Is it happy to marry someone you don t like?

Marriage does not necessarily have love, but there must be feelings, maybe there is no emotional foundation with your TA before marriage, but feelings can be cultivated! Pre-marriage is a foundation, but the business after marriage still depends on the intentions of two people, rather than the vigorous love before marriage, you can let go of the first-class after marriage, how many people have a good foundation before marriage and divorce? The feeling lies in the fact that the days are long, and the road knows the horsepower, hehe.

What is happiness?

What kind of happiness are you seeking?

Marriage is not love, once you are married, you don't have the feeling of being in love, are you mature or lost in the face of this marriage?

Marriage is a lifelong commitment for both parties. If you don't feel it, no matter how much material life you have, your spiritual life will not satisfy you. If you are like this, you will not be happy when you get married!

I think that happiness is enough for the person you like to be by your side, at least, that's what I'm pursuing.

It depends on whether you let go of the mustard in your heart, whether you sincerely want to live well in the future, whether you want to start a new life with your other half, if you can't let go then this kind of life may make you feel sad, not only your own tragedy, even with a lot of people, of course, many people's marriage is not necessarily your favorite person, then it depends on your own pursuit, life is not just love, it is just a blender, and in the end it will be diluted by the trivialities of life, Think about it for yourself, and if you make a choice, you can live well.

How can it be, since you don't like nature and don't have a common language, how can you say that you are happy? But if you don't like it, you won't get married, right?

No, I don't like him, where does happiness come from?

The first thing to consider is whether it is suitable or not.

Marrying someone you like may not be happy.

Keep your eyes peeled. I wish you happiness.

Feelings can be accompanied....Then it depends on whether you can make a spark...

This will be the beginning of a tragedy

No, marriage is a lifelong affair, and you have to think about it carefully. Marriage is an important turning point in the journey of life. At this time, standing at the crossroads of choice, you must be cautious, and would rather wait a little longer to give yourself enough time to think, rather than take steps in one direction casually.

Don't get married hastily with someone you don't like. Don't panic because you are not young, don't rush to get married because your parents urge you to get married, don't be hungry because of your temporary unbearable loneliness and choose ......Spending the rest of your life with a person who can't even get a shallow liking can be said to be harmful, and you don't negotiate it.

If you are confused in the major event of marriage, it is easy to let the rest of your life be wasted unwillingly, which will be the biggest regret in life.

Those who like it may not marry her, but those who don't like it must not marry her. Maybe before marriage, you only think about the present, it's time to get married, so you get married in order to get married, what do you like or dislike, isn't it just to find someone to get a certificate together? Since you haven't met the person you really love at the age of marriage, and there happens to be someone who is willing to marry you, so be it.

However, after getting married, you realize that you are thinking about the problem too simply, and it turns out to be very hard to live with someone who you can't like no matter how hard you try. The kind of indifference that doesn't want to open up to the other party, and has no interest in understanding the other person's air, even feels painful to breathe, and life is so difficult.

At that time, you are faced with a more dilemma than "whether to marry someone you don't like": either grit your teeth and stomp your feet, let it go, divorce, love whoever you want, decisively end the formal marriage without feelings, and regroup to find true love; Either because of too many scruples about children, the elderly, property, etc., they choose to maintain their existing marriage, and secretly cheat together mentally or physically, and live a life of lovers outside of marriage.

However, in all fairness, if you are just unhappy in that kind of life, you are just deceiving yourself by finding an outlet for your original rashness.

Marriage is not a child's affair, and adults should take responsibility for the inevitable consequences of every choice they make, whether it is good or bad.

Therefore, before making a decision, you must be mentally prepared to bear the consequences of your choice. For example, before marriage, you must ask yourself first, and ask several times: "Am I mentally prepared to live with someone I don't like for the rest of my life?" ”

If it's to understand the immediate urgency, then also stop your "unkind" thoughts, because impulsive decisions without considering the outcome are foolish. Do you know that the saddest thing about marriage is not the weakness of love after the seven-year itch, but the blind improvisation marriage without emotion from the beginning.