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Anonymous users2024-02-09This year's Spring Festival is Valentine's Day and Spring Festival, it may be because of this reason, your brother wants to accompany his girlfriend, because if his girlfriend works outside alone and does not go home, she may be lonely, and your two children have you to accompany your parents, so your brother made this decision, after all, your girlfriend will run and her parents will not run. To understand, although it seems a bit heavy on parents, it is also reasonable. In fact, if your brother's girlfriend is willing, it will be better for him to invite his girlfriend to come over and celebrate the New Year with his parents, hehe, to be romantic, the two of them can go out to be romantic, and it doesn't have to be with their parents all day.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's understandable, if you don't feel that your parents are lonely, you can help them find another half.
Because they are not married yet, if they do, it will be a problem to always go to their girlfriend's house for the New Year, but it is understandable to go once every few years.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07We find it useful.
The key is how you feel.
It's normal to be angry and unhappy, it's not a big deal.
Since you're here to ask, explain how much you're still a little bit upset about yourself, "Okay? Should it be? "
I think it's okay, as long as you don't overdo it.
Feel it, let it take its course!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Your brother wants to spend Valentine's Day with his girlfriend, because the first day of the new year happens to be Valentine's Day, February 14th.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Ha, maybe they should get married!
He must have felt insecure!
I also think he's going a little too far.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Hehe. I don't think it should be either.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03It depends on the actual situation
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Anonymous users2024-02-02In fact, for parents, it is the happiest thing for their children to be able to go home together during the New Year, you can tell your brothers and sisters that your parents hope that you can go home for the New Year, and hope that they can come back to accompany their parents, because parents are now older, and they hope to be able to spend more time with their children.
In fact, there will be a big difference between spending the New Year outside and going back to your hometown for the New Year, after all, the environment in your hometown is not as good as the city, and there are few tourist attractions or places to eat and drink like those in your hometown, and the traffic in your hometown is also relatively inconvenient, but this is not a reason to go home and spend the New Year with friends outside and not choose to go back to your hometown for the New Year. In my opinion, no matter what kind of situation you encounter, you should not do it, or choose not to go home during the Chinese New Year, after all, home is actually the warmest place for parents, and what they want most in their hearts is to get the whole family together during the New Year, because it will be a very happy thing. After all, the Spring Festival is our traditional festival, which is to reunite with the family, which is the true meaning of the Spring Festival, so you should choose to go home during this time period, and secondly, your parents are also very eager for you to go home.
The second persuasion is that if the son wants to raise and the relatives are not there, you can tell your brothers and sisters that you should take more time to go home to accompany them while your parents are still there, after all, tomorrow and accidents never know which one will come first, and there will be a home when the parents are still there, if the parents are not there, then the home will be gone, and at that time you want to go home for the New Year, it is estimated that there is no previous feeling, at this time you may regret it, and you will also hate yourself for why you didn't go home for the New Year. Therefore, we should cherish the time we spend with our parents, and this will be the happiest and most romantic thing in the world. It's okay to spend the New Year outside with friends, and the same is true for other festivals.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Playing the family card, I usually spend more time with my friends, but the time to accompany my parents is only a few days a year, how much time can I spend with my parents in this life?
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Anonymous users2024-01-31I think you can say that your parents have always missed you and cooked a lot of good food for you this time, and you should go home to your parents.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30In fact, I think they don't listen to other people's advice when they make this move. I think it's better to let things go with the flow, and it's true that some people think differently now.
This is a contradictory topic, think about it, there is actually a problem of communication with your parents, for example, you have been back once before, and the time spent is relatively long, so that your parents can also know that your filial piety and you are not easy outside, from the parents, it is enough to go back to see them for a long time, and usually report safety and so on, at least I think so, if you go back at the end of the year, there are indeed a lot of practical problems there, such as tickets are not easy to buy, Go back to the New Year, the funds can be imagined, so mail 1k yuan to your parents, choose not to go back to feel more in line with your current situation, of course, if you are on your own or go back, save yourself alone outside, this feeling of 30 years is very uncomfortable. I have personal experience, think about it for yourself, what I said is just for reference.
You can give your parents, appropriate tobacco, alcohol, sugar and tea, you can provide some other things according to your parents' preferences, if there are other members of the family can not be left behind, rather fall into a group, not one person, if it is the elders of the elders, you need to buy something that pleases the elders (when I took my boyfriend home, he knew that my grandmother was from Shanghai, and specially bought a lot of Shanghai snacks for him in Shanghai, and now the old lady also said that none of the aunts can compare with the grandchildren, and the old people need to be coaxed like children), Of course, if you go to visit some relatives in the same city but don't live together, you can buy some fruits and other things, and you can bring some things that they like if conditions permit, but sometimes it backfires and will make the family think that he is too scheming, so the first visit does not need to be too complicated, the key is that after the family is familiar with each other, your family's evaluation of him.
It is normal to want to live with your parents during the New Year, consider it from more small aspects, you may wish to discuss it with your wife, if you have enough holidays, you can spend a few days in your mother's house and your own home, so that the elderly on both sides can see their children, and the parents all hope that their children are around, think about it from another angle, discuss it well, and hope you go well.
It depends on how much money you are ready to spend, gifts for children, preferably related to wisdom and learning, about 5,000 yuan to buy a small laptop, about 1,000 yuan to buy a pocket color screen learning machine, about 500 yuan to buy an electronic dictionary, about 300 yuan to buy clothes, about 200 yuan to buy a set of books worth collecting, less than 100 yuan, just buy food <>
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