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It's one thing to like it, it's another thing to get married, two people like it, it's based on not being disturbed by this society. If practical reasons are taken into account, such as having a house and a car? When you take these issues into account, it is not suitable for marriage.
This is the reason why two people like each other but can't get married.
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But there are so many things to consider in marriage, and marriage also follows the advice of both parents, and if they don't agree, no matter how much you like each other.
A love that is not blessed by parents cannot see the future.
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Today's marriage is by no means the time when holding hands for a lifetime in the past, there are too many factors to consider!
Although marriage is a matter of two people, there are still many issues to consider, the other party's work, the family's economic situation, these are the things that should be thought about when getting married, even if two people love each other, there are many people who can't be together because the conditions do not meet each other's standards.
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There are too many factors to consider when getting married, not just liking each other can be together forever, whether your personality can get along is also a big factor, in addition to the two families, after all, marriage is a matter of two families, and these conditions must be taken into account.
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Two people like each other but can't get married must have some facts that can't be changed, such as the grievances of the family, or the families of both parties don't approve, they have to part ways for various reasons or some other practical problems that can't be changed, this situation will lead to two people who like each other can't get married, although it's a pity but there is no fate and there is no way!
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There are several reasons, one is that none of you are single; Second, one party is married or engaged or introduced by family members and cannot be returned; Third, the parents of both parties do not agree to be with each other; Now falling in love is no longer a matter of two people, family members don't like to disagree, and it's useless for you to like each other.
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The two like each other, but the relationship is not accepted by others, or relatives do not support it. The obstacles are relatively large, and sometimes we can't be together. One party has a home, and for the sake of the other party's better life, he doesn't want to disturb the other party's life, so he can only silently bless in his heart.
Third, it is not for nothing that they like each other but are separated.
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Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, and many times it is necessary to consider the feelings and opinions of the family, which is the so-called family match.
If two people are barely together, they may not be happy, you have to face his family, and he has to face your family.
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If two people like each other, it should be a very suitable couple, and they should get married. After all, marriage is the two of you living together in the future. However, some family marriages are not simply a matter of two people, such as paying attention to the right family, and some young people will follow the advice of their parents, and two people may not be able to enter the palace of marriage.
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The economic base determines the superstructure.
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People who don't love each other can also get married, because my civil law does not prohibit "people who don't love each other" from marrying, as long as you want to, because love and non-love have no legal meaning. Two people who don't love each other have been together for a long time, and they may slowly love each other for the rest of their lives, and two people who love each other may end up unhappily, I hope everyone can marry love!
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It's okay to get married, but two people who don't love each other won't be happy living together.
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Of course, two people who don't love can get married. In general, there are many benefits.
You can get married first and then fall in love. Over time, they will become a loving couple.
It's better to make do with life than to be single. Unless the three views are particularly discordant, there is always a fight.
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There are also examples of love after marriage, but there are not many, no feelings, don't love each other or don't get married reluctantly, it will be very tiring to maintain a marriage without an emotional foundation.
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Hello! You can slowly cultivate feelings, but it still depends on the mood of two people, and of course it is better to express love.
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Once you decide to enter into marriage with another person, it means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us.
Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.
Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.
Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong. Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.
Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.
Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both. So be yourself, don't lose yourself, don't lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.
I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.
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People who love each other can't get married, because the two of you may not really think about each other, whether you get married or not is actually the two of you to make the decision, there must be some reasons, you have to analyze that two people have to go on with this kind of belief.
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Marriage is the happiness of two people, it is two people who are attracted to each other, like each other and care about each other, not a unilateral like, it takes two people to like each other to form a family, if two people don't like each other, there is no need to be combined, it will be endless pain.
Why can't people who don't like get married?
Marrying someone you don't like, not everyone can really be willing and live a good life in the future.
Even if some people have such thoughts at the beginning, and later find that the other party is not very good and it is very tiring to get along, they will still give up such thoughts, and are unwilling to accommodate themselves, to cater to each other in various ways, and let themselves be wronged.
When the personalities of two people are not so suitable, they are relatively strong, they don't know how to get along well, they live under the same roof, who cooks, who pretends to wash dishes, who mops the floor, and such trivial things will also make each other quarrel.
will feel that why should they let the other party go, and they will feel that the other party should be kind to themselves first.
And then no one convinces anyone, and feels that being with each other is simply a mistake, and he shouldn't be like this.
Out of such a lack of reason, it is only very discordant to get along with each other, and if you don't agree with each other, you will want to divorce, and you feel that it will be better to leave each other, live alone, and find a new one, and you don't need to be reluctant all the time.
As a result, soon after getting married, many people often choose to divorce, feeling that they have completed the task of marriage anyway, and it is not good to have tried marriage anyway, so there is really no need to trap themselves in it all the time.
Anyway, even if you leave, you can support yourself and live a decent life.
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