How to deal with parents who have children snatching things

When a child robs things and robs other people's things, parents need to educate him positively, ask him to return other people's things, and not to rob other people's things.

How to deal with parents who have children snatching thingsYou should tell your child not to rob other people's things. Reason with him.

Persuade him to tell him to return the loot. And apologize. If your child needs a toy.

Parents can buy him a little toy at any time. Don't let your child grab it all the time. Someone else's child's stuff.

Be sure to persuade and educate your children patiently. You can give him some examples. Educate your child.

Don't hit or scold your child. Educate your children in a reasonable way. Don't use barbaric behavior.

Most of the behavior of snatching toys appears when the child is 2-3 years old, the child at this age grabs the toy is not much malice, parents do not need to immediately make a protective response, you can first look at the development of things, if the toy is snatched away, the child's heart will be angry, scared or sad, at this time, parents should first comfort the child, such as "Is it not the brother who took away the baby's toy, so you are very sad?" "Say something comforting to your child or give them a hug to stabilize their emotions before deciding what to do later.

After the child is emotionally stable, parents can first let the child solve this matter by himself, see what the child will do next, some children will go directly to grab it back, when they do this, parents can let them tell other children very clearly that this is their own toy, they are now playing. Some children will reason with each other first, and if the child is willing to let others play, parents can ask them to ask the other party if they want to play with the toy, and play for a while to return it to themselves. For children who are reluctant to share, you can encourage them to tell them that they are not willing to share with them and ask them to return the toys.

If the child encounters a child older than himself can not get back the toy or the other party is unwilling to return the toy to the child, the child is emotionally broken and asks the parents for help, the parents do not think that they do not see must help the child to "snatch back" the toy, the gun here does not refer to violence, but the parent should replace the child's tone, seriously reason with the child who grabbed the toy, tell him that the toy is not his own, others do not want to share it for the time being, or ask them if they are willing to take one of their toys as an exchange to play. If these methods fail, you can politely discuss with the other party's parents and let the child take the toy back. This is also done to maintain the child's ownership of the belongings, so that they know that they cannot easily give up their things to others unless they are willing to share them with others.

Every child has their own temperament and characteristics, so when they see their children's toys being robbed, parents may wish to wait and see what their children will do, and if they can't solve it, parents will help. At the same time, parents should also educate their children that at any time, if they want to play with other people's things, they must obtain the consent of the other party in advance, and if the other party does not agree, do not grab it, and develop a good habit of civilization, so that the interpersonal relationship around the child will get better and better.

If other children rob things, parents can ignore it and let the children deal with it themselves, if the children's things are also snatched away by other children, we must tell the children when they return home. When he's stealing your things, you have to stop them seriously and tell him that this is my stuff and you can't move it. At the same time, you should also tell your child to deal with it calmly and not to use violent means.

Let's look at the attitude of the other parent. If the other parent had stopped it quickly, I wouldn't have said anything.

If the other parent is indifferent, I will come forward to help the child snatch it back, and tell the other party loudly (let the other parent hear that), this is my ** toy, you want to play with her consent Oh, the act of snatching things is wrong, and you will be arrested by the police uncle.

And tell my child that this toy is yours and you can decide whether you want to play with it or not!

I think this not only educates the other party in a civilized manner, but also allows my children to understand the ownership of things.

We can ask the child to tell the other child, if you want to play with the toy, you must ask someone else to ask for money, and get the permission of the toy owner before playing. If the child realizes his mistake, then we can let our child play games with each other, and in this way, the relationship between the two children can be very good. If the other child's child is stubborn, we can talk to their parents about it, and let the parents educate their children.

Of course, it is necessary to be reasonable, you can't reprimand or scold other people's children, you can only pull him to reason, tell him that it is not right to do this, if there is a child whose quality is relatively not too high, and the parental education is not in place, he may scold someone or something, go directly to his parents, and educate the child, tell him that other people's children are negative teaching materials, if you particularly hate such children. Don't learn to tell other people's children that other people's children are the opposite of the textbook, and if you especially hate such children, don't learn from such children.

If you meet someone else to make friends with money, things must be intolerable, in this way, the second child will steal things when he grows up, you should tell the child well, tell the child's parents to reason with the child, let him understand that this matter is wrong, let him take the initiative to return the things to you, to impress him with words, rather than forcibly snatching him, which will make the child have a bad impact.

At this time, parents will tell children that they should not steal other people's things, they should respect others, and if you want this thing, you should discuss with the children, unity and friendship are right, and you should do work for the children. Tell her what is right and what is at this time, parents will tell the child that you can't steal other people's things, you should respect others, if you want this thing, you should discuss with the child, unity and friendship is right, you should do work for the child, tell her what is right and what is wrong.

If you break the toys because your child snatched other children's toys, then you can only say that you come to apologize and compensate for the new toys, which is understandable, and you have to educate your children to admit that you have done something wrong, which is called responsibility.

Parents should act decisively. If the child encounters an unreasonable and strong baby when playing, then as a parent, you must act decisively, although you can't bully another little friend, but you still have to do a good job of self-defense for the child, so that the child understands from an early age that you can't rob other people's items.

If other children steal things, parents must manage them correctly, and the child can take the child to the police station, so that the child knows how serious the mistake he has made, so that he will not make it again.

Parents can first restrain the child's behavior, and then educate them, such as: How can you steal someone else's things? This is my child's, if you want it, you can ask him to take it, but you can't grab it. If the parent is around, you can also explain things to him a little clearly.

I think I should pay compensation for the fight between the children, so that the child understands that we need to be responsible for many things we do.

When parents deal with their children's behavior of stealing things, they must first understand the reasons behind the robbery, and secondly, they should be strict and merciful, do not blindly blame, and patiently explain the reason to their children.

It is not right for children to grab things, parents can carry out oral education, and if there is a physical conflict, the medical expenses will inevitably be compensated.

Fights between children are a matter between small children, but if it rises to compensation, it is a very serious matter. Could it be physical ** damage? At this time, I have to deal with this matter very seriously and negotiate with the other party's parents.

Whose toys listen to whom, about two years old is when the sense of property rights begins to develop, children in this period are particularly concerned about their own things, we adults should respect the child, his toys listen to his arrangement, he can play alone, you can also play by yourself, and then let other children play, you can also play with children, in short, listen to his own, when a child has the right to decide on his own things, it is possible to be willing to share with others!

When you encounter other children stealing things, of course, you must find the other party's parents to explain the situation, and if it is your own child, you should teach him to let him know that it is not right to do so.

Parents must seem angry, but if a child is snatching something here, parents should also comfort each other's parents before dealing with the child's affairs.

When other children grab things and grab things, parents first take their children away, and then coax things over through the other parent, and the education of other children is handed over to the child's parents.

Parents must tell their children that we should not rob other people's things, but we must take back our own things, we can share, but we can't rob our own things.

If you recruit a child to grab something, well, the parent's words should be communicated with the child well, because no matter what, you can't rely on grabbing?

In fact, when a child has a strong sense of ownership, he will be able to know clearly"This thing belongs to me", even if it is for other children to play, it is only temporary, and in the end it belongs to me. Teach children to understand other people's feelings. When other children snatch their own children's toys, as a parent, don't ask for them blindly.

When other children steal things, how should parents deal with them? I think that if you encounter other children stealing things, you must need to live on your own, after all, this is an attitude that needs to be cultivated from an early age.

When other children steal things, parents should not do it themselves, but teach their children to learn to protect themselves, or report to the teacher, and correct the children's mistakes through the teacher's education.

If the child's toys are found to have been robbed, parents will follow the child's opinion to see if the child is willing to share with others, and if the child is not willing to share with others, parents should help the child get the toy back. Parents should not be in a hurry to get their children's things back, but let their children learn to communicate with others and learn to share with others, so that children will be healthier and will not have bad emotions.

Some people, when your children are unwilling, say to your children, good children, you have to know how to share, this is a kind of moral kidnapping, his things, is its, this is the scope of its right to be the master, he can have the right to refuse, then this is not called selfishness, endure that unwillingness, to share, but it is a kind of flattering situation, so many adults, you see if we are like this.

Many adults are embarrassed to reject others all their lives, don't we allow our children to live with more dignity? What's more, our children are now robbed of things, this is embezzled property, this must be decisively refused, immediately to protect his rights and interests, does he want to snatch it back? It doesn't have to be robbed, we can, let the child do the first step like this, tell the other party loudly, this is my thing, you want to play must be approved by me, now please return it to me immediately, this is the first step, the second step, if the other party returns it immediately, at this time, we have to let our children learn to thank each other, for this, thank you for respecting me.

If the other party does not return the case, we can do it, forcibly take it back, we as parents, but also to show a clear attitude, you can forcibly take back your things, this is right, mother to support you, when you, with such a sentence Ha, it is equivalent to giving your child a reassurance, let him know that Ha, it can be upright to maintain themselves, in this way, the child can learn, not humble or arrogant, have you learned? Welcome to the collection and **.

I think that in general, to calm the child's psychology, listen to the child's thoughts, and then let the child reason with the child, you can tell him, I don't want to share it with you now.

You can choose to tell him that it is their fault for others to rob him, but you can't snatch it back, and you have to use the law to punish him.

Tell your child that this thing is his own, and if it is snatched away by someone else, he must ask someone else for it to come back.

Let children share from an early age, and give timely praise and affirmation to children's behaviors that they are willing to share with others, which can promote children's good moral character. Below I have collected some ways to teach children to grab things, I hope it will help you.

1. Teach from a young age.

Children are not yet able to understand the concept of "sharing" before the age of 5. However, some basic rules can be taught from childhood, such as: "Everyone takes turns to play with toys", "She plays first, then it's your turn", "If you don't play with toys, let other children play".

2. Time limit.

You can take the time limit method, he plays for 10 minutes and then lets the other children play for 10 minutes. Let your child understand that sharing toys with others is not the same as losing them forever.

3. Don't force children to share.

Like adults, the little ones will have their own special cherished toys or books, don't force your child to share them with others. Tell your child not to show off his cherished things when playing with friends.

4. Parents lead by example.

Teaching by example is more important than teaching, and the behavior of parents has the greatest impact on children. Therefore, make a "sharing demonstration" for your child. For example, when eating a sandwich, ask your child, "Would you like a piece?" When parents do other things, they should also pay attention to allowing children to observe that parents are "sharing".

5. Choose a topic.

When the children play together, they can choose a theme, for example, beach, farm, kitchen, etc. If the toys are similar and the colors are similar, then the child is less likely to grab and is more likely to learn to share. 6. Role reversal.

One of the countermeasures: teach children to divide things from each other. Parents should educate their children that their toys should be willing to let their children play, and their own candy should be given to children to eat. This will help dilute children's selfishness and change their bad personality and psychological qualities.

Solution 2: Teach children to swap things. It is normal for a two- or three-year-old child to be reluctant to give toys to other children to play with.

When other children want to play with one of his toys (especially the one he is playing with), parents should not force him to be "polite" to others. If he is forced to give in reluctantly every time, the child will feel that not only the children but also the adults, including his own parents, want to steal his things, which will make him more possessive. The right way to do this is to guide him to be willing to play with other children, and then think of ways to play with the toys that they can share.

For example, if you have two children in a car, you can play with each other. A small cart, Xiaohong sits first, Xiao Ming pushes the cart, after a while, Xiao Ming sits, Xiaohong pushes the cart, you can also achieve the purpose of sharing. On this issue, parents should first correct their own attitudes, because the selfishness of some parents will also have a bad impact on their children.

For example, suggest that your child "don't give your toys to other children to play with" or threaten your child to "give them to others if you don't eat well." These words will stimulate children's selfishness and are not conducive to the formation of children's noble character of putting others before themselves.