I especially like cats, but my boyfriend won t let me keep them, saying it s too expensive, what sho

Foreword: Cats are very cute, fluffy, sometimes very clingy, sometimes very cold, and can bring high emotional value to their owners.

But some people don't like to raise cats, they think cats are dirty, troublesome, and expensive. If my boyfriend won't let me keep a cat because it's too expensive, then I can solve this problem from the following 2 points:

1. Spend your own money to buy cats and raise cats.

In a relationship, there are still many girls who like to ask boys for money, just because they are girls, they think that men should love themselves, and the way to reflect love is to give themselves money, so they usually ask their boyfriends for money to buy things. Some women are even more excessive, they don't work at all, and they rely on men to support themselves, so this kind of girl definitely has no right to speak, so raising a cat also needs to be approved by her boyfriend. But I'm different, I have a stable job, and the income is not low, then I can take out a lot of money to buy a cat, I can afford a cat for tens of thousands of dollars, and I will also take it to do health care, beauty, three meals a day to let the cat eat very richly, which I can afford, therefore, I don't have to look at my boyfriend's face, after all, Lao Tzu's money Lao Tzu can call the shots.

2. Break up with him.

If my boyfriend doesn't want me to have a cat at first, it may be just an excuse to spend too much money, the real reason is that he doesn't like cats, it may be that he thinks cats are annoying, or the cat's urine and feces stink, and he can't stand it. Then after I know this situation, I will choose between a cat and a boyfriend, I want to have a cat very much, and I feel that cats bring me far more happiness than with my boyfriend, then I will communicate directly with my boyfriend and say that either I agree to have a cat, or the two of us will break up. If we break up, I can find a man who also likes cats, we have cats together, we have a lot of common topics, and life is sweeter.

Summary: Some people like to have cats, some people don't like cats, there are different reasons, and they should all be respected, but if I like cats very much, but my boyfriend doesn't want me to have cats, then I will spend my own money to raise cats first, and if he still doesn't agree, then I will break up with him.

You should stick to your ideas, and you should also learn to convince your boyfriend that you will raise this cat yourself. He doesn't need to pay for it. So that you can get a cat.

Break up with this man directly, this man has no love, and sooner or later you will be wronged when you are with him.

You can raise a cat yourself, and the cat's expenses will be paid for by yourself, so that's it. There's no need to ask your boyfriend's permission.

For today's young people, a pet cat is not only a pet, but also a family, of course you can dislike his family, but you can't ask him to do anything excessive to his family.

Now it is different from the past, in the previous era, everyone did not have enough to eat, did not have the time and energy to have pets, and the feelings were not so deep.

There are even some rural families who will slaughter their dogs when important guests come and make them into delicious dishes to entertain them.

But now it's different, although many young people can't afford to buy a car or a house, but they have the money to keep pets, and they have time to play with their pets, and their feelings with pets are very deep.

And many young people don't like to socialize very much, and live alone for a long time, for them, pets are not only pets, but also accompany his family when he is the loneliest, loneliest and most helpless.

For them, pets are extremely important, and even many people regard pets as their own children, because pets give them all their trust, and their quality determines that they cannot live up to this trust.

Can you do this as a girlfriend? Can you fully trust your boyfriend? Can you stay with him at all times? Can you be by his side when he is the loneliest, the saddest, and the least wants to see anyone?

Obviously, most women can't do it, but his pet can, and the cat is always by his side, always giving him spiritual comfort.

Maybe you have a lot more status in his heart than his cat, but even so, most of the time it is difficult for him to choose between you and the cat.

Especially when you force him to make a choice between you and the cat, his impression of you will be greatly reduced, and your status may not be as high as the cat at this time, and you may really lose to the cat.

So if you really can't stand this cat, try to accept this cat, if it doesn't work, break up, don't be like a shrew to ask him to abandon this cat, this will only ruin your image in his heart and make him disgusted with women.

If your boyfriend has a cat that he particularly likes and you don't like, then you can try to like it. Two people need to be integrated with each other when they are together, and I can't make a fuss because of a little thing, so let's try to like it.

I want to pay attention to the family's pet, if you don't like it, you can let him give up this pet, because after all, two people live, two people can live together after the consensus of the two people, I think there is a pet at home, if two people like it, there is nothing wrong, but if one party does not like it, it is best not to raise, affecting the relationship and feelings of two people.

At this time, you can tell your boyfriend that when you go to his house, let him put the cat in the cage, and when he is gone, let him continue to pet the cat.

The two of you should take it together, after all, your boyfriend has a cat and is responsible for the cat, you can't abandon the cat because you don't like it, you also have to like the cat as much as possible.

This can win the opinion of your boyfriend, you can give the cat away, but if you can't do it, you have to try to like the cat, after all, you still like your boyfriend very much.

This requires communication between you and your boyfriend, after all, not everyone can accept cats.

You make it clear that you don't like it, and he doesn't care about your feelings, and he won't take care of your feelings when he encounters other things in the future, and any family member who doesn't agree should not have a cat, it's not good for people or cats

First of all, you have to tell your boyfriend why he doesn't like to have cats, and then tell him about some things that are more troublesome to have pets, and then ask him if he is confident that he can do these things well, I think most boys are troublesome.

I think at this time you should find a boyfriend to take the initiative to communicate and communicate, and tell him what you think.

If you don't like cats and your boyfriend has to have them, you'd better make this clear to your boyfriend. You don't care about the cat, and you hate the cat so much.

If you don't have a common hobby, just say goodbye.

Then you should still make your point of view, and you can choose to make a certain regression on both sides.

Animal abuse boyfriend, don't break up and wait for him to hit you?

The boyfriend who picked it up in the trash can still threw it back into the trash can as soon as possible and let him stay where he should be. How you treat cats, you may be treated in the future. In the days of getting along, it's hard to guarantee that you won't wave your fist at you because of his will!

Most of the people who abuse animals have violent tendencies.

Foreign countries have studied the relationship between animal cruelty and murderers, and have come to a shocking conclusion: many murderers have committed animal cruelty.

This is the experience of some serial killers, and it makes people shudder to watch it.

Some psychological counselors and psychologists have deliberately analyzed the psychology of people who abuse animals, and experts believe that there are generally two situations of dog abuse and cat abuse, one is to bear too much pressure, and inadvertently find that animal abuse can relieve their own pressure, and accidental behavior has become a habit; The other is that the individual has endured violence or cold violence, and the world believes that he can fight back against the perpetrator, so he chooses to attack the life that is weaker than himself.

Therefore, the essence of animal cruelty is bullying the weak, and completely vertical code is a manifestation of psychological unhealth.

Domestic violence is often closely linked to animal cruelty.

Domestic violence is also often closely related to animal cruelty. Perpetrators often control abused women or children by abusing animals, and abused women are often forced to endure out of fear of pets, and the number of animal abuses in domestic violence families is far more than 11 times higher than in non-domestic violence families.

In July 2015, a male student studying in China was sentenced to one year in prison on suspicion of animal cruelty and domestic violence against his girlfriend. It is understood that the man and his girlfriend adopted a puppy because they usually quarreled, hoping to ease the relationship between the two, but the two began to quarrel because of the puppy, so the man sprinkled all his grievances on the puppy, abusing the puppy with a knife and burning, causing it to fracture. In addition, he also committed violence against his girlfriend, including beating and strangling his neck to cause suffocation.

In October 2018, a female student studying in China reported to the police that her ex-boyfriend had punched and kicked her during an altercation, causing her multiple physical injuries. **After investigation, it was found that the man not only beat his girlfriend, but also smashed the cat repeatedly against the wall because he was dissatisfied with his girlfriend's cat, resulting in multiple fractures of the cat's skull, pelvis, femur and so on.

Therefore, once your partner has a behavior or tendency to abuse animals, it is recommended to break up quickly and save your life.

We can't ask everyone to love small animals, but it's okay not to love it, please don't hurt it. From the way a person treats small animals, it can be seen that he knows how to respect life.

It's the cat that's being beaten today, and you're probably next. Bullying the weak and violent, is something that cannot be entrusted for life. There are so many good boys in the world, sisters must keep their eyes open, don't look for a scumbag who abuses cats.

Although a person's character can be seen through the way of treating small animals, it is not recommended to deliberately raise a cat to test the other half, which is too irresponsible for the cat.

Finally, I wish everyone can meet the other half who truly loves cats and have sweet love!

First of all, you explain it to your girlfriend.

Girls are like that. If you prefer one. She'll make comparisons. Then you have to be nice to your girlfriend accordingly.

She's giving a warning. You're even nicer to your cat than you're to your girlfriend.

So don't snub your girlfriend. Give him love, give him care. At the same time, nurture the relationship between your girlfriend and your cat. Make your girlfriend like your.

The boy himself is the atmospheric party, since you choose to love her, maybe you have to learn to love everything about the house and Wu, you also learn to love cats, raise cats, maybe this can also enhance the relationship between the two of you, this is not a very cost-effective behavior.

It's a very cute thing for your girlfriend to want to have a cat, you can accompany her to raise it and try to like it.

You can communicate with your girlfriend and express your thoughts. If she insists, you just accept it.

Affection for small animals can be cultivated, allowing girlfriends to have cats, and by the way, cultivating the feelings of two people.

In this case, someone must make concessions, in fact, the cat is still quite cute, and after accepting it, you may love the cat more than your girlfriend.

You can talk to your girlfriend about it, and if she insists on raising it, you can only try to accept it.

If you don't have that kind of annoyance or allergies, raise it.

This kind of thing can't be communicated, so it's better to try to get in touch with the cat yourself and make yourself like to have cats. If you really don't like it, you can only change your girlfriend.

In fact, there are many benefits to having a cat.

1. Find that life has become better.

The existence of cats is simply a little angel soft and glutinous, which can make our hearts soft, and it can be said that many people who have cats are very gentle!

2. Smart people have cats.

Having a cat makes people smart, or whether smart people have cats, I can't solve this causal relationship. According to a study conducted by Caral University in the United States, cat owners performed better in the intelligence test and were able to get relatively high scores.

A human cat is actually equivalent to an object of affection. Owning a cat is indeed very good at cultivating one's empathy for others and the ability to read words and feelings.

3. Men with cats are more attractive.

According to a survey, more than nine out of ten women find men who own cats more attractive than men who don't.

After the pet owner got a boyfriend, he felt more and more like superfluous. The cat in the house is no longer so clingy to itself after the boyfriend appears. In the past, it was the pet owner who got up early to prepare food for the cat, but now it has become a boyfriend who automatically prepares it for the cat.

Obviously, I was enjoying the weekend with my boyfriend and watching a movie on the sofa, but my boyfriend was always holding a cat in his arms. The pet owner is now going to be reduced to competing for favor with the cat, but compared with the two, once you meet the cat owner who loves to be spoiled, the pet owner will be defeated in an instant!

But ......Isn't your own cat a boy paper?

Whether it is the cat prince or the cat princess, as long as the cat is coquettish, few people can resist it. Do you know what are the actions of cats?

1. Gently rub your head against you.

Sometimes when you fall asleep, the cat will run up to you and rub you with its nose or head. The cat's action is coquettish, and if you are treated like this, is your heart going to be cute by the cat.

2. Expose your belly in front of you.

If the cat shows its soft belly in front of you, then don't hesitate to touch it. The cat's belly is very soft and can be easily injured, and if it does this in front of you, it means that it trusts you enough.

3. Follow you wherever you go.

No matter where you go, the cat follows your footsteps, whether you go to the toilet or take a bath, the cat sticks to you and looks at you. Then you can secretly laugh, which means that the cat cares about you very much and even wants to protect you.

Haha, the cat master's always straightforward personality, isn't it very contrasting and cute?