If you are wronged to live like others, are you tired?

When two people fall in love, they will change for each other, in fact, each of us is still very fragile in the face of feelings, for fear of showing a bad look in front of each other, which will leave a bad impression on each other, it seems that girls will pay more attention to this, for example, my girlfriend, she was like this before, always want to show me the good side, but what she doesn't know is that I have tolerated all her little shortcomings. In fact, it is a good thing to change for the other person, which shows that you really attach great importance to this relationship.

Otherwise, a person will not easily change himself for another person, and it must be someone you value very much. But in fact, sometimes this will become a burden of love, for example, the boy's heart does not occupy a very important place for you, he may have the shadow of another person in his heart, so he will want to treat you as a substitute, and you seem to know this situation, but you still can't give up this feeling,So you will try to become what he wants, but in fact, this kind of relationship will not bear fruit.

Because the more you look like that person, the more intense his thoughts about that person will be, and in the end, he will scar himself, which is not a few, there are many scumbags who deceive other young ladies in this way, they obviously don't love, they just want to use other young ladies as a substitute, but the other party pays sincerely. So it's okay to change a little bit for the other person in the case of true love, but you still have to keep yourselfAfter all, each person's personality is unique, and there is no need to force some of your habits or personality to change.

Then you will no longer be you, and you will feel strange to yourself. Although one of the parties in love may feel that they will become very humble, but I tell you that love is equal, to both parties to work hard, not that you can change to stabilize this love, if the other party does not change the heart for you, then even if you make more is uselessSo don't wronged yourself, don't be too tired in love.

That must be very tiring, I think people? You have to live the way you want, and you don't have to change yourself for the sake of others.

Of course, I am tired, but in order to let others notice me in my life and let others accept me better, sometimes this behavior is also a last resort.