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"The beacon fire lasted for three months, and the family letter was worth 10,000 dollars. "Letters, as a way to maintain relationships between relatives who are thousands of miles apart, have had extraordinary significance since ancient times. So recently I read "The Book of Fu Lei's Family", and it has benefited me a lot.
This is by no means an ordinary family letter, it is the best art apprentice cultivation book, and it is also a painstaking and painstaking godson chapter full of fatherly love.
Man's self-love for his son is also a natural law. Human life always has limitations, and human careers are never endless. Through their own children, they can continue their own lives, and also continue and develop the strength that a person can do for society, for the motherland, and for mankind.
We see how Fu Lei raised his children, which is evident from his family letters. In the letter dated January 26, 1955, Fu Cong was at that time"Smug"At that time, Fu Lei advised the child on how to deal with emotional ups and downs. First of all, explain the need to control emotions, and secondly, calmly and objectively analyze the causes and consequences to take the lead in becoming stronger and stronger.
It expresses it very truly'Someone who came over"Looking back"Come on"Mood: desolate and calm, gloomy and detached. This letter was written when his son was surrounded by flowers and applause for his great success, encouraging him to always remain humble, not afraid of loneliness, and to have the courage to climb the end of art"Pure Heart".
Be strong"It is the inner spirit that runs through this letter. Fu Lei said to the child"As long as you can be strong, I'm relieved!
It can be seen that being strong is important to life. There are two aspects of being strong: a is not afraid of setbacks, b always maintains a humble heart That is, victory is not arrogant, defeat is not discouraged This is also something we can learn Also, in his letter to his son Fu Cong, he said:
Writing to you at length is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I do regard you as an opponent to discuss art and discuss **; Second, I really want to arouse the feelings of some of your young people, so that I can get some fresh nourishment as a father. At the same time, it can also be spread to other young people.
Third, train you not only in writing, but especially in your thoughts. Fourth, I want to be a wake-up call to you everywhere and at all times, both in terms of being a person and in all other aspects. "The friendship that runs through all the family letters is to let my son know the honor and disgrace of the country, the dignity of art, and be able to treat everything with a serious attitude. To be an "artist with virtue and art and excellent personality".
In his life of drifting in a foreign country, Fu Cong drew rich spiritual nourishment from these letters from his father. Give him guidance, encouragement and encouragement at all times. to give him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of obstacles.
Embark on your own legitimate growth path. At the same time, it also gives me great encouragement. Now I am working hard, and I must not be proud or weak, so I am determined to work hard to Fu Lei's "excellent personality"!
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I have lived with my parents for a long time, so I can't appreciate the faint sorrow and sweetness of the distance caused by the exchange of family letters. I longed for this feeling, so I read this "Fu Lei's Family Book".
I was deeply moved by this passage from the book: "Speaking of incomplete......The perfection you mentioned, in fact, perfection does not exist at all, and the whole life, the world, and the universe cannot talk about perfection. ......Our lifelong pursuit, the pursuit of many generations in history, is nothing more than perfection, but it will never be pursued, because people's ideals and fantasies are endlessly ,......
This brings me to a story. There used to be a broken mirror, broken into many pieces, and one of them wanted to find the rest in order to reassemble the original mirror. Along the way, it rolled very slowly because of its own edges and corners, so as to appreciate the delicious scenery along the way.
When it painstakingly found all the pieces and "broke the mirror and reunited", it became a whole circle, rolling very fast, and the scenery along the way passed by in an instant. In fact, we are all in pursuit of perfection, and it is precisely our present incompleteness that brings us to the realm of pursuing perfection and contributes to the relative integrity of other aspects. And when the so-called perfection happens to us one day, we may lose a lot.
Fu Lei's godson was known for being strict, and I thought that the relationship between father and son was certainly not very good, but after reading this book, my mind changed dramatically. Fu Cong went to study abroad, and the contact with his father naturally could only rely on letters, so the love between father and son was undoubtedly expressed in a letter to the family. They discussed art together, studied the connotation of music, and exchanged views on things through letters, and although they did not have the warmth of the mother-son correspondence, the tacit understanding between them was irreplaceable by anything else.
Looking back on the book after covering the volume, the biggest impression is Fu Lei's profound attainments in art. Fu Lei has his own views on the comprehension of art, especially music. This makes me think that people who have made achievements in literature also have a high level of research in the field of art.
Maybe it's because literature and art are the same. Different excellent literary works will have different psychological effects after people read them; And all kinds of music with very different styles will bring similar results. The beautiful prose brings the pleasure of appreciating a cheerful aria; The heavy ** brings the shock of a symphony of sorrow; Witty essays will bring operatic scenes and endless reflections after the fact.
After reading this "Fu Lei's Family Book", I feel that it is like an opera that gives people a good atmosphere and room for aftertaste.
The whole book of Fu Lei's Family Letter is a father's persuasion, and it is very kind to read, full of deep affection for his son, but also has the irresistible majesty unique to his father. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I could get a few letters like this with my father!
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