Should I have another child for my husband, should I have a child for my husband?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This lady, if the policy allows you to have a second child, you don't have to think about the consequences, while your in-laws are alive, help you raise the child, although there will be some "tribulations", but the whole family will be extremely happy and happy in the future. But if you don't have the conditions to have a second child, the old man advises you to resist pressure from all sides and resolutely don't want a second child.

    The reason is that if you are a teacher or a public official, if you violate the basic national policy of family planning, you will be dealt with very seriously, not to scare you, and your teaching career may be ruined, because you say that "if you have another one, you have to ask someone to get a birth permit", which means that you do not have the conditions to have children, so there is no need to take this risk! You tell me?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Giving birth to a child is not anyone's personal will, it is necessary to consider the ability of the family and the individual to bear it, and if a child is to develop his personality, he will be stronger, but under the correct guidance of his parents, there should be no big problem.

    Having children is a husband and wife's business, don't think about family factors.

    The old man's words are happy that you give birth to 2 or 3 He just thinks it's fun, and after that, he gets bored When he is unhappy, he throws the child to you and can make you angry.

    I'm not in favor of having 2. A child is born accountable to him, not just to fulfill someone's wishes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's good if you can have a son How good it is to have a son and a daughter But what if you give birth to a daughter Or a daughter When you grow up, you know that you love your parents

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Scold. What does the eldest sister have for a girl? Aren't men and women the same now.??Personally, I don't think there's anything. If you give birth now, it is very dangerous. They want to. You ask him if he wants you or a son?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, many children are born to participate in the growth of life, and life will be better when they have children, and the family will be happy. This is to make parents feel attached, trusted, loved, and happy.

    However, it is important to note that the child is not a tool for parents to show off their spine, nor is it a puppet to satisfy their parents' desire for control, but an independent individual.

    They will grow up gradually, have their own ideas, and even have their own lives. Having a child is no longer a sacrifice, but a privilege to take care of life. In the process of taking care of this life growth, there is also growth, gratitude, innocence, love, and warmth, which are the most important parts of the life cycle.

    Because of having children and realizing the hardships of his parents, Oto is full of expectations for life.

    It is suggested that everyone must maintain good living habits, have children, and get more love, warmth and touch, and couples with children are the happiest people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. After all, this is the only crystallization of love between you and your husband, and it is also an unearthly life. If you do it because of the unexpected death of your husband, it will be a pity; Second, it is too cruel to strangle one's own blood and bones.

    2. If your in-laws have lost their only limb, you should give birth to your husband's child. The second old white-haired man sent the black-haired man, and he was in the abyss of pain that life was worse than death, if you were stronger and gave birth to the child, it would undoubtedly be a shot in the arm for the second elder. Presumably, the in-laws are not old, and they can still carry the burden of family life, and they love their children and grandchildren, and there will be no problems in the life and growth of children.

    3. You are still young, and you still have a long way to go in the future. For the sake of your own children, if your in-laws are willing, you can also choose to stay and raise the children and take care of the elderly.

    Fourth, you can also find another husband who loves you and is considerate of you to start a family. You can still have children, you can have your own children, and you can also raise the children left by your ex-husband together.

    5. You can choose to give birth to this child, and then find a life partner and build a new home again. In the years to come, you can visit the children and the two elderly at any time.

    In short, no matter what the choice is, this child should be born.

    Children are innocent, a gift from God.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not enough to cause you to get divorced!

    It is estimated that he was too heavily influenced by feudal thinking, so he wanted a son very much. Maybe your first child will be a son!

    If it's because this is a divorce, then your relationship is just like that, aren't all boys and girls the same? Those who don't have sons don't see anything bad!

    Well,Actually, Kobe Bryant wants to think about it very much.,But the reality is a little embarrassing.。。。 I'm watching muse, and people don't want to have a son, and I don't want to have a son, and I don't think kobe has been ligated. Maybe I had a son, but Vanessa didn't have a miscarriage in 04 and lost her son.

    Some are credible. There are many ways to have a boy, and it is said in the book that eating something like probiotic before pregnancy can make your body alkaline!

    If you want to have a boy, it still depends on the essence of Y, so it is recommended to make your physical environment an alkaline environment suitable for Y**life. For example, when preparing for pregnancy, eat more probiotic, biological, and alkaline to make your physique become aggressive.

    Then let Heaven bless.

    Children are common, and parents have shared responsibility for raising their children. If the arrears are owed by mutual agreement during the period of living together, the two people have the obligation to repay them jointly.

    If you want to have a son, you still have to change your own physique to solve it, you can eat some benefits, raw and alkaline!

    If your physical environment becomes alkaline, it is easy to give birth to boys.

    I think the probability of eating Yisheng Jian to give birth to a boy will be more, after all, turning your body into a basic physique can improve the survival rate of Y**, so that the probability of male treasure is large after all, I am the baby boy born after eating Yisheng Jian.

    The new two-child policy is about to be fully liberalized.

    People check the table of the uterus and look at the shape of the belly, but my sister said that it is not allowed to give birth to a boy or a girl, and my sister took Yi丨Sheng丨 alkali when preparing for pregnancy, and now she has given birth very well and smoothly, and now her son has been doing it for a week.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, the Qing Dynasty has been around for more than a hundred years, but there are still many people in China whose minds have remained stuck at that time. Maybe we can't change other people's minds, but we can change ourselves.

    Let yourself be financially independent and ideologically independent, so that you can choose everything you want when you are forced by others. Anything you don't want to refuse can be refused. Choose what you like to live your life instead of being forced to accept other people's thoughts.

    It will not become a fertility tool and a machine for inheritance. Hope mine is helpful to you.

    Hello, the Qing Dynasty has been around for more than a hundred years, but there are still many people in China who have stuck at that time. Maybe we can't change other people's minds, but I can change myself by dressing up. Let yourself be financially independent and ideologically independent, so that you can choose everything you want when you are forced by others.

    Anything you don't want to refuse can be refused. Choose what you like to live your life instead of being forced to accept other people's thoughts. It will not become a fertility tool, a residual machine for inheritance.

    Hope mine is helpful to you.

    That's a good point, thank you.

    If you are not independent, you will want to please men.

    Love others before yourself, and take care of your own feelings.

    I think women are so hard and difficult.

    Some women feel that it is difficult to have children, so they choose to work hard to improve themselves and make money instead of having children, and some people feel that they are suffering by themselves, so they go to give birth to men in the hall to please men, which is still a matter of personal perspective.

    Adjust your perspective and mindset.

    I have been induced to give birth to two daughters, but I have not given birth to a son.

    Look at your own thoughts and don't be swayed by others.

    I don't like children, but for the sake of family harmony, I still gave birth to a second child, and they also wanted me to have a third child.

    Just stick to your bottom line.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello dear. When two people have children together, no matter whose fault it is, don't blame the fault on your own children.

    It's really wrong for your husband to be bad for you, a woman has paid too much for the family, so she hopes to find a woman who can be good to her, so communicate with him well and be together.

    I said that I gave birth to a child for my husband, but my husband still treated me badly, and my husband said that it wasn't your child?

    Hello dear. When two people have children together, no matter whose fault it is, don't blame the fault on your own children. It's really not right for your husband to be bad for you, Hongzhong women have paid too much for the family, so I hope to find a woman who can be good to her, so communicate with him and be together.

    Or you can give me a specific explanation, so that the teacher can also give you a more comprehensive analysis.

    I said I gave birth to a child for you, and he said it wasn't your child, how do you call it a child born for him?

    How should I do it. It's very hard for me to take care of my children alone, I stay up late to breastfeed, I'm very tired, and he said who doesn't take children?

    I can understand you, you leave him alone for now, wait until the evening and ask him to have a good chat, for example, from the beginning of your relationship, talk about a draft of Yuanyun Jianliang, let him feel the changes after he got married, can he reflect on himself.

    It is indeed not easy for a woman to take care of a child.

    I understand you very well.

    He can't talk, he doesn't talk calmly, he just scolds.

    Especially when I take care of my children and my husband still doesn't understand, I am even more helpless.

    How old is the child.

    The child is only four months old, he said who doesn't take the child, I stay up late to breastfeed, it's so hard, he doesn't understand, he also goes to work. How am I.

    The child is four months old, you take care of the child, and your own health is not good, so I have to tell you that I am not in desperation, take care of your clan and take care of the child, and then make plans when the child can leave.

    How do I do him ?

    Then you reply to him, I know that you work hard, and I also work hard to take care of the children by myself, and we can rent liquid to each other and understand the world, live our lives well, and don't quarrel all day long.

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