After the age of 40, does the couple s life change much?

After the age of 40, the life of the husband and wife changes very much, because the two people face a lot of family chores, and their energy is very limited, and they are physically and mentally exhausted.

The changes are not very big, and they will become relatively flat, and there will not be too many emotional fluctuations, but I would like to say that this kind of married life is also relatively happy.

I think it's changed a lot, because after the age of 40, the way couples get along with each other has changed a lot.

Couples in their forties, the relationship between them has gradually turned into family affection, they fight together for the family, and raise children together.

Couples who are not confused, in addition to daily work and leisure, more energy is still invested in the child, the child has entered a critical period, may face the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, they must take care of the child. Couples who are not confused have understood that marriage is not a matter of spending money, they no longer pursue romance excessively, they are more pragmatic, and they have begun to pay attention to physical health.

When people reach middle age, many things have been thought about, many things are also looked down, and they become more adaptable to life. What is the current situation of some couples in their forties, it is plain, because they finally understand that ordinary is true, and they can live every day calmly.

Reasons why middle-aged couples are prone to a crisis in their marriages:

1. Burnout caused by spending too much time together.

As we all know, the longer a husband and wife spend together, the more dull the days become, and the more dull the days, the more likely people are to burn out and get bored. Inevitably, almost all marriages end up in such a state, and because of this, it has led to a decrease in self-control in some middle-aged people.

2. When people reach middle age, pressure always follows.

When people reach middle age, they are under the greatest pressure, and they dare not relax for a moment. When we walk on the road of life with such a heavy burden on our backs, what we crave most is understanding and warmth. At this time, we will all become selfish, and we can only feel our own hard work and difficulty, so it is easy to deny and ignore each other's hard work.

3. Lack of common pursuit.

After I got rich, everyone's pursuits began to change, I can't understand your liking, and you can't understand my hobbies. It is easy to understand that when people are very hungry, they have only one trouble, and that is how to fill their stomachs, and after people fill their stomachs, they will have a lot of worries.

Rather than saying that a man's life after the age of 40 is better to live a man's life after he matures, and I hope you can live as you like.

1. If you have money, buy a better car you like. Don't be detached if you live in the world of the laity, the monks in the temple have opened seven departments.

2. Don't die for love anymore, and see love as a luxury: you have children, and then engage in extramarital affairs, you are the one who suffers.

3. There should be a few decent clothes in the kitchen, and it is a minimum of respect and etiquette for the host when socializing, and maintain a good body shape.

4. If someone compliments you on being young and handsome, please don't be complacent except to express your gratitude.

5. At least have a high-end handbag with a certain amount of money (card), a spare mobile phone battery, a driver's license and a driving license, and a little bit of something harder than your hand in times of crisis, so as to save losses.

6. Insist on exercising every day.

7. Go to KTV, don't be stupid enough to send a business card to your little sister and leave **.

8. Don't talk to your parents about your living habits, as long as the elderly are happy when they are old, people can't live forever, and it's good to live happily.

9. You can drink too much on any occasion, and drunk men are accustomed to it, but after getting drunk, your hole cards, quality, weight, and level will be unobstructed.

10. If your ex-girlfriend asks you how you are doing, please "very well", and you have to eat to meet your wife and children with you.

11. In addition to mahjong, it is best to cultivate one or two other interests to prepare for future retirement.

12. If you don't know how to smoke, it's best not to study again, the age of 40 is a high incidence of cancer, and it is also a critical period for longevity.

13. If it's not for business, go clubbing less, there are a lot of people who should accompany you, and they are not suitable for bars.

14. Don't trade your own health for anything!

15. The greatest success is to run a good family, and if the family and marriage are not well managed, you will have to pay for everything.

16. There must be a group of brothers and sisters with positive energy, drunk and holding hands and shouting about the glorious years", even if it's ordinary and not glorious, it doesn't matter!

17. Don't accuse your wife in front of your children. In that way, the child will lose confidence in the future marriage. Children will imitate the words and actions of adults and it will be difficult to change.

18. Don't lie at any time, but you can keep it, it's needed!.

19. If you don't have a genius who is decisive, please don't try to abandon business and enter politics, even if you have a superhuman IQ and scheming!

20. Travel at least once a year, with parents, lovers, children, or friends.