I just stepped into the society and didn t know what to do in the future.

You have to find your goal, otherwise it's really hesitant.

Find a job first, look at your major and actual work situation, and then slowly consider how to go.

Everyone is very hesitant when they first step into society.

What's the point of just talking about not practicing, the road has to go in your ideal direction.

The current society is not very good. You must be humble when you first start working. People now.

We are all arrogant. So you have to be humble.

Yes, the real society is cruel, you have to be careful in what you do, you can't trust others in particular, especially when you go out, you must be careful, be kind, be honest.

Like the landlord, I am also full of longing and doubts about the future.

1.Temperance: Don't want too much, don't ask too much.

2.Silence: To avoid boredom and idle talk, the conversation must be beneficial.

3.Order: daily necessities should be placed in an orderly manner, and working hours should be reasonably arranged.

4.Determination: Make up your mind to do what you want to do, and what you are determined to do must be done.

5.Frugal: Don't waste anything, and make any expense beneficial.

6.Diligence: Cherish every moment, remove all unnecessary actions, and do beneficial things diligently.

7.Sincerity: Do not harm others, do not use deception.

8.Justice: do not harm others and benefit oneself, and fulfill due obligations.

9.Moderation: Avoid any extreme tendencies and try to refrain from revenge.

10.Calm: Quit unnecessary worries.

11.Purity: Abandon everything that defiles virtue and the heart.

12.Humility: Let the heart accommodate all rivers like the sea.

In society, there are many dragons and snakes, and it is most important to maintain one's sincerity.

The main problems at the beginning of the workplace are strangeness and cautious self-preservation.

The first experience in the workplace, the beginning is basically like this, the first day of registration, carefully dressed, with a high degree of matching with the post, arrive at the post a little earlier or report to the personnel department, see people with a smile, rules and regulations, and wait for the official post. When you see the desk or office area that will be fighting side by side with you in front of you, you will be ready to pick it up, after all, this will be the space where you will have to spend many days and nights in the future. So what are you looking forward to, and what are you afraid of?

It's different. But what many people have in common with this scene is that it is both expectant and unfamiliar.

There will be some apprehension (and fear for the time being) after starting work:

1.When I had a department meeting or work meeting for the first time, I was afraid of being asked to speak, evaluate other people's plans and put forward my own plans, because I couldn't grasp the degree of evaluation, and I didn't have a clear positioning of my work ability in the team.

2.Reporting. After completing the first work content, when the results are checked and reported to the leader or colleagues, the heart is tight, and the hands and feet may tremble.

3.When facing the "idol" in your workplace. If you have an "idol" colleague you admire after benchmarking, and you happen to be your leader, then you may have some expectations to be affirmed in your heart, and you will be slightly nervous about reporting or speaking in front of him.

BTY, so far (a small fritter in the workplace), I am still cautious in the interview of the leader I admire, but the higher I can expect it, the more I can't let go.

4.The most feared and unavoidable thing in the workplace is the tongue of right and wrong in interpersonal communication. There is nothing that newcomers are most afraid of and most powerless to parry.

In a docile workplace atmosphere, just be simple and pure, and bury yourself in your career. If Shibu is in a complex workplace environment, the newcomer is a clear spring, a clear spring that can be used as a bargaining chip on the occasion of standing in line and right and wrong.

5.When I first started my career, I was afraid of encountering the first time I hosted the job. Preside over the meeting, preside over the conference, preside over the activities, preside over the program, etc.

6.I am afraid of the first business entertainment, how to arrange the seats, whether you should order the wine and food, how to order, whether the amount of alcohol should be "very good", when to change the rush at the dinner table, how to reasonably arrange the vehicle after the meal, etc.

7.Fear of the special demands of leading colleagues. It is rewarding to be humble and willing to work in the workplace, but how to grasp the degree, balance between your willingness and unwillingness, and express your subjective attitude and bottom line to the outside world in a friendly and polite manner.

There will be a lot of new things and the first occasion in the workplace, observe carefully, watch more and ask more questions, slow down your pace, slow down your mentality, and you will slowly advance. Good luck.

Summary: The disadvantage of leaving school and parents is that they need to be independent, whether it is life or finance, but some people can adapt well when they come out of school, and some people are lost for a while. Look at individual ability.

Precautions for just entering the society:

1. Be clear about what kind of job you are looking for. When you decide to look for a job, you should first think about which field you want to develop, and then get to know the company before submitting your resume. Don't think about finding a random one to Sun Zheng first, and then watch slowly.

2. Find a company. It is recommended to find a large company, generally speaking, the welfare and promotion mechanism of large companies have been perfected, and you can also learn a lot of professional knowledge in it. Of course, a small company also has its advantages, learning a wide range of things, and improving comprehensive ability quickly.

It depends on the specific situation and the specific analysis.

3. Don't be in a hurry. You can't be in a hurry when looking for a job, don't start worrying and doubting yourself if you don't find it for a month or two. For the same job, the difference between the salary of company A and company B may be one or two times.

So you should invest in as many companies as possible, and don't feel that the first one can be and decide to go to work, and the later ones will not go. Go to a few more companies to understand what the company is recruiting for He Hunger, and why he left before, these are all questions that can be asked.

4. Resume. Don't be the same resume, depending on the company you want to invest in, what kind of people they need to lean on it as much as possible, and you can not write it if it doesn't matter, you can mix it with a little fake (attention).

5. Be proactive and don't be timid. If you have submitted your resume for more than a day and have not replied, at this time you have to take a closer look at other people's requirements, generally speaking, if there are four, at least three of them must be able to catch up, and then find the address to go to the interview.

First of all, if you are a graduate, it is better to choose your major, choose a job, or go to a shop as an apprentice to learn a trade.

When you first step into society, everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you have faith.

Learn to be a human being first, and ask relatives and friends or friends more.

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