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After the son's divorce, the mother-in-law will regret it, because she still has to worry about her son's marriage, so most parents will regret the child's divorce.
If you are married, don't talk about divorce lightly, and once you get divorced, don't expect to turn back. Love or marriage, when you have it, must be cherished. And when you really lose, you must also learn to let go in time.
True love must know how to cherish: no one is destined to be with anyone. It's not a long life, and it's a lucky thing to meet your beloved.
Why. Don't hold his hand tightly. There is no shame in loving only one person in your life.
I knew in my heart that there would be better people besides him, but a person couldn't be so greedy. One heart needs to warm the other heart and be honest with each other so that we can be happy.
In my life, no matter how many people we have loved, we love the same person, one is very similar to me, and I am the same kind; The other one is not like me at all, but fills in my shortcomings. Actually, they're all me.
In fact, only time can really prove how great love is. Time is constantly passing, and life is always moving from farewell to tomorrow. Life is a long process, and no one can deliberately delete the plot or the ending.
But one day, we will all return to tranquility, because that is the true nature of life.
Ambiguity is never as important as love, please remember that if a person truly loves you, he will not be ambiguous with you. If you also love someone, please don't go for an affair with someone. Ambiguity can only fill the temporary emptiness in the heart, and it will not last long, and there will be all kinds of harm but no benefit.
A beautiful love can't tolerate a little deception and hypocrisy, and even more can't tolerate ambiguity. If you have love, don't touch the ambiguity.
The more someone hurts you, the better it will make you. And the more people who spoil you, the lazier you become. So, after a few years, you look at yourself, whether you are better or lazier.
If you get better and better, it can only be said that no one spoils you. If you've become a lazy pig, you've found the right person.
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Not necessarily. If the mother-in-law herself is not satisfied with her daughter-in-law, and his son is also dissatisfied with you, then there is a high probability that the divorce will not regret it.
But if her son is satisfied with you, but he can't be the master of himself, you have nothing wrong with you, and her son can't find a better one after the divorce, then there is a high probability that he will regret it.
But what does their regret have to do with you as far as you are concerned?
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No, Ma Baonan's mother generally feels perfect no matter how incompetent her son is, and no matter how capable her daughter-in-law is, she feels that it is right. Always refers to Sang scolding Huai when it comes to exercising small things, in fact, to put it bluntly, it is to exercise the daughter-in-law, and to exercise to take care of her son and them. And Ma Bao Nan's mother generally spoils for no reason, and doesn't ask if this spoiling has hurt her son, and she thinks that you can find a better one by leaving her son.
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It is decided according to the attitude of the mother-in-law towards her daughter-in-law.
1. If the mother-in-law herself is not satisfied with the daughter-in-law, and the son is also dissatisfied with the daughter-in-law, then the divorce is likely not to regret it.
2. If the son is satisfied with his daughter-in-law, but he can't be the master himself, the daughter-in-law herself is fine, and the son can't find a better one after the divorce, then there is a high probability that the mother-in-law will regret it.
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Hello, the mother-in-law will not regret the son's divorce, this question depends on the specific situation, it depends on the role of the mother-in-law in this divorce event, if the divorce has nothing to do with the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law is not involved at all, then there is nothing to regret or regret.
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No, Ma Baonan's mother usually thinks that her son is perfect, and no matter how incompetent he is, it is natural that her daughter-in-law is capable of doing the same. Always remember that it is important to train your daughter-in-law to take care of your son and them. In addition, Marbo's male mom usually likes her son for no reason.
She doesn't doubt that this spoiling has hurt her son, but she also thinks that you can leave with your son's possessions and find something better.
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It depends on the reason for the son's divorce, if it is because of the mother-in-law's various difficulties for the daughter-in-law, most mothers-in-law will not regret it.
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No, Ma Baonan's mother usually thinks that her son is perfect, and no matter how incompetent he is, it is natural for her daughter-in-law to be capable. It is always pointed out that it is important to train the daughter-in-law to take care of the son and them. In addition, Ma Bao's male mother usually loves her son for no reason, and she does not ask if this love hurts her son, but she also believes that you can find a better son with your son's ability.
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Does your husband want to? If we are still with each other, we can try to get together again.
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Mother-in-law instigated her son to divorce", most of them are not out of "jealousy of her son and daughter-in-law's good feelings", mainly summarized into the following reasons:
First, he loves his son and is afraid that his daughter-in-law will not take good care of his son;
second, the daughter-in-law's living habits and treatment are not in line with the wishes of the mother-in-law;
The third is a psychological contradiction: the better the son treats his daughter-in-law, the more the mother-in-law is afraid that the son will "marry the daughter-in-law and forget the mother"; The son treats his daughter-in-law badly, and he is afraid that his son will suffer in front of his daughter-in-law;
Fourth, the traditional old concept that a daughter-in-law should be quiet in front of her husband and mother-in-law, obey her orders in front of her husband, and forget how she has become a mother-in-law from "ten years of daughter-in-law".
Fifth, it is true that some daughters-in-law are irrational and disrespectful in front of their mother-in-law, and criticize their mother-in-law's suggestions, showing their very strong side.
Sixth, the husband cannot play the role of a bridge and bond between the mother and the wife, and so on.
Of course, there are many reasons, but the main ones are none other than the above.
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The mother-in-law will be afraid of her son's divorce.
In most rural areas, mothers-in-law and father-in-law work hard for most of their lives to be able to get a daughter-in-law for their son, so a daughter-in-law is the fruit of the hard work of mother-in-law and father-in-law for most of their lives. After the daughter-in-law divorces, the son's reputation will deteriorate, the second marriage will be more difficult, and there will not be enough money to marry another daughter-in-law, so the mother-in-law will be very afraid.
What the in-laws are most afraid of the daughter-in-law's behavior is as follows:
1.In life, when a daughter-in-law does not care about the family, not only the husband is helpless, but the mother-in-law will also feel very desperate; Because when you have a daughter-in-law, you will always find fault with your daughter-in-law and find fault with your daughter-in-law; But a daughter-in-law doesn't care about this family at all, and she doesn't care about family affairs; Nothing matters, nothing cares; At this time, the mother-in-law didn't even have a chance to find fault.
So a daughter-in-law who doesn't care about the family is a blow to the mother-in-law; She would rather her daughter-in-law stay at home and be a princess than leave her daughter-in-law at home.
2.In life, the thing that a mother-in-law is most afraid of is that her daughter-in-law is a lazy woman; I don't do anything every day, I don't do anything, I will come to eat when the meal is ready, and I will disappear when I am done; In fact, a lazy woman is not only disliked by her mother-in-law, but anyone who sees such a woman will despise her.
Because such a woman is typically a woman who has no ideals, no thoughts, and no discipline; No matter who anyone sees such a woman, they will look down on it.
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If the mother-in-law wants her son to divorce, he will definitely not say it directly, because he knows that his son now has his own ideas, even if the mother-in-law makes this request clearly, if there is no contradiction between the son and the daughter-in-law, he will definitely not agree, so the mother-in-law may deliberately make things difficult for the daughter-in-law, deliberately mention some things that the daughter-in-law can't do to ask the daughter-in-law, and may also say some bad things about the daughter-in-law in front of the son. So I think sometimes if our son wants to keep this marriage, I think we should join forces with a third party, for example, they talk to Dad, and let Dad help the two of us to work together.
The mother-in-law's performance of wanting her son to divorce.
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If the mother-in-law wants her son to divorce, he will definitely not say it directly, because he knows that his son now has his own ideas, even if the mother-in-law makes this request clearly, if there is no contradiction between the son and the daughter-in-law, he will definitely not agree, so the mother-in-law may deliberately make things difficult for the daughter-in-law, deliberately mention some things that the daughter-in-law can't do to ask the daughter-in-law, and may also say some bad things about the daughter-in-law in front of the son. So I think sometimes if our son wants to keep this marriage, I think we should join forces with a third party, for example, they talk to Dad, and let Dad help the two of us to work together.
I'm going to get a divorce, why is the evil mother-in-law crying.
If the evil mother-in-law actually wants to achieve this goal, I think the mother-in-law definitely doesn't want her son to divorce, he may have this goal, but when it really comes to this point, he will definitely not be able to accept it.
Why can't she accept that this is not what she wants.
People are all the same. It will certainly be unacceptable at this point.
Then why does she have to go around talking bad about me to others.
Talking bad about us out there? That's disgusting, isn't it? Are you all getting divorced now because of your mother-in-law's work?
Right. At this time, I think my mother-in-law may be like this, just to show what he should be, because if this is my son and you divorce, but he pretends to be fine, other outsiders will definitely have suspicions, but if he cries like this, many people will still suspect us, and they will feel that we have done something sorry for our son, so his trick is still more vicious.
Right. It's not easy for you either. At this time, I think it's a good choice to leave this house on the contrary, because now that this thing has developed into what it is now, no matter who is right or wrong, we can only minimize the loss.
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thinks that his son is excellent and has no shortage of wives.
If there is really such a mother-in-law in the family, in fact, in most cases, she will choose to divorce, because this mother-in-law will often intervene in the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law, resulting in a breakdown of the relationship.
Sometimes as a mother-in-law, she can't interfere too much in the life between her son and daughter-in-law, which aggravates the conflict between the two, so the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the family conflict need to find a solution.
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Summary. There are two possibilities for such a situation. First, she thinks that you dare not divorce because the risks and changes faced by divorce are different.
There are two possibilities for such a situation. First, she thinks that you dare not divorce because the risks and changes faced by divorce are different.
The risks and changes faced by divorce are relatively large, and I don't think you will be impulsive to divorce.
The second possibility is that she feels that his son has an advantage in the relationship between the sexes, and he is not afraid of not having a partner.
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Summary. In response to your question, mine is: it is normal to regret divorce, because divorce can bring a lot of negative effects to both parties, such as family breakdown, children's growth will be affected, financial will also be affected, etc.
If you want to avoid regret after divorce, the first thing to do is to find the problem in time and take effective measures in time, such as both parties can try to communicate, try to resolve differences between each other, and try to maintain family harmony. If communication does not solve the problem, you can try to consult a professional marriage mediation agency in order to solve the problem in time and avoid divorce. In addition, both parties can also try to change their attitudes, be more considerate of each other, express more love, and do more meaningful things, such as participating in family activities together, participating in marriage counseling together, etc., in order to improve their relationship with each other and avoid divorce.
In short, regret after divorce is very normal, but regret after divorce can be avoided by discovering problems in time, taking effective measures in time, changing one's attitude, being more considerate of each other, expressing love more, and doing more meaningful things.
In response to your question, mine is: it is normal to regret divorce, because divorce can bring a lot of negative effects to both parties, such as family breakdown, children's growth will be affected, financial will also be affected, etc. If you want to avoid repentance after divorce, the first thing to do is to find out the problem in time and take effective measures in time, such as both parties can try to communicate, try to solve the differences between each other, and try to maintain family harmony.
If communication does not solve the problem, you can try to consult a professional marriage mediation agency in order to solve the problem in time and avoid divorce. In addition, both parties can also try to change their attitudes, be more considerate of each other, express more love, and do more meaningful things, such as participating in family activities together, participating in marriage counseling together, etc., in order to improve their relationship with each other and avoid divorce. In short, it is normal to regret after divorce, but you can avoid regret after divorce by discovering problems in time, taking effective measures in time, changing your attitude, being more considerate of each other, expressing more love, and doing more meaningful things.
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In response to your question, I would like to say that the reason why my mother-in-law said that you will regret your divorce is because she is worried that you will regret your decision, because divorce is an important decision, it will affect your future, and it will also affect your family. Divorce will not only affect your family, but also your children, as children will be affected by their parents' divorce, and they may be traumatized psychologically and even affect their development. In addition, divorce can also affect your finances because you may lose some financial income, and you may also be able to bear some post-divorce expenses, such as attorney fees, property division fees, etc.
Therefore, before making a divorce decision, you should think carefully and not make a decision lightly because divorce can have a lot of adverse effects on you, and you may regret your decision.
Respect your choice, now that you are divorced, it means that you have thought it through. There is no regret in the world to take medicine, since you have chosen, let the future road become more exciting, I think that is the right one.
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