If you can t marry someone you like, will you be happy if you make do with it?

The marriage that will be will definitely not be happy, the marriage is managed and maintained by two people, and the two people who will be married do not want to operate and protect, so they are not happy. Marriage pays attention to the harmony of the three views, the discord of the three views cannot be sustained, and the marriage without love can be maintained in order to be able to have children, but this is the sacrifice of different happiness from each other, and the feelings can be shaped. There is no compromise in marriage, the stability that will be obtained is only the surface of the tranquility, in fact, it is very dangerous between two people, once some people get rid of this tranquility, the feelings that everyone says will not be able to withstand all the severe blows, and you will lose the marriage in the middle.

If in order to be seen by others, especially from the work pressure of your own family, it is really an undesirable choice to marry yourself out when you are old. Choosing to be single, just because we haven't met a suitable one for us temporarily, it doesn't mean that we won't be able to meet in the future. A person's temperament, a person's character, dealing with people, when you have not completely mastered the situation, you choose to enter the marriage, maybe you can run in the future, but many things come unexpectedly, so that you do not have to prepare in advance!

The feelings of both parties are the basis of marriage, like-minded, the stronger the feelings, the stronger the basic will be, most of the split in marriage is mainly because there is no basic marriage, the three views are different, a marriage without love is a prison, and a marriage with love is heaven on earth. Advise young men and women of appropriate age to be cautious in choosing their other half, and remember not to fall in love at first sight and get married in a hurry, in today's society, parents on both sides do not have to take care of everything, otherwise they will not be able to get happy with each other!

In the marriage, the two walked together for various reasons, giving birth to children and living in a daily task. Even if there are all kinds of dissatisfaction, all kinds of reasons, in order to be able to save face, for family work, or considering the problems of children's growth, they will live a life and make do with maintaining a marriage that will be settled. The marriage that will be settled is not easy after all, and it is a happy marriage.

The marriage that will be made is not easy to be long-lasting. When two people walk together to form a common home, they must not only like each other, but also understand each other, trust, value and tolerate each other.

Of course, I won't be happy, and when I go home every day to face someone I don't love, I don't have the heart to talk to him, and I don't have the heart to live with him.

A loveless marriage is very painful, two people can't tolerate and understand each other, they are always self-centered, there will be a lot of conflicts that cannot be mediated, and finally lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

It is true that it will not be happy, because the marriage itself that is barely together will have a lot of quarrels, and there is no emotional basis, and it will be very painful.

If this were a multiple-choice question, perhaps no one would choose the "yes" option. But in real life, there are many people who marry people they don't like. Their cases are usually divided into 3 categories.

1. When he reached the age of marriage, he hurriedly found someone and started a family with him.

Although marriage is not necessarily an indispensable option in life, when you reach the age of marriage, your parents urge you to get married, and your friends choose to start a family, and social evaluation will also label you as older and unmarried.

All kinds of pressure will make you anxious about getting married. So, you find someone with the right match, and after a few months of contact, you rush into marriage.

But there is no heartbeat in this relationship, and there is no appreciation of each other's advantages, let alone an emotional foundation, so you will not pay for each other unconditionally, because the purpose of this marriage is to live together in the first place.

You will have very little tolerance for each other's shortcomings, and the relationship will soon fall into a situation of quarrels and cold wars, and you will not admit defeat to each other, and gradually the only little love you have will be worn away.

2. Blind date acquaintance, no emotional foundation.

The necessity of the emotional foundation lies in the affection between you. I have experienced a lot of things, accompanied, run-in, quarreled together, understood each other deeply, and were willing to pay for each other.

But blind dates usually have no emotional foundation, and soon talk about marriage and enter a new stage of life. Contradictions again and again, thinking about each other, will make you feel that the other person is not the person you like.

Is it okay to marry someone you don't love.

I think that girls must find someone with an emotional foundation to marry.

Many girls, because they are old, find a suitable person and enter marriage. But in their marriages, there is often a crisis of divorce.

The reason is: once two people have no emotional foundation, it is easy to calculate.

Two people with an emotional foundation have experienced things and run in with each other, and they love each other. Therefore, when two people are giving, they will be willing, even if they give more, they will also feel the joy of loving others.

And living with each other will inevitably produce contradictions, but you will choose to tolerate because you love each other.

But two people who do not have a deep emotional foundation enter marriage, as long as you pay even a penny more than him, you will mind the uproar.

When two people live together, they must not be able to calculate anything too clearly, and if you pay more, you will feel that you have been wronged, and you will fight with him to win or lose.

He will also have the same mentality, once he feels that he has given too much, he will also be dissatisfied with you. You care about each other, and the marriage can't go on at all.

Therefore, you must find a partner with an emotional foundation, and never marry someone you don't love so much.

I think marriage is a solemn thing, and we can't be sloppy, let alone compromised. If you marry someone you don't like, you may not be happy in this life, let alone happy.

Both men and women want to find someone who loves them together, and they hope that the person they love happens to love themselves, and they can stay with the person they love for a lifetime, and spend a lifetime happily and sweetly.

But not everyone can meet the person they like, and they happen to like themselves, and the people they love also happen to love themselves, and many times, they are the people they like, and they don't like themselves, and they don't like them.

Fate always likes to play tricks on people, which will make many people experience failed feelings, at the right time, but meet the wrong person, no one wants to be with a person they don't love, but by mistake, they are with someone they don't love.

How do you feel when you're with someone you don't love? When you are with someone you don't love, you will have these 4 feelings, and sometimes, it is particularly obvious.

1. I feel very tired.

With the person you love, you will feel very relaxed, very happy, always feel that time flies quickly, there will be a sense of happiness, there will be a sweet feeling, and your heart will be very satisfied.

And when I am with someone I don't love, I always feel very tired, I feel that the other party doesn't understand me, I don't understand myself, I don't understand myself, I don't understand myself, I feel that no matter how hard I try, I can't get into each other's hearts, and I always feel that there is a distance between two people.

Many times, I feel that I am exhausted and have no strength, not because my body is tired, but because my heart is too tired, and all the sadness and difficulty are experienced by myself.

2. I feel very lonely.

With people who love each other, there is a sense of security, a sense of steadfastness, no matter where you are on the earth, you will not feel lonely, you can always feel warm love, and you can always feel each other's existence.

And when you are with someone you don't love, you will feel very lonely, even if you are by each other's side, you can't feel each other's existence, and your heart is still very bleak, empty, and there is nothing to fill your heart.

Many times, not only lonely, but also very helpless, will become negative and low, without a positive attitude, feel that the world is big, and I am too small, I will feel a lot of feelings.

Avoid being around people you don't like, and avoid being around someone who isn't a good fit for us.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.

Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.

Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong. Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.

Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.

Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both. So be yourself, don't lose yourself, don't lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.

It depends on whether the other party can influence you, sometimes you can be very happy when you marry someone who loves you very much, this is the truth of long-term love.

In fact, happiness has nothing to do with liking, if the person's character is good, responsible for you and the family, this is happiness. Everything else is.

I think that no matter how suitable it is, if you don't like it, you don't envy you to be together, and don't get married, which will make your married life very unhappy and unhappy, and only with the people you love will make your family life happier.

Why can't you marry someone you don't like?

1.In this case, I don't think you should get married. The reasons are:

It's easy to get married, but it's not easy to get along. If you don't like each other and are reluctant to be together, in the long run, you will inevitably have negative behaviors such as complaining and nagging because of dislike of each other in your future life. The other person will also sense that you are bored with her, so there is constant friction and quarrels.

There is an ancient saying in our country called "family and everything is prosperous", such a marriage, the family must be not harmonious, how can it be happy?

2.Although I don't encourage marrying someone I don't like, I recommend not saying no to someone unless they're a particularly annoying person.

Because love is a wonderful thing, sometimes people who meet your criteria for choosing a mate may not be suitable for you after dating, and those who do not meet your criteria for choosing a mate are likely to be very suitable for you. And people's mate selection criteria will also change with age, experience, etc. So, sometimes you can't trust your own subjective judgment too much.

For example, many girls are very concerned about the external conditions of boys when they are young, and they don't marry if they are not handsome. But as we grow older, we find that appearance is not very important, but instead care about a person's inner quality and other conditions, which is that the criteria for choosing a mate have changed at different stages, and we cannot grasp and control this change, so we can only go with the flow.

Therefore, if you can't meet the person you like, you can also try to date those people you don't like, but you don't hate for a while, maybe you will find some shining points from the other person, and fall in love.