Why can time and distance dilute everything?

True love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, and love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others but a mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising illustrates its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

I don't think so, because I'm in the same situation as you. It depends on how much you believe in him, or in yourself. Love needs to be giving, and maybe your giving is waiting.

Time can indeed dilute some things, but some feelings don't. Believe that there is true love.

Time to dilute everything is not ruthless, but it is a long time, during this time, you can quietly think about some things clearly, whether it is worth it or not, whether it is good or not, how to adjust your mentality, which is more important and which is more important to do in the heart will be clear and clear, after a long time, people will not be impulsive, become rational, so Hu Cha will say that time dilutes everything.

Time fades into everything. But there are some things that you can't take with you. It's just put in the deepest part of my heart.

No more lifting the rubber ruler. .

Some feelings are Zen Ru Nai you think that no matter what, you will not forget, and some hurts you can never forgive, but when time is long, you will find that your heart can be very calm, you can forget and forgive.

I don't think so. I am in a long-distance relationship, and I have had a deep experience of some problems in the relationship, time and distance.

I was with him in my second year of high school, and in fact, we have only been together for half a year. In that half a year, although there will always be various stumbles, there will always be noise. But I do feel happy and happy every day.

Even, when we were in our second year of high school, at the age of sixteen or seventeen, we thought about our future.

It is precisely because we think about the future that we are in a long-distance relationship. Because his grades are not very outstanding, he himself is not very interested in studying. In his eyes, he always felt that reading was too rigid to achieve great things.

As for me, I am not particularly good in terms of academic performance, but I can also be admitted to more than one university. He knew in his heart that my family's expectations for me were very high, and naturally the requirements for my future son-in-law were not much lower, so for the sake of our future, he resolutely chose to drop out of school and go out to struggle.

In my third year of high school, I really wanted to calm down and study. But I always quarrel with him, and I feel very tormented inside. So, even at a busy stage of study, I decided to buy a train ticket to Nanchang.

When I arrived in Nanchang, after seeing him, I hugged him, and I felt that something bad between us had disappeared.

After returning from Nanchang, I also worked hard to enrich my life, reviewed every day, and fought hard for the college entrance examination. I won't ask him to accompany me all day long, and I will let myself devote myself to our beautiful future planning. So, during that time, I didn't get upset about emotional matters, but felt that he gave me more support in life.

And we went on for a year.

If time and distance were to be an emotional barrier, it would have been harder than my junior year. Because the distance apart is farther and longer. But, in fact, both of us are a lot more mature than before, and we hardly feel that a long-distance relationship is particularly stressful because of some trivial things in life.

We strive for a better version of ourselves every day. He was still busy with his work, I was still busy with my studies, and even in college, I didn't let myself up.

Now, we have been together for three years, two and a half years in a different place, and we are not from the same place, even during the Chinese New Year, we can meet casually like ordinary couples. 365 days a year, we in a long-distance relationship see each other for less than 30 days a year. We've been away from home for a long time, and we've been separated for a long time.

However, we are still very happy, even if we quarrel and have conflicts...

Personally, I think so.

I don't know if distance can dilute feelings, because there will definitely be some people who have succeeded in long-distance relationships, they will say that distance will not dilute feelings, and people who really love each other will not be diluted by distance, and it is true, how difficult is long-distance relationships, most people are defeated by distance, but there are still people who can persevere, it can only be said that distance is diluted by the feelings between those who are not deeply in love, and those who love each other cannot be diluted. Although I myself have also experienced a long-distance relationship, it may be that my relationship is not strong, so when I experience a long-distance relationship, in the face of distance, the relationship can indeed be diluted, and we can't resist the distance.

But I think time can indeed dilute feelings, no matter how much two people once loved each other, after a few years or decades after the breakup, do you dare to say that the relationship has not changed as before? What doesn't exist will fade more or less. Someone once said that if you want to forget a person after a breakup, the main thing is time, no matter how deep your feelings are, no matter how reluctant you are, it is not a problem in front of time, time is the best medicine for everything, time can dilute everything, originally I didn't believe it, but now I believe it.

After breaking up with my first love, I thought that I would never forget him for the rest of my life, and he may have to occupy my life all the time, so that I can't start a new life for a long time, but this is not the case, two years have passed, my feelings for him have really faded, and there is no longer the original attachment, I can only say that time has really changed a lot of things, and many things have been precipitated, and what I once couldn't let go of will slowly let go.

In fact, time and distance are only objective existences, and all that is diluted is only the impact of your real life. When you fall out of love, another love is placed in front of you, and when you are desperate for the previous one, or even the first time, you will choose this new relationship. In fact, this is all human nature.

Don't use any objective way to solve your emotional problems, that's stupid.

Time can only dilute everything, can't forget everything, even if you say that you have forgotten, but once one day, the person you once liked stands in front of you again, and those memories from the past will appear in front of your eyes again. It's just vague. Memory can't be erased, it's just hidden deep in your heart, once it touches it, it will emerge again, but it has experienced the dilution of time and seems blurry.

True feelings will not be diluted by time and distance, on the contrary, sometimes it is necessary to be separated for a period of time and a distance, so that the other party can feel the power of true love more. However, time and distance can indeed test true love, and many people think that long-distance love is not good, so I would like to remind those people that in fact, long-distance love can last until the end is true love.

The taste of true love is really difficult to describe in words, it has different perceptions in different people's hearts, and the sweetness and pain in it can only be experienced by the person concerned. If you believe in your love, please give yourself and each other more confidence, more persistence, more understanding, do not abandon, do not give up. Distance is not a problem, the question is whether the two of you truly love each other, whether you are both working hard for the future together, and whether you can stand the test of time on your love fidelity.

I think it depends on what kind of relationship it is, family affection will not be diluted by time and distance, but whether it is friendship or love, it will be diluted.

Let's take friendship as an example, when I was in high school, I was better with the other three girls, we chatted together after class, and we went back together after school. Sometimes on rainy days, we will meet at school for lunch at noon, often order the same meal, and sometimes ask out for a cup of milk tea on weekends. Moreover, every holiday after we met had to have a fixed time to get together, and Chinese New Year's Eve also had to be spent with four people, and it was impossible to do without one.

I thought that the relationship between the four of us would continue like this, and there would be no change, but after the college entrance examination, three of the four of us went to different universities, and one of us came out to work early. I don't know why, when I went to college, I usually have no contact, and I rarely ask for warmth, and I will only make an appointment to meet when I go home on vacation, but every time I meet, I feel that I can't interject, and I don't know a lot of what they say, so I just listened quietly, we are not as close as before, and we are not as good as before, even if we are usually on vacation at school, we have not looked for each other. Gradually, I felt that each other's worlds had changed, and there was no longer the previous relationship, so I sometimes pushed down their appointments.

In this way, the friendship was slowly diluted by the seemingly not far distance and the time of two or three years.

I have a classmate who has a wealthy family and falls in love with a boy from an ordinary sunny and handsome family, and the family obstructs it in every possible way, but it backfires, and the greater the resistance, the stronger the love between the two.

In the end, the girl's family reluctantly agreed to the relationship. However, an arrangement was made: for the sake of a better future for the two, they had to be separated for two years, the man would go to the north to learn a trade, and the girl would go to the south to study in a higher education institution in order to find a better job in the future.

The two were very happy to see that their families were no longer stopping, as if they saw a bright future for each other.

In the days when she came to the school report, all the girl had in her mouth was her handsome boyfriend and the love between them, and she once confidently said that she would not love any man in her life except for her boyfriend.

As long as the two of them are free, they are greasy and crooked in **, sometimes they are still cooking **porridge there in the middle of the night, ** often hit until they are hot, and they are reluctant to hang up, as if they can't breathe without love.

Soon a semester passed, and one day we were surprised to find that she didn't seem to hit ** frequently for a long time, and even occasionally her boyfriend called ** to her, and she hung up after a few words.

We asked her curiously: she said, when I want to go shopping, I don't have a bag around me, when I want to watch a movie, I don't have company, when I'm sick, I don't have water and medicine, what's the use of just hitting **? Will it solve my practical difficulties?

It's the same when my lover isn't around me as if I don't have a lover, so I want to find someone who can be by my side at all times.

Since then, there has been a new boyfriend around him, and the two often hold hands on the boulevard of the campus, and the boyfriend who was once loved in the distance has long been forgotten outside the clouds.

Sometimes, time and space can really change a person's heart, and when there is no one in her life, the relationship between the two is unconsciously cold.

Yes, I had a very loving boyfriend at university, and after graduation, I returned to my hometown to become a Chinese teacher, and my boyfriend chose to become a national defense soldier. He went to Fujian Province and often went to sea as a navy. Because he trains for a long time and performs tasks from time to time, we have less and less time to chat.

I don't know who to talk to every night, in order to pass the time, I have to run every night**, on the way to the night run I met a man, he looks average, and he talks awkwardly. But he spends my boring nights with me every day.

One night, I drank too much at the bar and gave him an impulse to **, but I didn't expect him to really come. After we were all drunk, it was he who drove me home, and my mind went blank and I thought he was my boyfriend who was in the army in the field, and I started hugging him and kissing him. He didn't hide his love for me at all, and we started doing what a normal couple should do.

When I woke up in the morning, I found myself been, and after that night, we were a couple of CPs. No way, I haven't been in touch with my ex-boyfriend for a long time, time has diluted our relationship, I haven't called him since then, and I haven't told him that I have a new boyfriend, I think he should find a new girlfriend over there. After he was discharged from the army, he came to me and refused to accept such a reality.

I guess the culprit that led the two of us from special concern to cancellation, from solo grouping to mass grouping, from boyfriend and girlfriend to strangers was time and distance. I really don't want to have such a relationship again, it's too tired and lonely.