After a long time of love, I feel that he doesn t love me as much as before.

Because you have changed from lovers to relatives, and you are all the dearest and most beloved people. It's not that you've just fallen in love, so of course there's nothing new. For example, the first time he holds your hand, your heart beats.

Now when he holds your hand or you hold him, do you feel very solid and happy, not very nervous and excited? This is the transformation of family affection. Don't ask a man if he still loves you as before, a boy's love is deep, maybe you are tired of asking him, so he needs a space to find purity, but I believe that he actually loves you very much, so he said that he will be friends with you after the breakup.

That's because I also want to know how you're doing after the breakup. Ordinary feelings often flow. I hope you are happy, and don't put pressure on him mentally!

I've walked to the dim light.

At the beginning of love, it is always very exciting, you think that it is Yoko Ohno who finds John Lennon, or Tongurus who finds Nigo Jiewen, you are a match made in heaven, you will stay together for life, you love with hope and passion, however, after walking for a while, you begin to doubt, you are Yoko Ohno, but is he John Lianyi?

You find that your love for him is not as fanatical as it was at the beginning, you are not as curious about him as you were at the beginning, and your chemistry with him does not seem to be as strong as it was at the beginning. His attraction seems to be so much, and what he says, you no longer blindly believe, everything about him, is no longer so perfect.

However, you are reluctant to leave him at this time, and you and he have walked a long way hand in hand. It's just that the more you go on, the more you feel that there is a problem, it turns out that he is not a hundred points, he is only worth seventy points. It turns out that he has a lot of shortcomings that you can't stand anymore.

It turns out that he doesn't love you so much that he is willing to give everything for you. It turns out that your values and outlook on life are very different......

What to do at this time?

You have feelings, but you don't have love.

Do you want to go down with him? Are you willing to live like this for the rest of your life?

Your love has inadvertently gone to the dim light, and the light is sparse and a little dim.

Girl, don't you think it's too early for you to be involved in such a problem at such a young age? It feels like your worldview of love is not yet sound, it is difficult to grasp the steering wheel of love, and it is easy to deviate from the track, once you are frustrated on the road of love, it is not good for your growth and physical and mental health, how can you withstand the storm with the same years, it is best not to play this game too early.

Maybe! Men love the new and hate the old.

But it depends on how you look at it.

Since you still love him, try to be with him and get along with him.

Don't really regret losing it after that!!

Senior me"A lesson in blood"Yes!

I broke up with my boyfriend on April 4th, and I was in a similar situation to you, so I can understand your feelings at this time. After the breakup, I realized how stupid my thoughts were, hehe

Go for it. You will be happy.

In fact, feelings are like this, after a long time, I will think that I don't care before, I always feel that my boyfriend is not as considerate as before, and I am so angry, when I ask him why, he will say that he cares, love is not said by mouth, it is good to calm down and think about it, very good! Don't do anything you regret! Be careful!

Read The Art of Love.

Love is not just feelings, feelings will fade, this is normal, but the person in charge will take love as a decision, and if you decide to love, you will no longer change, so there is eternity.

I'm dizzy, it's too small, like this, no one will love you forever in your life, always want others to love you, have you ever thought about how you do it yourself.

You're getting better

Occasionally depressed

But ask your heart, you can't fool yourself if you like it or not!

Hey, it's inevitable that everything will be dull.

...Don't worry too much about it. Otherwise, it's annoying.

Summary. My dear, some boys are very serious about their feelings.

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Two days ago, I made it too much.,Breaking up with him was actually my fault.,But when I played ** with him, I said that a favorite anime character was handsome.,At first, he wasn't angry, just said that I compared it with him.,Later, I went too far, I said I liked him very much.,My object was angry.,At that time, I hung up on his **,I knew I was going too far.,Later, I called him ** and said for a while, he hung up on me**, so I was very angry, and I proposed to break up, I was angry, I didn't really want to break up.。

I've mentioned it a few times before, and it's all about anger.

He will keep coaxing me, and he will be afraid to leave me.

But the day before yesterday he said he couldn't stand it, are you sure, and then he was sad.

My dear, some boys are very serious about their feelings.

Later, I proposed to get back together in the afternoon, and I knew he was reluctant to let me go, and then he agreed, but I also knew that the breakup was uncomfortable.

In the past two days, he has been talking to me for more than 7 months.

Although the word "breakup" can be a lot of anger for you, for boys, it can be really uncomfortable.

Summary. His coldness towards you is the result of your emotional management, and the real problem is that what you do in your relationship consumes this love. The friction of daily life, the consumption of the mode of getting along, the consumption of communication, the consumption of conflict resolution mode, etc., are all consuming your feelings, so that you feel as if he does not love you as much as before.

Why does it feel like he doesn't love me as much as he used to.

His coldness towards you is the result of your emotional management, and the real problem is that what you do in your relationship consumes this love. The friction of daily life, the consumption of the mode of getting along, the consumption of communication, the consumption of conflict resolution mode, etc., are all consuming your feelings, so that you feel as if he does not love you as much as before.

The real logic of emotional problems is: two people don't know how to manage their feelings, they don't know how to live their feelings well, they always do something that consumes their feelings, so that love slowly wears out into unlove, and their behavior shows unloving behavior, such as what you said, don't reply to your messages in seconds, and won't coax you immediately after a quarrel, even if you are unhappy, he doesn't care so much.

I hope mine can help you [Bixin].

I can give a thumbs up, your thumbs up are very important to me

In a long-term relationship, it is quite normal for there to be changes in emotions. Sometimes, we may feel that our partner is no longer as loving as we used to, or that we don't feel his love.

First of all, you need to be clear about your feelings, whether your feelings are just from your own imagination and guesses, or from actual actions and words. If it's just some speculation on your own, then maybe you need to communicate more with your partner and understand his or her thoughts and emotions.

Secondly, if you really feel that your partner is no longer showing the love you used to have, then you can take the initiative to ask her if there are any problems or difficulties, share each other's feelings and needs, understand each other and seek solutions.

Finally, most of the time, love is something that needs to be given. If you feel that your partner is not showing much affection, then maybe you need to work together to enhance each other's feelings and create more good memories and experiences for each other.

In conclusion, it is advisable to strengthen communication, better understand each other's thoughts and emotions, develop and improve the quality of emotions together.

There are many people who have a feeling that the other party does not love them enough when they are in love, but they have fallen into this relationship and don't want to let go.

In fact, in a relationship, it doesn't mean that if I'm good enough to you, I will definitely be able to make the other party like you, because getting along with each other requires certain skills.

If you don't have a good way of communicating when you get along, and you can't make the girl take the initiative in the relationship, this relationship may be a pity.

Therefore, if you want to break this deadlock, you have to find a way to communicate with each other well and make everything clear in each other's hearts, so that you can understand each other better.