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1.Help your child establish order. Establish order with your child and let him know the ownership of the items.

2.Don't label it as "selfish". When a child behaves "selfishly", parents should understand that this is a normal phenomenon and should not be labeled as such.

3.Teach children how to communicate and affirm in a timely manner. The first time is the best time to educate.

When a child takes the initiative to grab other children's things for the first time, we have to establish order with the child and not go with the flow.

First of all, we must learn to let our children communicate, and what they want can be discussed. In addition, it is also necessary to set rules for children, and they should not take other people's things at will. In this way, children can get rid of bad habits.

You can tell your child that this kind of behavior is not good, and when your child has this behavior, you should criticize your child in time and educate your child.

It must be that you should reprimand him immediately after his behavior, or set an example for him so that he can follow you.

For the bad habit of children grabbing things, adults must not tolerate it, but find a suitable way to communicate with children, and see why children want to rob other people's things, so as not to misunderstand their own children. Because there are many parents who like to blame their children, especially if the problem is not clear, they mistakenly think that it is their child's mistake, causing their children's hearts to be hurt, so parents must not ignore it.

1. Learn to respect

When our children are playing with other children, it is normal to play with each other's toys, because children like new toys, even if they have the same toys, they are more willing to play with each other's toys, so in daily life, we need to inform our children: "When we want to play with other children's toys, we should first ask the other party if they are willing to share with themselves, and then go to get the children's toys, so that it is a kind of respect for others."

2. Learn to empathize

Children's way of thinking is very simple, not as complex as we adults, we only need to tell children stories, we can change children's bad habits. For example: Xiao Ming has a special favorite toy, one day he went to the square to play and met his good friend Xiao Hong, Xiao Hong instantly took away the toy he liked, and wow wow burst into tears, and then Xiao Hong realized his mistake, and took the initiative to apologize to Xiao Ming, and finally the emotions of the two were relieved.

So this story tells us that when we rob other people's things, we must learn to empathize, so that we can know the other person's feelings and reflect on our own behavior.

All in all, snatching things is a bad habit, and it is difficult to correct once a child develops a bad habit, so even if we want to, we should follow the other party's principles, otherwise it will be irrational behavior.

The fact that a child likes to steal other people's things indicates that he has a domineering personality or is too young to engage in such unconscious behavior. At this time, parents must correct it in time, otherwise the whole person will develop a very selfish personality when he grows up. We can slowly guide through words and deeds.

The main reason why a child likes to steal other people's things is that he does not recognize that this behavior is wrong, and then parents need to educate them. First of all, it is necessary to clearly tell him that he must not take anything that is not his own, and here in order to make him aware of the seriousness, the parents can pull him into a room alone and discuss this issue solemnly. When a child sees that his parents are so serious, then he will definitely be connected with the realization that he may have done something wrong.

You must know that children are relatively simple by nature, and sometimes it is useless to talk about big truths, so you need to guide or scare them through some means.

For example, if you scare him and rob someone else's things, the other party will definitely call the police, and then the police will drive over and arrest him, just like the picture in the TV news. Then parents can also make the child obedient through appropriate "threats", for example, if they find out that he is taking other people's things, then they will never take him to the amusement park again in the future. Children are still afraid of these things, so they will definitely become more and more restrained.

In addition to teaching him verbally, so that the child realizes his mistake and does not dare to do such a thing again. Parents should also teach their children to admit their mistakes, and here they must take him to meet other children, and then return the things to the other person on the spot and apologize. In this way, by giving a sense of ritual, the seriousness of the whole thing is more deeply rooted in people's hearts, and secondly, it also teaches children to face mistakes correctly and solve problems.

This is very helpful for children's development.

The reason why the child will steal other people's things is likely that others have it and he does not have it, which stimulates his jealousy. At this time, parents need to compensate their children in time after admitting their mistakes and buy him an identical thing. Of course, in addition to jealousy, children may be spoiled by their parents, and any request can be met immediately.

This led him to want to get his hands on what he wanted when he saw it. Such a willful and indulgent personality must be corrected in time, and parents can be more strict with him.

Parents should actively guide their children in ordinary times, should let their children understand the corresponding truth, and when they see their children behaving like this, they must stop them in time and establish a correct three views for their children.

Parents must educate their children patiently, let their children get what they want in the right way, and help their children get rid of this bad problem.

Generally speaking, children over two years old have entered a sensitive period of property rights, and the typical manifestation is that children will often grab things. For children who always rob other people's things, parents still have to carefully analyze the reasons to see whether it is the reason for the child's sensitive period or the family's reasons.

Our children began to have the concept of "property rights" when they were more than 2 years old, and they can obviously distinguish yours and mine. After careful observation, we did not feel that the child's behavior was the "grab" that we adults normally understood, so we did not emphasize it too much, but downplayed the child's behavior, telling him that if he wants to play with children's toys, he can ask: Can I play with it?

However, if the other child does not agree and cannot rob it, it is rude, and you can ask again later. She will also be encouraged to share her toys with other children to play, emphasizing that they are playing together. In this way, it has slowly passed the sensitive period of property rights.

Of course, if it is due to family reasons, such as poor parents' awareness ......of rules, or the elderly with children, they do not pay attention to this issue, or even have fun, or think that children are like this, and they will not suffer when they grow upIf this is the case, then it will have to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

So, for the main reason is the sensitive period, yes.

1. Reason with your child. If you want to play with other people's toys, you should ask for their opinions, or exchange your own toys; Public toys are something that everyone can play, and if you want to play, you have to queue up, and if you repeat more, the child will understand.

2. Read relevant picture books, queue up, courtesy, etc., and establish rules for him in a way that the child can accept.

3. Respect the child's property rights, and give him the right to dispose of all his things, and no one in the family can take them. Slowly, he learned that what others belong to others. At the same time, you should also tell him to respect the property rights of others.

If you rob someone else's things, you have to apologize, you have to say sorry to others, if you don't change it repeatedly, you can beat it, and if it hurts, you won't rob it next time.

4. Take the child out, keep an eye on it, and stop it in time before grabbing something.

For family reasons, such as adults should always have a sense of rules, take their children to buy things on the bus, they have to queue up, and adults themselves must not think about cutting in line; If the elderly have children, they must explain to him clearly the seriousness, the consensus of the family members, and so on.

Children should be told that a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way. At the same time, you should only take other people's things with the permission of others, and you should not fight for them, which is very impolite and disrespectful.

You should communicate well with your child, let your child understand that such behavior is wrong, let your child apologize to the other party, and let your child learn to share in life.

In this case, it should be compulsory, and tell the child that this behavior is very annoying, and other people's things should not be grabbed casually.

You should tell your child that this is very wrong, and that you can take him to the public security bureau to learn something, so that the child will remember the lesson of this time.

Tell children not to rob other people's things, this kind of behavior is not good, other people's things are other people's not their own, if you want to use or play, you can tell others, you can only go with the permission of others, don't rob, if you say robbing, then it is stealing. It is illegal to steal.

When the child grabs something from others for the first time, you should stop it, at this time the language education is effective, and the behavior that cannot be "successful" for the first time will naturally have a clear understanding in the child's heart: it is not right to forcibly get something that is not your own.

If you have indulged in the habit of many times, and then educate it, no matter how good the method is, it will be half the effort, and it will be difficult.

We really should know how to guide such things, for example, tell him that this thing is not yours, and that it is a wrong behavior for you to steal someone else's things, so we can educate him.

The first time he stopped and warned him that it was wrong, the second time he was punished.

If children often look like this, it must be the wrong way to educate now. Every family has different ways and methods, and it is still necessary to set rules for children in advance.

Just reason with your child.

It's okay to let your child think differently, and tell them what you would think if someone else robbed you of something. I believe that children should be understandable, and the education of parents is really very important, and we must insist on it.

Reasoning with your child may not be effective, but it may be better for your child to experience the emotions of being robbed.

Xiaobao was four years old, she knew that the toys and milk powder were hers, once Xiaobao went to the neighbor's house to play, and grabbed toys with others, I said, the toys at home are yours, Xiao Ming's toys are Xiao Ming's, you can ask Xiao Ming, can you share with you, if not, we will go home and play with our own toys!

Sometimes parents need timely guidance, so that children will not always steal other people's things!

To be honest, this is usually the parents' poor discipline, education, if the discipline is not effective, you can force him to return the things he snatched every time, and he has to apologize!

In our lives, many children prefer to grab things, and the behavior of grabbing things is very bad, if parents do not educate them, then the impact on children is still very large. Next, I will introduce to you, when the baby loves to grab things, how should parents educate?

First of all, we must know that in this case, parents must correct their children's wrong behavior in a timely manner, grabbing things is a wrong behavior, and if they are not corrected, children will rob other people's things, which is not only not conducive to the physical and mental development of children, but also has certain harm to children's growth and development, so when children rob things such a phenomenon, parents must help children correct it in time, but also pay attention to the way of educating children, can not yell at children, This will only make the child's mind very fragile, and it will also cause some damage to the child's physical and mental health. Secondly, tell the child that snatching things is a wrong behavior, but also an undesirable behavior, parents can not condone the child's behavior, even if the child is young, it should be corrected in time, otherwise the child will grow up to rob other people's things unscrupulously.

It can be seen that children's education has always been a headache for parents, if parents do not educate their children when they are young, then children will become more presumptuous when they grow up, and they will have a very bad impact on their growth and development.

Finally, I would like to advise those parents who have two children at home to pay attention to the way the two children get along, and not to give priority to the educational principle that the eldest child should let the younger child be the mainstay, which is not only not conducive to the formation of Erbao's character, but also causes some damage to Dabao's psychology.