Is growth about leaving a person, and the person who brings growth will have to leave in the end

No, it's leaving two people, your dad and your mom.

Student days. At that time, I was a member of the Health Council, an ordinary member of the student union, and an ordinary person with mediocre grades. She grew up with my help, from an ordinary girl to a chubby girl who grew into a secretary of the Youth League.

She fell in love with a man who worked his own and was the president of the student council, and his grades were high.

I love her deeply, make up for her loopholes, her pits, her mistakes, help her study and research, and finally become a dog licker.

The chair and I have a classroom and a dormitory. At first, he was a little flustered, and he didn't bully me. He took a group of people with him day and night.

I was gradually isolated, and many men and women went to become his followers, with piquan, merit awards, and scholarships. Or really love him.

At that time, every time I talked about it, I found that it was someone who liked him.

I didn't have any friends.

All ridiculed, ridiculed, ridiculed, and stabbed.

— After graduation. I came to Guangzhou alone. I have worked on a construction site, worked as a cashier, got a driver's license, was a cleaner, repaired a computer, and was deceived by a training institution to package the money I had saved, and then started all over again after failing and losing money.

Gradually became a general worker, a team leader, a supervisor, and a department manager. Now it is appreciated by the president.

I met one person after another who understood me, as well as my wife.

I also cultivated one capable person after another and made some close friends.

I happened to see the circle of friends, and that group. She still longs for a great man, and she wants her prince to be the survivor of the big city. However, many of her girlfriends said she dreamed. She is still alone on the street selling mobile phones to people.

The president of the student union has been selling insurance until now. She also gave a lot for him, until she was dumped.

He has been living an alcoholic life because of the big gap in graduation.

She complained that there was no suitable man in a small city, and there was no man with lofty ideals, and she was willing to accompany a man who could fight together.

However, I have been silent. None of those people knew I was like this. She was still a little chubby and was dumped three times. I was very distressed, and I wanted to talk to her, which was the end of my efforts at school.

I think now she sees me, even though she knows I do. She will also look down on me, how she wants to shake her hand and pass on the warmth to me in the past, when I was a student. Erase the tears I swallowed at that time.

I've got friends, I've had loyal subordinates, I've got people who love me. I am also silently developing and hoarding until the moment when I step into the great ideal.

Growth in life is grown in ridicule, ridicule, humiliation, and dark knives. That's it.

It shouldn't be like this, people who can only let themselves grow, but can't experience the joy of being with this person. Obviously, this person has taught him a lot, obviously this person has made him understand a lot, and it is obviously this person who has made him grow, but he doesn't want to be with this person from the bottom of his heart, and in the end he won't choose to go down with this person, but will leave when the time comes.

Learning is to understand, understanding is to grow, and growth is to be able to survive better. But if the person who allows himself to learn is given too much workplace thinking, too many personal accidents, too many profit-oriented behaviors in the process, and this person still has a certain status in a certain industry, he will definitely grow up quickly around this person. It's just that no matter how good things are, too much will make people overwhelmed, and they are afraid of sudden fatigue from the heart, which is due to the fact that everything people do is ultimately pursuing a good thing, and it is a sincerity that can have a clear conscience, or at least there must always be some truth, goodness, and beauty emotions in human nature that they still want to keep.

Man is an emotional animal, not a cold-blooded animal. So that's why doing things against one's own will, saying too many insincere words, it will become a habit, but it will not make you feel so happy, but it will accumulate numbness and boredom over time. This is also why it can bring growth, but I still don't want to stay, because I am unhappy and tired, I can stay for a while, and I won't want to stay with this person for a lifetime.

A storm came, suddenly a big raindrop hit the ant, the impact turned over, the ant was dizzy and was slapped in the air, when the ant fell down and fell into a river, just when the ant thought he was dying, another big raindrop slapped the ant close to a leaf, the ant did not dare to hesitate and climb up the leaf. In an instant, countless heavy raindrops hit the ants like arrows, and the ants held their breath and crawled under the leaves and drifted down the water.

I don't know how long it took, the rain stopped, and the sky slowly cleared. A ray of sunlight shone into the woods, there were still small droplets on the leaves, and an ant slowly crawled into the sunlight, and it was still alive.

One day I met this ant and asked him if the storm was terrible, and I wanted to hear it say that he never wanted to go through this kind of thing again in his life. The ant said very calmly: "I am very grateful for the storm, the ants who have experienced the storm will be strong enough for the rest of their lives, know how to cherish, and know how to survive."

This is the law of nature, and it is also the law of growth. I asked Min Wang Ant again: "Then you like this stormy life, so will you choose to live with the storm for the rest of your life?"

The ant smiled: "If life can be beautiful for a lifetime, I will choose to be beautiful for a lifetime, but this will not be the case, but I will not be stupid enough to live with the storm for a lifetime." After all, thanks to the storm for the growth, it doesn't mean that you like the life that the storm gives.

Speaking of which, in fact, ants are the same as people, and the one who will choose to be together is someone who can help them after a storm, or give them a ray of sunshine. It is a person who can not get tired and can often make the corners of his mouth rise. The appearance of some people can only bring growth and strength, but I forget that what people do is for the kind of happiness that can finally laugh happily, not only the growth of pain.