I always want to take a lesson because of small things?

You love to drill the horns, but it just means that when you look at any problem, you always like to analyze it from the same angle, and it is not a big problem at all. To put it simply, it's just a matter of angle. I can tell you that a lot of people are like this, don't worry.

If you want to solve this problem, you have to tell yourself that from now on, when you see anything or a problem, you have to analyze it comprehensively, don't always look at the same angle, look at other angles.

For example, if you see someone you know walking down a hill from afar, and you immediately wave to him, but he doesn't respond to you, he doesn't wave to you, and he walks away transparently in front of you, and you feel in your heart that this person looks down on you, this person is proud, this person is rude, and so on. Then, you will get into the horns, you will think that many people hate you, many people look down on you, many people don't like to be friends with you, and so on, it's normal for you to think like this, and many people will think like this when they encounter this situation, and they will look at the problem from their own perspective and analyze the situation.

Try to think about this problem from another angle, think from your friend's point of view, you will not drill the tip of the horns, you may find that when your friend walks down the hill, the sun is shining on his face, he feels very dazzling, he doesn't see you at all, you have your back to the sun, he only sees your shadow, you are like a black shadow standing in front of him, so he walks away in front of you transparently, the other may be that he is very annoyed, very distressed, there are some problems that he can't solve, His mind is full of problems, thinking about his troubles, as if he can't see anything, and he loses his soul. Another possibility is that the place where you are standing is full of people, so it's not surprising that he can't see you.

If you can analyze a problem or something from many different angles, you won't be able to get into the nitty-gritty.

It's useless to think about it, no matter what it is, its development will not be controlled by imagination, do what should be done, don't do what shouldn't be done, think before you do it, don't think about it after doing it, you can't change it.

I don't know about mental quality, but it's certain that you can be optimistic. I'm just the opposite of you, and I'll be happy for days when there's something funny, causing some people to say I'm pretending, saying I'm insane. In fact, you can find something happy in life, even a little bit.

Over time, you'll forget about the things you're not happy about. On the other hand, it's inconvenient to give me an example and tell me why you are unhappy?

I'm always angry because of trivial things, and the tone of other people's words and tones will make me think a lot, sometimes I regret what I said, and sometimes the whole person suspects that I am a psychopath.

I'm like that too, but what can I do? I can only rely on myself.

I'm very similar to you, but I still have to rely on myself, and everyone is in a different situation! I conclude that don't take yourself too seriously, relax a little bit, and keep a peaceful heart!

You can see everything, and you can't win people as well, so you will be cheerful when you think so.

Elevate yourself and make yourself excellent. It is useless to complain.

You have to think of something that makes you happy and forget about your worries.

This means that you have a problem in your heart, and it will be better if you put your mind at ease.

In a word, you think too much.

Everything that is okay will pass.

This is a kind of character, it is difficult to change completely, ordinary methods will not work well, only force yourself to hone it, and it will be good after a while.

If you are in class, you can take notes in class and even write down the main points that the teacher says, so that you will use your eyes, ears, hands and brain, and you will be busy and happy. Usually keep yourself busy, and you will be distracted and not think too much. In short, find a method that suits you and temper yourself.

You have to do what you can in other people's affairs, you can't lose your mentality because you always think about other people's things, it's good to have a heart that is willing to help others, but there is no need to think all the time, you are already great, come on.

Correct your mentality, do your best, don't care about those little things, act as if they didn't happen, do what you should do, and think so much about it.

Usually go out for a walk, listen to the light**, and communicate more with friends and family.

Treat others as air. It's just you and the teacher.

Like the sea, the stomach is large, the heart is a little relaxed, and the mind hurts the body and hurts.

Take a deep breath when you're in a bad mood. You can also do it for 5 minutes.

Try to adjust yourself, I also had a period of time, very distressed. Later, it will be good to look at it.

Find a goal, think about the goal when you run the god.

In fact, it is normal to be nervous, especially in the face of special occasions and special people, almost no one can face anyone without pressure and without tension. So don't push yourself too hard, it's normal for you to feel nervous if you're facing an upcoming exam, speaking in public, facing a leader, a teacher, or someone who is important to you. Unless you're inexplicably nervous for no reason, it's pathological.

If you feel like you're nervous more than the average person, you can get better with some training. For example:1

You can do abdominal breathing meditation exercises for 20 minutes a day, which will help stabilize the sympathetic nervous system that is easily excited and completes tension. 2.Find a specialty of your own and show it at the right time to make yourself more confident.

3.Every night before going to bed, simply write down the things that deserve encouragement and praise for your day, five a day. 4.

Exercising, people in good health are naturally prone to self-confidence, and it also helps you release the backlog of bad emotions.

Personality reasons, sensitive, nervous, timid and afraid.

Why don't you go to Li Yang's crazy English class and exercise?

It's neither, it's because you're not good enough.

Du is familiar with everything to think about it, try to plan for the worst way, such as making a fool of yourself in front of many people, you have to think,"Nothing, the people who laugh at me will not be the people who accompany me at all times in my life, and I will not have a relationship with them in the future"For example, in terms of feelings, if it's impossible, you can't think about it, because you think about him, and hurt yourself, you don't let this kind of thinking bring any good results, and it won't happen!

Good luck!

It's not a problem, the landlord is a sentimental person, and such people are usually very gentle, but rest assured that as you get older, you will slowly find yourself to realize a lot of things through some small things that make you sad!These are things that a lot of people can't do!

Be sentimental.

It can also be said that you are a happy person.

It's the little things that can make you sad.

Then your life must be quite happy.

It's a bliss.

Why bother?

Do you wish you were going to have something big?"Comfortable"Yes.

Many people are like this, but some people will cover it up, it's okay to be sad, since you find your weaknesses, try to overcome them, if you really can't do it, just go with the flow, it's okay to relax.

I'm like that, and I think it's because we don't have enough peace of mind to control our emotions.

Like me, I don't know how not to do this, I guess it's not strong enough.

None of us are gods, we haven't jumped out of the Three Realms, we haven't seen through the red dust, and we haven't reached the level of old monks. I don't believe in strong people at all, and I feel that open-mindedness is a kind of carelessness.

People are very emotional things, don't think too much.

Since he was not strong enough, it was also because he had nothing in the first place, but he thought too much.

When you're a little older, you'll get better, and under the age of 25, mood changes are very repetitive

Your family environment or school environment makes your life uncomplicated, and you have a sense of being in trouble.

On this basis, it may induce your obsessive-compulsive thoughts, referred to as obsessive-compulsive disorder.

If possible, you can talk to a counselor about your situation and ask him to give you some good advice.

Sometimes boys are the same as girls' aunts, and there will always be a few days when they are in a bad mood. My boyfriend is the same, sometimes he will quarrel with me because of very small things, like yesterday I went to the supermarket with him to buy canned food, he chose a A brand canned food and said that this is what he often eats, I later saw that B brand seems to be good, so I asked him: What do you think of this?

It's the same thing as the ace card, and it feels good. We were comparing which was better, and finally I said, "That's okay, it's just what you eat often."

Then I went on shopping for what I wanted to buy. But he stood by himself at the ab can just now, and I ignored him for a long time, and then when I went to find him, he was inexplicably angry, and said that I ignored him, was not in the mood, and wanted to leave, so we checked out.

But when I got out, I asked him what was wrong with you, and he said I ignored him. At this time, I didn't refute it, I just lied to him, and he was fine.

So in fact, a man just wants a woman to be spoiled by him, he is already irritable and will quarrel with each other, he is still very dependent on you, otherwise why would he ask you where the nail clippers are, so don't think too much.

The other party needs to be more open-minded. It's enough to pay more attention to what you say, but it's not one accommodating to each other, the feelings are mutual. Some boys have matured because of girls.

A boy also needs to be petted, and he asks you a lot in life, which does not mean that he is attached to you.

Don't pay too much attention to some small problems and noises in life, just use them as flirts, don't keep them in mind, paying too much attention to such small problems will affect the relationship.

Such a man is not fit to be a husband.

The future you want, whether there is me, what I want in the future, not just now.

Love you the way I do, you understand best, and if you don't understand I hope time will tell you the answer. Don't be entangled and then affectionate, don't be confused and let you know.

Some people can't say that it's good, but no one can replace it. Some people can't say that ** is not good, but it will not be.