the same time, tell you what you expect from him, and you want him to be able to control his language and not always say something nasty. Let Dad realize that his language is already thereVerbal violenceand give him a few simple and easy ways to change with him.
Children are prone to psychological distortions:
The child is in a violent language environment for a long time.
They naturally absorb this energy as well. Usually every word and deed exudes negative energy, and no one likes people with this kind of energy. In particular, some excellent social circles will stay away from this kind of person.
This makes the children lose a lot of opportunities, and their appearance of foul language is indeed very unqualified. When they grow up, they will even be laughed at, but the child will not realize the problem.
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Hello, this behavior of the daughter is indeed not very filial, which shows that she does not realize the importance of her father. The specific solution is as follows: First, the father should not pamper his daughter, but should have a little temper to face his daughter and suppress his daughter's anger.
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Summary. Fierce criticism of education. Filial piety is the first, giving back gratitude is a person's obligation and good quality, the grace of nurturing is unforgettable, communicating with her, scolding people with vicious language is not right, not to mention the father who gave birth to herself, I hope she can understand.
Don't tolerate the child's behavior, excessive tolerance will make the child become arrogant and selfish, they will think that his needs need to be met unconditionally by the parents, if not satisfied, they will take drastic behavior, on the one hand, the parents will lose their prestige in front of the child, speak without weight, on the other hand, it will increase the occurrence of the child's rebellion.
Fierce criticism of education. Filial piety is the first, giving back gratitude is a person's obligation and good quality, the grace of nurturing is unforgettable, communicating with her, it is not right to scold people in the language of vicious accusations, not to mention the father who gave birth to herself, I hope she can understand. Don't tolerate the behavior of the child before the child, excessive tolerance will make the child become arrogant and selfish, they will think that his needs need to be met unconditionally by the parents, if not satisfied, they will take drastic behavior, on the one hand, the parents will lose their prestige in front of the child, the wisdom of the voice has no weight, on the other hand, it will increase the occurrence of the child's rebellion.
The daughter's behavior is indeed not very filial, which shows that she does not realize the importance of her father. The specific solution is as follows: First, the father should not pamper his daughter, but should have a little temper to face his daughter and suppress his daughter's anger.
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Hello dear! We'll be glad to answer for you! Two ways:
Let parents change or let themselves change. 1. Talk to your parents when you are calm, explain that you don't like your parents swearing and swearing you very much, and you can also explain this idea to your father, or your grandparents, let them help you discuss this matter with your mother, and use everyone's pressure to make your parents change. 2. Strive not to let parents get angry and abuse, parents abuse themselves mostly because the most children do not reach a good level, so try to meet the standards of parents, parents will be calm and reduce the situation of abuse.
There is also the fact that parents like to swear may be the cultivation of personal literacy and habits, sometimes it is not insulting, and the feelings they think are all subjective speculations, strong their glass hearts, and have a certain resistance to their parents' swearing, so that you will slowly find that in fact, your parents are just knives and tofu hearts.
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Summary. Hello, parents use swear words to abuse their children to see the situation, as the saying goes: beating is kissing, scolding is love.
In our traditional culture, especially the parents, most of them advocate "filial piety under the stick", and they are too harsh on their children, and they begin to scold and scold when they are not happy, and due to their own quality and knowledge limitations, sometimes it is inevitable to speak unpleasantly. In this case, you can take the initiative to negotiate with your parents and tell them what you think and attitude. Generally enlightened parents are acceptable.
There is also a possibility that the parents did this behavior unconsciously, or maybe the people around them did it, and they didn't even think there was anything wrong with it, and at this time, they could clearly express their discomfort. Except for a very few very strange parents, most parents still love their children, for the good of their children, since they open their mouths to scold you, there must be a reason and ignition fuse, then you might as well follow the principle of "right things not people", tell them that scolding people can not solve the problem, and anger is not good for the body, which is more important, they will definitely be able to distinguish.
Hello, parents use swear words to abuse their children to see the situation, as the saying goes: beating is kissing, scolding is love. In our traditional culture, especially the parents, most of them advocate "filial piety under the stick", and they are too harsh on their children, and they begin to scold and scold as soon as they have a bad heart, and due to their own quality and knowledge limitations, sometimes it is inevitable to speak unpleasantly.
In this case, you can take the initiative to negotiate with your parents and tell them your thoughts and attitudes. Generally enlightened parents are acceptable. There is also a possibility that the parents' behavior is unconsciously made, maybe the people around them are doing this, and they don't even think there is anything wrong with this, at this time, they can clearly express their discomfort.
Except for a very few very strange parents, most parents still love their children, for the good of their children, since they open their mouths to scold you, there must be a reason and ignition fuse, then you might as well follow the principle of "right things not people", tell them that scolding people can not solve the problem, and anger is not good for the body, which is more important, they will definitely be able to distinguish.
Can you tell us more about that?
1. Learn to control emotions and abuse children, which will hurt the self-esteem of children. The child is young and immature, as parents, we should be more reasonable and tolerant.
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If parents use swear words to abuse their children, the first thing to pay attention to is the following 4 points:
Frequent verbal abuse of a child can make the child vulnerable, have low self-esteem, and become more and more distant from their parents. Secondly, it will make children feel lonely, it is difficult to be confident, and they are reluctant to communicate with more children last time. Then he will also make the child rebellious, causing a counterproductive effect.
Finally, if parents often use swear words to abuse their children, children will think that this behavior is normal, and after continuous reinforcement, it will affect the child's relationship between husband and wife, parent-child relationship, friendship and affection, etc.
Although I don't know if this question is asked by parents or children, if it is asked by parents, it must be with guilt and helplessness, if it is asked by children, emmmm, I have seen a lot of questions before and asked again If parents often abuse their children, can they call the police?
Then this problem, in fact, is okay, but he can't solve this problem from the root, because when the police come, they can only educate your parents, and then ** educate the problem. But as a child, as long as you are biological, this abuse is also to make you better, for this kind of abusive education method, since you don't approve of it, then you can let the teacher intervene, instead of your own method here is not very effective, but it will hurt the family.
If the parents are asking this question, since they are very guilty, you may be able to consult this educational issue and talk to the teacher about the child's performance in school, instead of blindly abusive. Of course, well, the next step is definitely to go for counseling if the first two don't work.
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Summary. Hello, the father often scolds his daughter, there must be something wrong with the parent-child relationship. Usually the father loves his daughter the most, if the father scolds his daughter, it must be a problem with the parent-child relationship, it may be that the daughter has done something bad in her own growth, the father feels that he is far away from his own requirements, and is disappointed, in this case he will scold his daughter.
No matter what the circumstances, we do not advocate scolding our daughters, especially if we scold them often.
Good afternoon, dear.
Hello, the father often scolds his daughter, it must be a problem with the parent-child relationship. Normally, the father loves his daughter the most, if the father scolds his daughter, it must be the parent-child relationship Zheng Shuchan problem, it may be that the daughter has done something bad in her own growth, the father feels that he is far away from his own requirements, and feels disappointed, in this case he will scold his daughter. No matter what the circumstances, we do not advocate scolding our daughters who shout dust, especially if they often scold.
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