My boyfriend has been reminiscing about the death of a loved one, how can I comfort him?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This time. You don't say something about people who die and can't be resurrected. Words of mourning.

    That's his relative, not just a person. How can you say that if you are not sad, you will not be sad. You'd better not talk too much.

    Clockwork a message or leave a message. Just say. He must want to see you strong now.

    If he doesn't return. You don't want to send it. People don't want to talk much at this time.

    You talk a lot. It only makes him more annoyed. What he needs now is to be quiet.

    Take care of the things at home yourself. You can't say much. A word of comfort is enough.

    Don't hit ** all the time. Wait until this thing is over. I'm comforting her.

    Arguably. Your comfort now is to no avail. It's just a superficial action.

    Try to talk as little as possible at this time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My dear, there is no resurrection from death! Take care! Do what you can to do something, there are no regrets in our hearts, we all have to live well, cherish every day, the impermanence of life, let us know that everyone will have a day away.

    My heart hurts to see you so sad, but my dear, I still have to advise you, don't be too painful, okay? I'll always be with you, hug.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find him more things to do, so that when he gets busy, he will quickly forget these unhappy things, and don't pay too much attention to them, the more he pays attention, the more he will touch the heartstrings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The death of your boyfriend's relatives has been recalled, and you can accompany him to reminisce.

    Then keep him busy, and he won't have time to recall.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, first of all, it is necessary to rely on time to grind out, men are sometimes very fragile, and it is normal to not be able to get out for a while, you can ask him out to eat, climb the mountain, go to see different scenery, find something to do together, let him see that there are still people around him who need him to cherish, and he will understand. Sometimes it only takes a split second to come out. Hope it helps!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This shows that this relative has a very high status in his heart, but if he can't get out of this shadow memory, how can he take care of the responsibilities he needs to take care of now, take care of the people who need to be taken care of and himself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The consolation sentence for the death of a boyfriend's loved one is as follows:1. Birth, old age, sickness and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; Since ancient times, no one has died, as long as he always lives in my heart.

    2. Hurry up and make your mood better, you see that even today's sunshine is so bright and brilliant, and they are trying to expel your troubles and anxiety for you, I hope your gloomy mood will brighten up at this moment to meet a better tomorrow.

    3. Repay the old man with practical actions, and only by working hard can he be worthy of his spirit in the sky.

    4. Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and death is her ultimate rule, so she doesn't have to be too sad.

    5. The dead rest in peace, and the living must muster up the courage to face life again, I will be by your side and support you! Condolences change!

    6. Relatives will watch you from heaven and accompany you. Loved ones will always be there for you. It's just that you can't see him anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's his relative, not just a person. How can you say that if you are not sad, you will not be sad. You'd better not talk too much.

    Clockwork a message or leave a message. Just say. Your dad must want to see you strong right now.

    If he doesn't return. You don't want to send it. People don't want to talk much at this time.

    You talk a lot. It only makes him more annoyed. What he needs now is to be quiet.

    Take care of the things at home yourself. You can't say much. A word of comfort is enough.

    Don't hit ** all the time. Wait until this thing is over. I'm comforting her.

    Arguably. Your comfort now is to no avail. It's just a superficial action.

    Try to talk as little as possible at this time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many kinds of comfort, heart, life and so on, you can try to relax with him more, talk more about happy topics, or persuade him from the body and mind, after all, a person's life is short, grasp every day, grasp every period, people have no immortality, cherish every time, from now on, also cherish every person around you.

    1. The one who went has gone, but he must not want us living people to live in misery. He must have hoped that we, after expressing a moderate amount of sorrow, should still live well. He will bless us in another world.

    2. Your loved one has passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like you to be so depressed.

    3. Your relatives are just in places you can't see, but they can see you, and they don't want to make you have a bad time because of them.

    4. Loved ones will always be by your side.

    It's just that you can't see him anymore. It is normal for everyone to feel the pain of losing a loved one, and we can only pray silently in our hearts for the deceased. God is fair to everyone, and when you lose something, you gain something valuable.

    5. There are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, who would want to think of these things? How can it not be sad to lose the person who used to live happily together every day, I think if he sees you in heaven without eating.

    6. People can't be resurrected after death, I know you're sad and sad, but life still has to be the same. In real life, time will not stop because you lose someone, cry out if you want to cry, and my shoulder will lend you to lean.

    7. There are many joys and sorrows in life, indifferent when disappointed, calm when proud, and everything calm. Let's treat life with a fair heart, and I wish you a good mood! Forget about the unhappy things!

    Even God thinks that sadness and troubles do not belong to you. Try to get yourself out of it and you'll feel the sun warmer today than it was yesterday! Today's sky is bluer than yesterday!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is indeed a big blow to a person, and he very much wants to be comforted by you at this time.

    The deceased wants you to live a better life.

    Tell the other person that the loved one you left also hopes that you can live well in the world, and that he will live forever in your heart. He doesn't want to see you cry and see you sad. He wants you to live happily ever after.

    The deceased is always in your heart.

    Departed loved ones, just life left you. But in the spiritual world, he will always live in your spiritual world, always in your heart world, never leave for a moment, always accompany you, witness your growth.

    Life needs to move forward.

    The lost relatives cannot be resurrected, but life must move forward, you have to continue to live and work strongly, so you have to pick up the sadness, face life bravely, you can't be hit by this incident, you have to be strong, it is the right track for yourself not to live.

    Birth, old age, sickness and death are the norm

    Birth, old age, sickness and death are the norm in nature, a natural law, no one is immune, we must look down on this fact and look away a little. Actually, everyone knows this, but it needs to be reminded when you are sad.

    Spend more time with each other.

    Maybe the other person's heart is very fragile and he can't get out of his grief for a long time. What they need more than words is companionship. We can spend more time with each other and help them get through their grief.

    The deceased has ascended to the fairy world, and the living mourn smoothly. The teachings of your loved ones will always be with you, and your mind will always have the smiling faces of your loved ones, and you should live more actively and healthily for him, so that your relatives will not worry about you in heaven.

    We can't change birth, old age, sickness and death, the only thing we can do is to be strong. Cherish the loved ones around you and love them more, and you can't always be immersed in grief. The good life we have at the moment is the best consolation for our loved ones.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No matter how much comfort you try to comfort a loved one at home, you can't make up for the pain of losing your loved one, but as friends, we should still take care of and accompany him as much as possible to give him a little comfort in his heart.

    1. Quiet companionship.

    You can accompany him quietly, after all, any language is pale and powerless at this time, it is better to be by his side, get along quietly, be silent or take a walk with him, so that it will feel better to have a friend by your side.

    2. Empathy.

    If you have had a similar experience, you will understand his feelings, so you can also tell him how he came out of that sad and sad day, so that he can understand that life still has to go on.

    3. Care and companionship.

    In this case, his life may be chaotic for a period of time, and his daily life is irregular, so you should accompany and care for him more, see what he needs, help as much as possible, and take care of the diet and daily life of friends.

    4. Go with the flow.

    Although the reality of the death of relatives is very cruel, it is still necessary to accept the reality, after all, this is also the law of nature, and it should be natural, not to mention that everyone was very filial when the old man was there, and now that he is gone, there should be no regrets, so that friends can be relieved.

    5. Distraction.

    Although the loss of a loved one is very painful, you can't always indulge in it, so find a way to distract your friends and don't think about sad things, such as distracting some of your energy from work or children, so that the pain will be lessened.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At this time, it is better not to talk too much, you can send him a message or leave a message. Let's just say that xx (the deceased relatives on behalf of) must want to see you strong now, I know you are sad now, but you still have me, I will always be with you, if he does not return. You don't want to send any more messages.

    Because people don't want to talk more at this time, of course, they also hope that they don't bother him all the time, so talking more will only make him more annoyed. What he needs now is to be quiet. Take care of the things at home yourself.

    Wait until this thing is over. I'm keeping him company.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, there is no need for more comfort at this time, because comfort is useless, and people cannot be resurrected after death. At this time, it is best to be in quiet company. It's good to spend this time with him, and you don't need too many words.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't be sad, life and death are natural from others, you and me, I will accompany you for the rest of your life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    At this time, it is best for you to feel comforted by your boyfriend, and you can also help him if he needs anything at home. If you are able to appear in front of him and his family as a girlfriend, it is undoubtedly the greatest support and comfort for your boyfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When your boyfriend and relatives pass away, you can only let him mourn and change, and then let him rest well and pay attention to his body. Some people are too sad at this time and affect their bodies.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can comfort him in this way, you talk about his relatives, I hope he can be happy, so that he will not be so sad. Sister told him to cheer up so that he could be happy every day.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The best thing to do is to care more about him, don't mention that person, and let him be quiet, what he needs most at this time is rest. What is needed most is for you to be by his side, take care of him, and after a long time, he will be better.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Spend more time with him, cook him something delicious, accompany him to do what he wants, guide him slowly, or accompany him out for a walk.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't bother him yet, let him grieve for a while. And take good care of him, be gentle. And don't mention the things that made him hurt the scene.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. When your boyfriend's family member dies, he may feel very depressed and sad, at this time, you can consider the following points to comfort him: Express your care and support:

    Let him know that you are there for him, care about him, and be willing to support him. Tell him that you will always be there for him and do your best to help him through it. Listen to his feelings:

    Give him the space to express his emotions and let him speak freely about his feelings and thoughts. When he needs to talk, you can listen patiently to him and give comfort and support. Practical help:

    Provide practical help when he needs it, for example, take care of some household chores, accompany him to the funeral, etc. Avoid over-comforting: Don't try to make him happy with over-comforting.

    He needs time to process his emotions, and your role is to support him and accompany him, rather than using excessive words to make him happy. Respect his feelings: Everyone deals with grief differently, respect his feelings and the way he handles them.

    Understand his situation and needs as much as possible. Most importantly, let him know that he is not alone and that you will always be there for him and support him through this difficult time.

    When your boyfriend's family member dies and he may be feeling very frustrated and sad, here are a few things you can consider to comfort him: Show your concern and support: Let him know that you are there for him, care about him, and be willing to support him early or later.

    Tell him that you will always be there for him and do your best to help him through it. Listen to his feelings: Give him the space to express his emotions and let him speak freely about his feelings and thoughts.

    When he needs to talk, you can listen patiently to him and give comfort and support. Provide practical help: When he needs it, provide some practical help, for example, take care of some household chores for Lu Jian, accompany him to the funeral, etc.

    Avoid over-comforting: Don't try to make him happy with over-comforting. He needs time to process his emotions, and your role is to support him and accompany him, rather than using excessive words to make him happy.

    Respect his feelings: Everyone deals with grief differently, respect his feelings and the way he handles them. Understand his situation and needs as much as possible.

    Most importantly, let him know that he is not alone and that you will always be there for him and support him through this difficult time.

    Now what to say to him.

    Remember that your feelings matter, and if you want to talk or just need a shoulder to lean on, I'm always here to listen to you.

    Don't be overly comforting, just be by his side and give him time and space.

    I know you're sad now Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and death is her ultimate rule, is this kind of hair okay.

    If you need any help or support, I will do my best to help you, and she will always live in our hearts.

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