I have a cat, my boyfriend is very opposed, what should I do, I like to have a cat?

Updated on pet 2024-06-27
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you have a cat, my boyfriend is very much against what to do. I like to have a cat for a few days. Clean your cat every day, clean it and nurture affection.

    Maybe he'll take it in a few days. He liked it very much. It's also fun to have a cute pet at home.

    But only if you have to communicate well first. You need to make sure that you are willing to pay for it. It is our responsibility to keep him.

    You are everything. Do not abandon him. I think if you were kind, you would think about it.

    Adopt him if you can.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Raise it for a few days first You clean up the cat every day Clean up Cultivate feelings Maybe after a few days he will accept it I like it very much It is also very fun to have a cute pet at home But the premise is that you have to communicate well You are sure that you like it Willing to pay to raise it is the responsibility to raise it You are all it Don't abandon I believe that you are kind You will think about it If you can, thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it's a cat that two people have together after falling in love, the other party says I don't like cats and says I'll throw them away if I have them. In this case, having a cat is a very impulsive behavior, which is irresponsible to the other half of the relationship, the relationship between the two, and the cat. It also proves that the other party is not a very kind person.

    Two people, one of whom doesn't like cats nothing. Because no one's preferences are exactly the same.

    If the other party gives up their pet in the name of love, then 98% is not suitable.

    A comfortable relationship is not something that I overbearing to make you give up.

    Instead, you can pursue what you want and love, and you can tolerate and understand each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In this case, you can discuss it with your boyfriend and don't insist on going your own way, otherwise it is likely to affect the relationship between the two people, and the gains outweigh the losses.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The kitten has a friend who opposes what should I do, how to raise a kitten for a few days first, you have to clean the kitten every day to cultivate feelings, maybe after a few days, he took a pampered habit that likes the cute family very much This is also very interesting, but the premise is that you have to communicate first, you are sure that you like to spend money to raise it, it is a responsibility, you do not refuse to believe in kindness, if you can, thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Foreword: Cats are very cute, fluffy, sometimes very clingy, sometimes very cold, and can bring high emotional value to their owners.

    But some people don't like to raise cats, they think cats are dirty, troublesome, and expensive. If my boyfriend won't let me keep a cat because it's too expensive, then I can solve this problem from the following 2 points:

    1. Spend your own money to buy cats and raise cats.

    In a relationship, there are still many girls who like to ask boys for money, just because they are girls, they think that men should love themselves, and the way to reflect love is to give themselves money, so they usually ask their boyfriends for money to buy things. Some women are even more excessive, they don't work at all, and they rely on men to support themselves, so this kind of girl definitely has no right to speak, so raising a cat also needs to be approved by her boyfriend. But I'm different, I have a stable job, and the income is not low, then I can take out a lot of money to buy a cat, I can afford a cat for tens of thousands of dollars, and I will also take it to do health care, beauty, three meals a day to let the cat eat very richly, which I can afford, therefore, I don't have to look at my boyfriend's face, after all, Lao Tzu's money Lao Tzu can call the shots.

    2. Break up with him.

    If my boyfriend doesn't want me to have a cat at first, it may be just an excuse to spend too much money, the real reason is that he doesn't like cats, it may be that he thinks cats are annoying, or the cat's urine and feces stink, and he can't stand it. Then after I know this situation, I will choose between a cat and a boyfriend, I want to have a cat very much, and I feel that cats bring me far more happiness than with my boyfriend, then I will communicate directly with my boyfriend and say that either I agree to have a cat, or the two of us will break up. If we break up, I can find a man who also likes cats, we have cats together, we have a lot of common topics, and life is sweeter.

    Summary: Some people like to have cats, some people don't like cats, there are different reasons, and they should all be respected, but if I like cats very much, but my boyfriend doesn't want me to have cats, then I will spend my own money to raise cats first, and if he still doesn't agree, then I will break up with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should stick to your ideas, and you should also learn to convince your boyfriend that you will raise this cat yourself. He doesn't need to pay for it. So that you can get a cat.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break up with this man directly, this man has no love, and sooner or later you will be wronged when you are with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can raise a cat yourself, and the cat's expenses will be paid for by yourself, so that's it. There's no need to ask your boyfriend's permission.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For today's young people, a pet cat is not only a pet, but also a family, of course you can dislike his family, but you can't ask him to do anything excessive to his family.

    Now it is different from the past, in the previous era, everyone did not have enough to eat, did not have the time and energy to have pets, and the feelings were not so deep.

    There are even some rural families who will slaughter their dogs when important guests come and make them into delicious dishes to entertain them.

    But now it's different, although many young people can't afford to buy a car or a house, but they have the money to keep pets, and they have time to play with their pets, and their feelings with pets are very deep.

    And many young people don't like to socialize very much, and live alone for a long time, for them, pets are not only pets, but also accompany his family when he is the loneliest, loneliest and most helpless.

    For them, pets are extremely important, and even many people regard pets as their own children, because pets give them all their trust, and their quality determines that they cannot live up to this trust.

    Can you do this as a girlfriend? Can you fully trust your boyfriend? Can you stay with him at all times? Can you be by his side when he is the loneliest, the saddest, and the least wants to see anyone?

    Obviously, most women can't do it, but his pet can, and the cat is always by his side, always giving him spiritual comfort.

    Maybe you have a lot more status in his heart than his cat, but even so, most of the time it is difficult for him to choose between you and the cat.

    Especially when you force him to make a choice between you and the cat, his impression of you will be greatly reduced, and your status may not be as high as the cat at this time, and you may really lose to the cat.

    So if you really can't stand this cat, try to accept this cat, if it doesn't work, break up, don't be like a shrew to ask him to abandon this cat, this will only ruin your image in his heart and make him disgusted with women.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your boyfriend has a cat that he particularly likes and you don't like, then you can try to like it. Two people need to be integrated with each other when they are together, and I can't make a fuss because of a little thing, so let's try to like it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I want to pay attention to the family's pet, if you don't like it, you can let him give up this pet, because after all, two people live, two people can live together after the consensus of the two people, I think there is a pet at home, if two people like it, there is nothing wrong, but if one party does not like it, it is best not to raise, affecting the relationship and feelings of two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At this time, you can tell your boyfriend that when you go to his house, let him put the cat in the cage, and when he is gone, let him continue to pet the cat.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The two of you should take it together, after all, your boyfriend has a cat and is responsible for the cat, you can't abandon the cat because you don't like it, you also have to like the cat as much as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This can win the opinion of your boyfriend, you can give the cat away, but if you can't do it, you have to try to like the cat, after all, you still like your boyfriend very much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This requires communication between you and your boyfriend, after all, not everyone can accept cats.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you can only change to a dog, and it's okay to be flexible, maybe there will be other bad things with cats.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If your girlfriend really doesn't accept cats, then don't have cats.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You make it clear that you don't like it, and he doesn't care about your feelings, and he won't take care of your feelings when he encounters other things in the future, and any family member who doesn't agree should not have a cat, it's not good for people or cats

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to tell your boyfriend why he doesn't like to have cats, and then tell him about some things that are more troublesome to have pets, and then ask him if he is confident that he can do these things well, I think most boys are troublesome.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think at this time you should find a boyfriend to take the initiative to communicate and communicate, and tell him what you think.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't like cats and your boyfriend has to have them, you'd better make this clear to your boyfriend. You don't care about the cat, and you hate the cat so much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't have a common hobby, just say goodbye.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then you should still make your point of view, and you can choose to make a certain regression on both sides.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Hello, if you hate cats, you can talk to your boyfriend and ask why you have a cat, and then you tell him the reasons why you hate cats, if in general, your boyfriend will definitely consider it if he respects your opinion.

    Hello Bureau, if you hate Kuanming cats, you can talk to your boyfriend and ask why you have a cat, and then you tell him the reason why you hate cats, if in general, your boyfriend will definitely consider it if he respects your cautious opinions.

    After all, when two people are together, it is generally the boy who accommodates the girl, and your boyfriend will consider it if you explain the reason why you don't like to have a cat.

    I live in his house, I don't have a house, he has a cat, I can't get along with the cat, even if it's not in the same room, but he likes it very much, and he looks at it every day, saying that he doesn't have his own regretful life, I think he is very pitiful.

    Then you can tell your boyfriend about your banquet, saying that you can't get along with cats, if he likes you, I think a pet and girlfriend scum Chongyin should be able to know.

    But you can say that as long as the cat is not in the same room with you, it is acceptable.

    It is also the best option for two people to take a step back from each other.

    Cats are still very hygienic, and you tell him not to let cats appear in your living area.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Shouldn't boys look for girls?

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