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Anonymous users2024-02-11Just two words - happy! The harvest of the New Year is happiness, I feel happy, and when I see everyone happy, it is a great harvest. The meaning of the New Year is to be happy, the happiness of reunion, the happiness of the country's prosperity, and the happiness of the blessings of relatives and friends.
The consumption of the New Year is based on everyone's happiness and their own happiness, there is no fixed model, as long as they can be happy, even if they drink boiled water and eat Chinese cabbage, then everyone is happy, and the goal will be achieved. Nowadays, people feel more and more bored during the New Year, but they don't pay attention to these two words - happiness. Is it because of money?
It's not that there are no days without money, so why is it so interesting that there was no money in the previous years? It's because people were happy at that time. Why are people no longer happy now?
In fact, when it comes to eating, who can eat as much as possible, and catch up with the New Year, it will be even more unappetizing, but most people don't want to be happy first, but think about the grade not too low, don't consume too badly, don't let people look down on you, and you compare with him, compare with him, compare and go, no happiness, only money, how boring it is. No matter what, happiness is always the first, even if the food is almost good, but the friendship cannot be diluted, and the family relationship cannot be alienated.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Sympathize with the landlord and wish a happy new year.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I am a parent, and I can also understand the difficulties of your children, it is not easy to work outside the home, the time is tight, the distance is long, and you have to face a certain amount of financial pressure, it is really not easy to go home.
But then again, you also think about your parents, the Chinese New Year is our traditional folk festival, every family wants to be reunited, separated for a year, parents also want to see their children, you don't go home, it will greatly snub the long-awaited heart of your parents.
The point to be made here is about money, most people say that they have no money in their hands, and even have debts on their backs and have no face to go home. In fact, you don't know the hearts of your parents, most parents don't want their children to go home for the New Year, they know that you can't earn much money, as long as people go home, even if the child looks like a beggar, the parents will not dislike it!
I also have children and daughters, and I also work outside, but they all work at home, and it doesn't involve the problem of long distances, if they are in a distant place, because they can't afford to go home for the New Year, I will send them money to let them go home for reunion.
Today's children lack communication with their parents, and the pressure in their hearts is not told to their parents, and they hide it in their hearts and bear it silently, which is a rather unhealthy heart. Remember, children, the pressure is not borne by you alone, but also by your parents, your family, who will support your future life with a heart of love, not on your own.
Today's children, whether they get married or buy a house, there are a few of these major events in life that can be completed alone without the help of their parents, and most of them have to be realized with the help of their parents. What does this mean? It shows that parents love you, and they prove their love for their children with practical actions!
You have strong self-esteem, love face, and only hope that you can return to your hometown in style, the starting point is good, but these are too far-fetched reasons not to go home for the New Year, and you can't appease your parents. I hope you will act according to the idea of having money and not having money to go home for the New Year, and don't break the hearts of your parents.
If you have money to pay for the journey, you have to go home for the New Year!
If you don't have money to pay for the journey, you have to go home for the New Year with your parents!
This is the common wish of all parents!
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Some people are happy and some are sad about the New Year, what are the reasons why wandering wanderers do not go home for the New Year? 1. If you don't make any money, you say that you have money or not, and you go home for the New Year. But I came to the city to make money, but I didn't make any money all year round, even if my parents didn't care, but my heart would be faintly troubled, and I subconsciously told myself that I didn't deserve to go home, so I felt that my goal was not completed, so I didn't bother to go home.
So what about the money spent all year round? Many people can't say it, in fact, the rent and diet in big cities are relatively high, plus people have to invest a lot all year round, and their meager salary naturally can't save money. There is no money to go home is also a major reason, after all, it costs money to go home as soon as you go home, which is really frustrating, and the choice of these people is to wait until next year to earn money and then go home.
Second, I don't want to be judged by relatives and have to face a series of torture from relatives and friends when I go home for the New Year, although they have no malicious intentions, but it is difficult for us to go to those problems, if we mix well, it is natural, and if we don't mix well, we will make ourselves very embarrassed. Especially in a village, a person knows your story, basically every village knows, and then after various interpretations, I was originally a waiter in the city, and in the end, the people who heard it might say that you are a restaurant at best, and a street sweeper at worst. If it weren't for the social cow, what a person was most afraid of was the sudden concern and greetings, in order to avoid this kind of thing, we chose not to go home for the New Year.
Third, the company does not have a holiday, not all types of work are on holiday every festival, especially the service industry and retail industry is the best time for their business during the New Year's holiday, if you have a holiday, you will lose an opportunity to make a big profit, and in order to stay in the company, the wanderer has to stay in the company's store to work every year. Fourth, some of the sick people not only did not make any money all year round, but also made themselves scarred, dragging their heavy bodies to lie at home or in the hospital, wanting to go home but having a weak heart. Therefore, the body is always the first place in the field, don't put the body in the second place in order to earn a little more, which will only outweigh the losses.
This is a contradictory topic, think about it, there is actually a problem of communication with your parents, for example, you have been back once before, and the time spent is relatively long, so that your parents can also know that your filial piety and you are not easy outside, from the parents, it is enough to go back to see them for a long time, and usually report safety and so on, at least I think so, if you go back at the end of the year, there are indeed a lot of practical problems there, such as tickets are not easy to buy, Go back to the New Year, the funds can be imagined, so mail 1k yuan to your parents, choose not to go back to feel more in line with your current situation, of course, if you are on your own or go back, save yourself alone outside, this feeling of 30 years is very uncomfortable. I have personal experience, think about it for yourself, what I said is just for reference.
I told you not to tell your mother in law
It is normal to want to live with your parents during the New Year, consider it from more small aspects, you may wish to discuss it with your wife, if you have enough holidays, you can spend a few days in your mother's house and your own home, so that the elderly on both sides can see their children, and the parents all hope that their children are around, think about it from another angle, discuss it well, and hope you go well.
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