Can t the two of them see each other on the first night of marriage?

It depends on your local customs, and if your local customs are like this, then it doesn't matter if you follow it, it's just a day. It's just one night. It doesn't matter if you don't meet.

If there is no such custom in the local area, and you just listen to others, then there is no need for this, it doesn't matter. It depends on two people to get by. So as long as two people have a good relationship, it doesn't matter what.

I basically didn't see each other on the first night of my wedding! Generally, the woman will not see you again after filling the box! You don't know what your customs are like!

Hello! You can't meet the day before the wedding, mainly because this day dawn is only considered to be the bride's "Guanyin sitting", also known as "closed moon shy flower". Traditionally, on this day, the bride needs to keep the vows of chastity and cannot meet the groom, because at this time the bride is about to enter the married life, receiving attention and blessings from the outside world, and is also susceptible to unexpected disturbances and troubles.

In addition, there is also a saying in some places that "meeting is unlucky", believing that meeting the day before the wedding will bring stress and negative emotions to the couple, affecting the beautiful atmosphere and the possibility of a smooth wedding. However, in modern society, couples who are becoming more and more respectful of Jian Peiduo do not think that it is a traditional rule that must be followed not to meet the day before marriage, but will take the initiative to date and experience the joy and happiness before marriage together, and also pay more attention to independent choice and personalized wedding form.

In many places, there is a custom that the bride and groom cannot meet the day before the wedding, and can only meet each other when they are married, which makes the bride-to-be in love find it difficult to accept. The following is an introduction to whether the bride and groom can meet the day before the wedding and what to avoid the day before the wedding.

Can the bride and groom meet the day before the wedding.

In ancient wedding customs, the bride and groom can not meet the day before the wedding, because it is unlucky to meet the day before the wedding, especially women will be gossiped and ridiculed, although it has been opened now, but this custom has been handed down, but there is no local custom that can not meet before marriage, then it is okay for the two to meet.

What to taboo the day before marriage.

1. Newcomers are separated.

The day before the wedding, the bride and groom should stay at home, because in ancient times, daughters rarely visited their mother's house after marriage, so on this day daughters must stay at home and chat with their parents.

2. The marriage bed cannot be slept.

The day before the wedding, the marriage bed can not sleep casually, even the groom is not allowed, the groom can sleep in other rooms, if the groom wants to sleep in the marriage bed, then must sleep with the man who presses the bed, so that it will not be a singular number, and an even number is auspicious.

3. You can't say goodbye.

After the banquet on the same day, you can't say goodbye, which will make people feel that there is a sense of remarriage, which is more unlucky, just say thank you.

Those who couldn't meet before were superstitious, it's okay to meet, I wish you a happy marriage and sweet love.

With us, of course.

But different places have different customs, so it's best to ask the older elders.