I m very confused, and I want you to help 25

It's very simple, when you have to rely on yourself for everything, you will naturally have motivation to survive When you get married and understand what responsibility is, and you need to fight to support your family, it is motivation Don't rely on your parents for everything, that will only hurt you Social reality competition is very cruel, if you don't go to the real society to hone early, you will be eliminated by society

Try to be self-reliant, even if you achieve a small achievement, there will be a sense of satisfaction (that is, you call interest), after all, it is obtained by your own ability, and social survival experience cannot be bought by any amount of money

Look at the soldier assault, from the path of Xu Sanduo's growth, you may no longer be confused, you know why you want to live.

Try to work, find a job for migrant workers in the city, try it, and you will understand how to deal with life.

Usually do what you can, enrich yourself, or find a job, even if you don't like it, but think like this, I like this job, I can do it well.

I believe that in the near future, you will find that you love life so much!

No money is the most painful in today's society, without money you have no way to enjoy your youth, without money you have no happiness, and when you work hard to earn money, you find that there is nothing left, everything is lost, life is terrible.

The reason is actually very simple, all the confusion stems from the lack of a sense of meaning, and the sense of meaning is very important for everyone.

Although we don't often think about the meaning of doing things, we are actually subconscious.

, our actions are driven by meaning, which is value.

Very few people will do things that are not valuable to them, and it is also human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so when the sense of meaning is missing, we will feel empty and bored, and we will become more and more confused.

A sense of purpose. Each person connects his or her past with his or her future through a worthy purpose.

Maybe in your daily life, you don't set a small goal for yourself, and if you try to set some small goals to achieve, then you won't be too confused.

I feel very lost, mainly because I don't have a goal in life. To put it bluntly, there is no direction to work on. If you can orient yourself and work towards it, you will feel very fulfilled and you will not be confused anymore.

Why I live a very confused life shows that you don't have a goal to strive for, and you haven't customized a good plan for yourself, so that you will live a more fulfilling and motivated life.

Life is confused mainly because of the lack of goals and ideals, in fact, you can set a goal for yourself or set an ideal for yourself, and then work hard to achieve it, so that life will not feel lost.

You live at a loss because you don't have a goal in life or work, and there is nothing in your life that worries you, even if there is a person you care about, you will not be so confused in order to improve his life.

It's because I'm in a bad mood, I'm very lost, I haven't found what really belongs to me, and I don't really love myself, I have to learn to be strong, I have to believe that I can do everything well, and I just need to do my best.

If you feel that you are living a very lost life, it means that you have no direction in life. In other words, you should have your own direction of work at all times. If you don't even have the direction of your own efforts, then how can you be?

Because you don't know what is needed? There is no direction and goal to work towards, so you have to set a goal for yourself and work hard to achieve it, and you will not feel lost.

If you feel very lost, it means that you have not found the right goal in life, and you have not encountered a situation that suits you now, but as long as you persevere, you will definitely find a turnaround.

Maybe it's because you don't have a goal, you don't find what you want to do.

It's because your current life has lost its direction and you haven't found a way in and out of life, so you feel particularly lost now.

Many people are like this, there are not many people who really live well, most of them are busy with life, and in the end they don't know what to do.

That's because you don't have any goals in life, maybe your personality itself belongs to the category of desireless and desireless, and you don't have much motivation.

Believe me, being confused means that you are questioning your past, and you may even deny it altogether. In other words, you are adjusting your mindset, looking for new goals, and preparing to try something new.

Why do you live very confused, in fact, in life, many things are not so smooth, it is normal to encounter some setbacks and tribulations and confusion, we should have the courage to face difficulties.

Because you don't have a clear goal and direction, and you don't want to work hard for it, you just want to live a mediocre life.

Because you don't have a goal or feel that your goal is far away, you won't get what you want in a short time.

It is advisable to lower expectations.

Feeling lost is because you haven't set yourself a clear goal to change your current state from now on.

If you feel that you are very lost in life, it may be because you have not found it, and it is a goal that you want to pursue.

The only reason for confusion, combined with the experience of my life, is to suddenly find that I have a gap with others and do not know what to do...But ah, the final criterion must not be that I am someone else.

Thinking about it makes me feel confused. This sense of confusion is a lack of emotion and a loss of control over one's own life.

I'm serious about your question. Everyone will experience several different periods of confusion in their lives, so don't be cranky when you feel lost, and - usually, after a smooth period of confusion, a new era of life will be ushered in.

Adjust your mentality, set a small goal for yourself, and look forward step by step.

Most people in this world think this way! Because you haven't found your purpose yet, you don't know what you're going to do. Take your time!

Explain that there is no goal.

You need to set a short-term goal and then work towards it.

Everyone will encounter several different periods of confusion in their lives, so don't be cranky when you feel lost

All the confusion and confusion in life is a reminder that it is time to take care of our inner self, because the deeper we know about our inner being, the more we can make the choices that suit us.

Life is a long journey Tired? I hope it's not that you're tired! It's very easy to end a life, really, for a person who is tired of life, and that person really easily turns himself out.

23 years old, 6 years of work in Shenzhen.

The situation that needs to be analyzed: 1. When you reach the age of talking about marriage, you still don't have this idea; 2. Although you have 6 years of work experience, you do not have enough capital to start a business on your own (including funds, necessary knowledge, etc.); 3. I have some ideas, but I don't have enough confidence.

Suggestions: 1. You can implement the things of the object, after this time period, it will be passive;

2. Review your 6 years of work experience, find the work point you are good at, and see if you take this as the foundation of your future life;

3. Don't think impetuously, dreams can sometimes kill people.

Let's see what you have planned.

You can consult with your family.

Of course, there are close friends, and there is no talk about it.

At least get a job and do it first.

If you lose your dreams, you will be confused, and if you are confused, you will have no direction, and if you have no direction, you will go with the flow, and you will be lost and have no roots.

Dameng education helps confused people find their direction, helps lazy people to implement their dreams, and helps struggling people realize their dreams.

Rely on yourself to persevere, but also be interested in the work, otherwise you will feel very bored and feel like you are in prison all the time, and you will adjust it by yourself.

You still need to work hard, readjust yourself, when you work, it's not just about work, you have to think about the way in the future, you can't freeze there, if you do one thing again, start seriously and steadily, I believe you are still great.

It's okay. Take your time, when life closes one door for you, it will always open another window for you.

Our young people are like this, they want to rely on their own efforts to achieve everything, but they have hit the wall again and again, the common diseases and pains of the post-80s, let themselves sober up, put things one by one, don't be blind at work, want to do this and want to do that, envy with high wages but can't find it, dislike and don't want to do it with low wages, find your own positioning, step by step, these are all to be discovered.

As for getting married, I used to think about getting married at 30, but I suddenly got married at a time when I didn't have a plan, and I was very confused.

Hope it helps.

First of all, I feel like I have to have faith. If you don't have confidence in yourself, how can you gain a foothold in society? Starting a family also has to be built on an economic basis, so you can save some money first, or find relatives and friends to borrow some money to open a small shop first, and do whatever you are interested in.

Take advantage of your youth, do something you want to do, sometimes think about it in the long run, in fact, there is not much capital left in your youth, so you have to cherish it...

Beauty, the goal of life is very important, and what is important to you is moving towards this goal. Thank you.

The problem you are facing now is the sudden emptiness of yourself, if you have to, you can go out and find a job, you have plenty of spare time, you don't have to ask for much income, as long as you can give you enough time to learn something or use it for fun, it's good. With the new environment, you can have more exciting.

When you look for a job, there is no job in the world that is absolutely suitable for you. Life is cruel, and reality requires us to face it positively. You can find a job that suits you well, then use the time to brush up on other skills, and then find a job that suits you better.

It's good to have dreams and self-motivation, the most terrible thing for people is that these things are gone, have you ever thought about starting your own business, taking out a loan first, or borrowing money from your parents and relatives, and then repaying it after earning it, you can open a store about infant care, it should be good.

The previous life is definitely not going back, then you can only start from the heart, everything is difficult at the beginning, do whatever you want, make yourself happy, slowly build confidence, everything will be fine, believe in yourself,

I'm like that now. The only thing that makes me move is eating and working. I think I like to dance. So I've been waiting for an opportunity. I believe it too. Everything will be fine to stand up. Hope you are too. Be happy.

Do what you want to do and try to make the most of your strengths...

You're not too big right now. It is recommended that you learn your favorite industry and start over, and work hard. . . It's never too late to have an idea before 、、、 age 40

In this life, people have to fight for what they like and do what they like, which is the happiest. The most important thing in this life is to be happy.

Think big, start small.