Missing out is not a mistake, but a mistake that came from somewhere

It's not wrong to miss it, it's over. This quote comes from Xia Da's "Long Song Xing".

Prequel: Tan Hua.

Li Changge. A sentence that my mother said before she died.

Chinese name: Changge Xing Author: Xia Da** Magazine: "Manyou".

Publisher: New Century Press.

Introduction: Taking the early Tang Dynasty as the stage, it tells the historical story of the active growth of Li Changge, the princess of Yongning.

Take Li Changge's father, that is, the crown prince Li Jiancheng.

, his mother and brothers were all uncles, Li Shimin, the second emperor of the Tang Dynasty.

killed. After learning the news of his father's killing, Li Changge escaped from the palace.

"Prequel: Tan Hua" from Xia Da's manga "Long Song Xing" series

The extra story "Tan Hua" tells the poignant love affair between Changge's mother A Jin and Li Shimin.

Li Changge's mother. It was originally the lord of Hui County, Abugmasu, who was later rescued by Li Shimin on the battlefield and given the name "Jin", which means beautiful jade.

She and Li Shimin were in love, but because Li Shimin was on the battlefield all the year round, she finally became the Liangdi of the crown prince Li Jiancheng and gave birth to Li Changge.

After the change of Xuanwumen, she took the wine, recalled the past after drinking, and said to Li Shimin: "Missed, not wrong, but over." He died in his arms.

Is it teasing me? This sentence comes from Lin Qingxuan's Qingliang Bodhi, one of the ten books of Bodhi, please don't bury the book because of a comic.

Long song line, but some friends say that it is said by Sanmao.

To miss is to miss, please forget about the past.

Recently, I watched a movie - "Strange Her", and a film with a script for "Twenty Years Old". I cried when I watched it, and I cried so much, it was really poignant.

The mother's unrelenting feelings for her son and her regret for her lost youth expressed in the movie moved me to tears, and the latter made me sigh.

Not to mention how great a mother's love for her child is, we all know this. I really feel the regret of the loss of my youth.

What would you do if such a question were asked to you at this time?

What was the thing you regretted most when you were younger?

I'm still young, so I can't think of anything that I regret deeply, and I don't really want to have it. However, life will not always be perfect, there is a give-and-take, and the world has the law of both?

I once watched a short video in which I interviewed several elderly people in their 60s and asked them this question. Some people care too much about other people's eyes, some people say that they regret not daring to divorce, and some people say that they should not impose their ideas on their children. They also understand that sometimes, missing out is a lifetime.

They said a lot, saying that when you were young, you should wear something nice and not be afraid to spend money; saying that he should not get married; said that one should live for oneself; Say that in this life, you should do whatever you want. Having said all this, in the end, the last thing they want to do in their lives is actually regret it. But to miss it is to miss it, not to be wrong, but to pass.

Most people spend their lives in the tangle of not being able to realize their dreams. It may be a defeat to reality or a defeat to ourselves, but that doesn't mean that our lives are meaningless.

Meaning is originally given by people themselves, whether they succeed or not, whether they fail or not, are their own feelings, and they are all defined by themselves. If you think you've succeeded, then you've succeeded, and if you think you've failed, then you've failed, that's all.

What do we really need? We don't necessarily know now. However, there is a word for you:

No matter what choice you make, follow your truest thoughts and choose the most inseparable feelings, even if you miss out on some of the good things. We don't need a perfect life in the first place, but a life without regrets.

In this life, the last thing we need is to regret it. I also wish that when you talk about regrets, it is also because of the feelings that you cannot let go of the most.