My girlfriend, whom my best friend introduced me, broke up with me

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you're overthinking if it's your breakup.

    If the breakup is due to your personal or family reasons.

    I think that's understandable, but if she had brought it up.

    I don't think your best friend will have any rift with you because of this.

    Your friends are very good with you, so your ex-girlfriend is also very good with them.

    It's normal for you to have such thoughts after a breakup, but you're overthinking.

    I don't think adults should ignore you because of something like that.

    What's more, breaking up for such reasons is yours who hurt.

    So I think that you think that your friend is indifferent to you because of this is because you are too worried.

    I think you should relax, it's okay and you're good friends.

    If it helps, I hope you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not your fault, it should be fine, don't worry too much, maybe it's a psychological effect.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's hard to say that thing about feelings, brother, no matter what, you have to look at it and pull ko!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think your girlfriend's breakup with you will affect your relationship with your classmates! First of all, you have to determine if you really have no fun with your girlfriend! If you just break up, they will definitely not be close to you for a while, because they are good friends on both sides, and they are not good people, so their behavior is normal, maybe if it is really good friends, they will care about you and comfort you after a while!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It feels like you're okay.

    Sending you away???

    If you still care, go to redeem it, your girlfriend still has feelings for you, two people should be considerate of many parties together, don't just think about yourself, and tolerate each other in order to get along better.

    Hello dear, after the breakup, send eggs. It's the first time I've heard of it.

    It can only be said that the boyfriend is very talented.

    There are a lot of ways to say about giving eggs. On the one hand, it starts with the heart.

    There is one more reason. Your relationship is like an egg, easy to break.

    Liuliyue is a song, and I personally feel that she still has feelings for you, and I want to tell you very vaguely that as a girl, I have done such a thing.

    It's best to ask me what I think, how to say it, and have a good conversation.

    There is always a reason for things, and you can't determine what the specific situation is, so you have to understand it yourself with your own heart Communication between people is very important. It's good to understand each other.

    Don't think about it so complicated, if there is any misunderstanding, it is better to solve it as soon as possible, otherwise you will be uneasy. It's not good if something unexpected and reluctant happens.

    The origin and the fate continue, and I must still want to redeem this relationship and cherish this fate! What more could you want? If you love it, chase it back! Cherish it!

    Even if it's a breakup of lovers.

    You can also be friends.

    But I don't want you to know too much about each other.

    It may not be interesting, but at this time, my heart is very empty and I want to find someone to talk to, and you happen to be the right person; It's also possible that he can't let go of you, so he didn't look for someone else and looked for you.

    It's better for you to ask her directly about this kind of strange thing, and others don't make it if you ask others

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have to say, this question is very difficult to answer, if one of your very good friends broke up with his girlfriend because of your affairs, I am sure you will not feel good yourself. Some people say that brothers are siblings, and women are like clothes.

    If he broke up with his girlfriend because of you, then I think he should have a very good relationship with you. If you feel guilty, you can ask him directly, is it still possible to get back together with your girlfriend? But love is something that no one can say, if your friend breaks up with his girlfriend and you are just a fuse, then I don't think you need to worry too much.

    Maybe there are a lot of personality inconsistencies in their lives, or inappropriate behavior and habits, which have not yet erupted, and then because you and the two of them always break up, in fact, it is not necessarily a bad thing for them. Breaking up represents a new beginning. I think the most important thing for you to be with your friends is to be there for you.

    Don't let him be so lonely, and then you have to comfort him more, a tree is gone, but there is still a forest waiting for him. If your friend really loves his girlfriend very much, then you can ask him if you can help him.

    Although I don't know if the real reason is that they broke up because of you. Generally, boyfriends and girlfriends break up. Because there are relatively few cases of my friends breaking up with girlfriends or boyfriends, but I have seen them.

    For example, in our school, we have a boyfriend and girlfriend in our class, and then the boyfriend plays games with the roommate every day, and then after class, he goes back to the dormitory with the roommate, and rarely accompanies his girlfriend, and then the girlfriend can't stand it and breaks up with him.

    I honestly think I'm going to feel guilty about his roommates, but that's also their business, and I think it's better not to get involved in this matter if there is. Even if you are good friends, you can only comfort him and encourage him. You can't do something really substantive, the most important thing is whether he can think about it.

    Now I'm going to systematically tell you, what should you do?

    First of all, we must ask your friend what happened to his girlfriend and what caused him to break up. But try not to ask him directly, if you ask directly, your friend may be annoyed, which will be half the effort. Love and friendship can actually have both, and all I can say is that your friend may really break up because of a personality disagreement with his girlfriend.

    So there's no need to blame yourself for all the blame.

    So the most important thing is to accompany him, as long as you are by his side and accompany him well, everything will pass.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not your fault, I can only say, because the breakup between couples can really be said not to blame others but themselves, it must be because of their own problems that will lead to this, so I don't think you should feel too guilty, maybe your good friend will feel a relief when he breaks up. If you really mind, go and spend more time with him, but if you break up because of you, I really think your good friend just doesn't want to continue to get along with his girlfriend, maybe because there are too many conflicts in the backlog, your good friend broke up with his girlfriend because of a friend like you, which shows that he really values the relationship between you.

    I don't know if you're interested in your best friend, but I think your good friend may like you more than his girlfriend, because if it's an ordinary friendship, it's impossible to cherish it at the cost of love. So I think your good friend may have a secret affection for you for a long time, so what you have to do now is of course to appease him well, and spend more time with him, it's very painful to fall out of love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's easy to have conflicts between friends and girlfriends, because after having a girlfriend, we rarely think about the feelings of our best friends, and sometimes our good friends think that they are forgetful people. A lot of times we can't go, balance the scale between a good friend and a girlfriend, because our good friend is our friend for many years, and we will want to think about whether to ruin the relationship, or your girlfriend, she thinks she is her girlfriend and wants to have a special love for him.

    If you want to balance the friend and foe between your best friend and your girlfriend, you should look at this relationship reasonably. First of all, you have to know what is the status of your best friend and your girlfriend in your heart, and you also have to figure out what their place is in your heart in his eyes. You have to balance your good drink to them, whether we expect you to be good to them can be balanced, if once unbalanced, they will feel uncomfortable, and then they will have an awkward relationship with you, but if you can balance this relationship well, that is, balance the gap between these two psychological misunderstandings, they will not lose their temper.

    If your best friend doesn't mind the girlfriend you're talking about, it probably means that he doesn't like your girlfriend very much. I think if you cherish this relationship, I think you should have a good talk with your good friend. I think that since everyone can be good friends with one person, then these two people still care about each other very much, if your good friend cares about you very much, you should talk to him, tell him how important your girlfriend is to you, and you will not care about the difference between these two friends in the future.

    I think after you communicate with your friend, he will be able to understand your feelings and get back together with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would reflect on myself: "Is it because I got too close to my best friend that the two of us broke up?" "Then I'll persuade my good friend to get her girlfriend back. Then I will keep a certain distance from my good friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should try to save their feelings, and don't make them enemies because of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell your friend directly that you have become a single nobleman again, and then let your friend have a suitable girl who can be introduced to you. I think between friends, there is nothing to be embarrassed to say, if you feel embarrassed, then invite your friends to eat, buddy friends' feelings are very simple, don't think too much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you talk to your friend about other things, you subtly mention this matter, and after your friend listens to it, he will introduce you if he is willing to introduce you, and if he doesn't answer your words, he will pull it up, and he will not deliberately force it, and let his friend decide whether to reintroduce it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just make this matter clear. Because you had a girlfriend at the time, and for that reason you rejected your friend's kindness was responsible and respectful to everyone, and nothing else. Now that you've broken up with your girlfriend, you don't need to worry about who you're hurting, and you're eligible to accept your friend's kindness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The most direct way is for you to tell your friend about this and ask him if he can introduce it to you again. If you don't tell your friends the truth, but choose to tell your friends in the form of lies, when your friends know the truth, it will hurt the friendship between the two parties. So tell the truth.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just tell your friends directly or indirectly that you are single!

    At the same time, you must know that there are many ways to meet girls, and there is no need for friends to introduce you.

    There are ways to get to know girls:

    Born by fate. You need to expand your social circle, get out of your comfort zone, and naturally get to know more girls, this way of getting to know girls does not have a strong sense of need, and it is easier to meet the girls you like.

    Friend referral. Through the introduction of friends, the trust and endorsement between you and the girl will be relatively high, but at the same time, it is not efficient to talk to strangers.

    Social software. For example, Tantan, Momo, beautiful dating and other software, you can also meet a lot of girls, the advantage of social software is that the number of girls you know will be very large, so that you have more choices.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You just tell your friend that you broke up, do you say that the girl you introduced to me before is she single now? If you're single, you can contact me, if you're not single, forget it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Say to a friend if there is a beautiful woman to introduce, my one blew,

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

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