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Fragment of the original text of Fu Lei's Family Letter:

I can tell you another point: even in any period of my life, I have not forgotten my loyalty to learning. Wang Mu's knowledge first, art first, truth first, this is the principle that I have not changed so far.

Your situation is different from mine: when you are a young man, you have to think that "under the fame, it is actually difficult to deserve", and you have to tremble and live up to the expectations of the Chinese people. Your gratitude to ** can only be regarded as true gratitude if it is expressed with action!

I think the God in your mind must also be the first Baja, Beethoven, Chopin, etc.

In this case, the energy and time you have at your disposal can only be dedicated to your first idol, not to the second god. You say, don't you? It's a pity that you didn't learn the art of writing early, otherwise excess feelings can be vented with writing (music), and an artist must be able to "sublimate" his feelings in order to be beneficial to others.

I am not in a hurry to exaggerate your anguish by reading the letter; But I know that you are somewhat depressed, and I will talk to you casually, maybe it will help you clear your mind.

Appreciation: Fu Lei's Family Letter is a family letter written by Fu Lei to his child Fu Cong. In the first paragraph of the excerpt, the last sentence expresses his appreciation for Fu Cong as God thinks of him, and the second sentence describes Fu Cong's conscientiousness.

The second paragraph of the excerpt expresses Fu Lei's encouragement to Fu Cong's writing, the third sentence also writes that writing can also be used as a vent to "sublimate" himself, and the fourth sentence is Fu Lei's clarification of Fu Cong's mood to help Fu Cong. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is not only written about Fu Cong's words, but also can be used as his own perception.

February 10, 2019.

Hu Mengjing.

1. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a godson full of father's love and the excellent morality of the Chinese nation, a text for children's education, and an artistic cultivation book.

The letters, between the lines of expressing strong family affection, reflect the beautiful interpersonal relationships, noble life standards, excellent behavior and moral traditions, and patriotic enthusiasm. During this period, he taught earnestly, loved his son deeply, and disciplined well.

In the letter, there are questions and concerns about his son's life, as well as repentance and redemption for his past godson who was too strict, praise and encouragement for his son's progress, guidance and guidance on art and art, and views and opinions on the construction and movement of the party and the country.

When I read this family letter, the letter to the family, it was like a precious heart-to-heart conversation, narrowing the distance between each other, and I was like a good child feeling, listening, and remembering with my heart.

I feel that there are teachers' teachings, the advice of the elders, and the parents' concern for their children, which is different from the care of many parents, and the feeling of being carefully cared for, so that people can find another kind of parental love, which is also something that most children cannot experience.

Usually, the education of many families is inappropriate, parents do not communicate with their children attentively, do not guide their children properly, and let their children go astray, and finally regret it.

There are also some parents who think that their children will not succeed if they do not fight, and there have been countless domestic violence, which has caused the children to be physically and mentally harmed, not only not to make the children sensible, but to make the children become rebellious. Parents should educate their children with appropriate family education, and parents should read this "Fu Lei's Family Book".

Fu Lei was a wise, erudite, and upright scholar, and his rigorous academic attitude can be seen from the words of "Fu Lei's Family Letter".

As an educator and a writer, he naturally wants to educate his children to become like him. He has studied Chinese and foreign literature, **, and painting, and his personal cultural accomplishment is extremely high. As a result, the subjects of his training received a good family education from an early age, and finally grew into an international master.

Fu Lei's loyalty and dedication to the world, mankind, and the motherland, as well as his rigor in his own career, his filial piety to his parents, his understanding of his wife, and his tolerance for his friends, exhorted the reader to "keep his hands vertical, and people to stand upright".

Printed in this little book, it is not an ordinary family letter. Fu Lei said in his letter to Fu Cong: "I write to you at length, not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip (long talk), but has several functions.

First, I do regard you as an opponent who discusses art and discusses **; Second, I would like to arouse the feelings of some of your young people, so that I can get some fresh nourishment as a father, and at the same time, I can also indirectly spread it to other young people. Thirdly, train you by correspondence – not only in writing, but especially in your thoughts; Fourth, I want to be a wake-up call for you everywhere and a 'faithful mirror', whether in terms of life, in the details of life, in terms of artistic accomplishment, or in terms of performance posture. The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, and be able to treat everything with a serious attitude, and be an "artist with excellent morality and art." "The earnest teachings of the parents in the family letter, the sincere communication between the children and their parents, and the family affection overflow between the lines, giving the parents and children of the world a strong infection and inspiration.

Fu Lei and Fu Cong's letters from home gave me a lot of inspiration. Many of our parents ignore the relationship with their children's friends, raised for more than ten years, but have not really enjoyed the fun of being parents, because they are eager to hope that their sons will become dragons, and their daughters will become phoenixes, and their mentality towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of measures to promote seedlings have come out of the cage. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "filial piety under the mallet", but have they ever thought about it, do they have Fu Lei's quality of teaching by example rather than words?

Optical Fu Lei's "type" word, can you get a good result? As a result, the child tasted the taste of verbal abuse and fists, and tasted the bitterness of learning under pressure and fear, and the child's golden childhood was overshadowed. Fu Lei realized that although he was tormented in his later years due to political movements, he was happy at this point, because he and his son became the closest friends.

Now, many parents are also vying to emulate Fu Lei's way of teaching their children, so this has become a model of parent-child education.

As I wanted to ask, thank you for helping me ask in advance, hehe.