I don t even know what I want

I noticed you said"He and I have a lot of different ideas, but we have been together for 3 and a half years! "Once a girl said the same thing to me, she is now my wife, and we are doing well! Hope you are happy!

I feel the same way as me, but I haven't met anyone like that, on the one hand, I like mature and stable men, and on the other hand, I am a very dependent person, and I like to be together all day.

I don't know what I want, and I can't help you.

If I run into someone like your boyfriend, I'm going to feel lonely a lot, so I guess I'd want someone who sticks to me all day.

Hehe, then you text him every day and deal with it every day as you are happy. One day when you really feel tired, leave him for a month. If this month is worse than what you are doing now, then you can go back to him.

Hehe, this month is enough to witness his feelings for you. If he doesn't care about you without news for a month, then you can't ask for this man!

Hey, I'm the same, we quarrel together, don't think about it together, after a quarrel, we ignore each other and we even think about breaking up, but until late at night he sent me a text message saying, I want to cry, I was immediately moved to throw all my anger into the clouds, there is no need to think about it yourself, after all, it is the person you love and what can blame him, he is busy for our future, to be more understanding and considerate, maybe he will be moved by your understanding.

I always knew what I wanted", this is what I said lightly when I was playing tarot cards with a few friends. I was blown away.

I was dazed, confused, and very clear that I lacked repentant action. It looks like a little girl who has been being held by others, laughing for a while, getting angry for a while, being surprised for a while, suddenly understanding for a while, and continuing to laugh in front of her..., but I haven't walked with my feet, I don't know how to go, I don't know the scenery of really walking, and I don't know the meaning of walking. If you can't grow alone, you'll be confused after all.

So I was blown away, "I always knew what I wanted." You don't need to know what you will encounter in advance, you don't need to know what you are subconsciously, you just need to go step by step, and face and solve one problem at a time. What kind of life is this, what kind of state is this.

Ask yourself, "Who have I been being held by?"

Many people want their lives to be different from others, and the so-called "different from others" means that when others are working hard, they already have everything they want, live the life they want, do the work they like, and then be with the people they like, don't run around for tomorrow, and don't go through the wind and frost for firewood, rice, oil and salt, but only a very few people can do the so-called "different from others".

I often ask myself what I really want and what kind of life do I live? Until now, I probably don't have a clear answer, I always use all kinds of reasons, all kinds of excuses to convince myself, I want to watch more dry goods, drink more chicken soup, be cautious and erect more positive energy, don't always watch TV series, watch**, and then I really did it, every day I have nothing to do I just watch those positive energy on various WeChat*** or other**, but it doesn't work, I'm still like this, I've been walking and stopping in place, I still don't know what I want.

Every day before going to bed, I told myself that from tomorrow onwards, I would get up early and go to bed early, wash my face and remove my makeup seriously, learn English seriously, read more books, exercise more, and treat everyone gently, but this tomorrow has been going on for several years, and I haven't achieved it, I still finish the day like this, or wait until everything is gone, I realize the importance of things, I still don't know what I want.

If you don't know what you want, you know what you don't want, right? ”

I don't want to be like this life, I don't want to be a big fat man, I don't want to give up a sincere emotion because of money, and what I like from the bottom of my heart, I don't want to let myself have endless stalls and endless vegetable markets, I don't want to let myself live in a down-and-out, unenterprising life circle, circle of friends.

I don't want to live a well-behaved and cautious life, I don't want to go through this life according to what my parents and elders arranged for me, I don't want to fall in love when I should fall in love, get married when I should get married, and have children when I should have children, I don't want to please, please, and flatter others, I don't want to be wronged by anyone for anything, and I want to be low.

Young people are always easily confused, and most young people are confused because their abilities are not worthy of their dreams, or because of ignorant emotions, the state of confusion is probably like this, and they always don't know what they want.

In fact, if you calm down and think about it carefully, it's not that you don't know what you want, but you don't dare to tell yourself, because any dream is not a simple thing to come true, you have to go through some bitterness and suffering that no one knows, and you have to walk some dark, cloudy, and rarely traveled roads.

If you don't know what you want, that's okay, you just need to know what you don't want, don't touch them if you don't want them, and when those things you don't want never appear in your world again, then what is left in your world is probably what you want.

In fact, it's more careful, think about the world than you have more unfortunate people, you are nothing, to enhance self-confidence, do what you are good at, there is a specialization in the industry, you let the United States ** write some kind of isomer, or trim chemical equations, he probably won't be ah, so don't worry too much, do what you like to be good at, your brother is a boy, boys' attributes and thinking, girls are different, logic is better than girls, this is the characteristics of this part of boys. Men and women have different characteristics and have their own strengths, but the judging criteria are set by people, so you don't have to care so much, do your best

How nice it is, only life is one's own, and everything else is outside the body.

It was like this when I was in high school, when I was rebellious, and I was overwhelmed by the various choices I had to choose from graduating.

When I was young, my mind was very active, and I had all kinds of things I couldn't finish thinking about every day, yes, I was very confused, and I was fermenting and catharsis about the future, so I was easily tired, I didn't know what to do, I was aimless, and I wondered if the day was really so set.

It's been a year, and I feel a lot of emotion, and I feel that I don't need to take some things and some people to heart at that time, go my own way, and let others say go. That's true.

The college entrance examination is just like that, if you can't fill in the volunteers, no matter how high the score is, it's useless, you don't have to worry about it, let it be.

Live every day in high school and cherish the moments when you eat with your friends and get out of class.

Do what feels right to you.

Is your life goal not clear enough? Today's society is a relatively realistic existence, what is the useless hypocrisy? Pursue a materialistic life, but don't ask for extravagance? A happy life must be created slowly by yourself, and remember that the sky never falls into the cake! Good luck!

Everyone needs to know what they want so that they can move forward towards their goals. I don't know what I want, it's like a kite with a broken string, floating to **yes**, so does it still have its own value.

What do you mean by what do you say, can't it be: don't want them to see this news and never have a chance to strike? If you work hard for yourself, you can't tolerate yourself and you are not qualified to complain about anything.

Can't, can't tolerate himself, and it's not a man, if it's someone else, but because they all say that a wave can make him use a friend and I love!

Calm down and think about what you need. First of all, people must be self-reliant, self-reliant, and can be based on the society to have their own careers, and then they can find their own happiness!

It's really confusing. But even if you are confused and don't know what to do, you still have to live day by day. So as the old saying goes, trouble is a day, and no trouble is a day. Let's take a look at the present.

Haha......It proves that the brain is in a mess!

It is recommended to calm down and choose to go on a short trip!

Let your mentality go to zero, and maybe you will have the answer at that time! ok？

In this case, let's talk about living without heart and lungs first.

When people don't know what they want, they are actually more confused, why don't you calm down and think about who I am? What am I going to be like in the future, set a goal for myself, set a goal for a short period of time, and then set a goal for a long time after I complete it, and so on, and so on, I will have self-confidence, and with self-confidence, I will know what I should do? What do you want?

You know what you want. I feel like I want what I lack. To love is to want to love. If you lack culture, you wish you had culture. If you lack money, you want money. Think about what you lack.

Maybe you're too confused, don't think too much, just be clear.

I don't know what I want, I'm really confused, I don't know which direction to work in order to succeed, in fact, there are always some things in life that you need to choose to grasp. If you are confused, you can set some goals that are not too long-term, and set some goals that can be achieved now and can see results now, so as to enhance your confidence.

People think differently at different ages and at different time periods, but don't lose yourself is the key, run to all what you have and what you don't have, empty yourself, and see what you are thinking and needing.

You want, eat well, dress well, make good money, and do good deeds.

The confusion of immaturity should be experienced by most people. Let's struggle first, and mature yourself as soon as possible in the process.

Eat well, dress well, find a wife, buy a house, buy a car, and be filial to your father.

You have to work hard, get closer to the people you envy, and look for the next goal to strive for.

Isn't it too confusing, don't think too much about it, and be clear about your goals.

In fact, they are all confused, why don't you calm down and think about who I am? What I want to be in the future, set a goal for myself.