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Maybe you are the so-called happy enemies, there is no love that does not eat the fireworks of the world, love is originally to be dull, two people have been together for a long time, they will naturally find some shortcomings of each other, but as long as you both try to accommodate each other, and then change your shortcomings a little, maybe you are too young now, your personality is very stubborn, you can communicate with it, you can talk to her, I hope you can get along in the shortest possible time. Bless you all
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After reading your story, I think it is very similar to my story, to be honest, I think your girlfriend loves you a lot, I understand the heart of a girl, only when you love someone very much, will you make crazy moves, such as threatening you with a knife, girls have a strange temper, that's because I love you and care about you, it's not easy to find someone who loves you, I hope you cherish it.
But then again, I can't experience your story firsthand after all, and if the two of you really don't have the same personalities, then don't come together, because that kind of marriage won't last long.
Knowing how to accommodate each other is love.
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After being together for a long time, you will always find that the other party has a lot of shortcomings, if you quarrel in the future, she is still so unforgiving, but you let her, she may find out one day, and by that time maybe she will also know that she will change it if she is wrong, take your time and adapt.
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01, can't be tolerant of you.
The end of some relationships is better than perfunctory again and again, and if there is no meeting, will the two people be a little better than they are now.
In a relationship, if a man really loves you, he is willing to tolerate you.
In a loving relationship, there may be a woman who is close to perfection, but she is not you, so he can't choose others against his heart, this is the uniqueness of love.
People who really love you don't care about your shortcomings, they love you just because it's you.
If in a relationship, he can't even tolerate it, then you are not so important in his heart, and you have to learn to accept this reality.
To be a man, you should learn to be smart, in the face of unequal relationships, when you give everything and the other party still doesn't react, you should know that you are leaving.
02, can't give you a sense of security.
Maybe everyone has certain requirements for the future other half, but since she met someone, the future other half is all like her.
As for the matter of getting married, before I met you, I didn't think about it, but after falling in love with you, I felt that the object of marriage could only be you.
The best love is probably true love, wanting a future together, and firmly choosing each other.
In a relationship, everyone needs a certain sense of security, and a person who keeps love on the lips cannot give you a sense of security.
If when you are sad, it is not him who you want to share, when you need help, you do not seek his help, because you feel that he cannot give you substantial help, people have expectations at the beginning, but when the expectations are disappointed again and again, there will be no hope.
In a relationship, if you can't count on him for anything, then there is no point in his existence.
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It is normal for couples to have such problems, why should you be cautious, it is precisely because you have a close relationship and intimacy, and most of your thoughts are focused on your beloved, so each other's words and actions may make you angry, which is difficult to avoid; Take myself as an example, I'm like this, I wasn't happy when my girlfriend made me angry, but then I thought that I loved her so much, I felt sorry for her, and I apologized after I figured it out, which is nothing to be embarrassed about, after all, the person I love deeply is not afraid of not being able to lose face, and will explain why I am angry, etc., all of which show that your boyfriend loves you and cares about you, otherwise why would he apologize, right, what does it matter to him when you are angry, so, mushroom cool, your situation is the only way for the run-in period of loveAs long as you can communicate after a quarrel, you can apologize, you can care about each other, it shows that you can't do without each other, and finally, I wish you happiness and real experience.
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I advise you not to give up easily! Three months together, not a long time, you still need to run in, slowly get used to each other's habits and adapt to both parties' words and deeds, life and ways of doing things. It will take a while to slowly change each other and accept each other.
I wish you all happiness!
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You already have the answer yourself, and now that you have the answer, go for it! I know that I definitely want to say something in my heart, and now you can see everyone's attitude, and they are all supporting you. Break off early and stop losses in time. The world is so big, you don't have to give up your youth for such a person.
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The answer is yes, and it really shouldn't go any further.
Girls obviously don't want to see you, and they don't respect you.
When I go to her house, I sit far away from you, which means that the girl really wants to stay away from you. It's not that I'm afraid of disturbing each other when I go to my girlfriend's house, I just don't want to deal with you. Hanging out with you and your family doesn't think about it for you at all.
Refusing to see your family is because they don't want to have anything to do with you. He didn't tell you about his father's birthday, because he was afraid that you would ask to participate. Refusing to introduce you to relatives is also knowing that they will not have sex with you, and they feel that it is not necessary.
In short, the girl obviously doesn't want to see you and doesn't respect you. In addition, girls obviously don't care about you, don't like you, and don't like you. The reason why she is still willing to associate with you is that she has not yet encountered a better choice, and you are her tasteless food, and it is a pity to abandon it.
You're just a spare tire that doesn't have a chance to turn positive, and girls rely on your liking and good temper to accept all your efforts as a matter of course.
Therefore, break up, this girl is really not worth it for you.
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I don't think there's any need for this kind of girl to continue, she always hides, she doesn't feel like she treats you as a boyfriend, and she doesn't even want to get involved in the relationship circle you are in, although it may be a little stage fright at first, but she can say it directly, and she doesn't have to do so many lies. So you can see that she may not have a fancy for you at all. Give it up.
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This situation should not continue, if the girl likes you to take you home will not be afraid of being seen, since you want to get married, both parents want to meet, she refuses to meet your parents, from her attitude towards you, she feels that there is no need to see your parents, the relationship needs to be suitable for the two to come together, she doesn't care so you don't want to have a relationship with her anymore.
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Judging from your depiction, there is no need for you to continue to get along with each other, if you are in love, but you can't get a response no matter how much you invest and pay, so get along like just your wishful thinking, although you are serious about this feeling, but she is not serious, she is a dispensable attitude, to some extent you seem to be a spare tire for her, if you continue to pay for such a person, this makes you feel very tired.
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Yes, it seems that you have realized that girls just treat you as a spare tire, and you are not in a relationship at all, but treat you as a labor force in his family when he thinks of you and treats you better, kicks you aside if he doesn't feel for you, and wants to go back to your house to visit the other party's old man for a long time, which is the most basic etiquette, this kind of thing can be perfunctory, you don't need to stick to it anymore, end it as soon as possible, find a suitable object, so that you don't have to do useless work. Give me one.
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After the breakup, you already know that it is irretrievable, so don't contact each other again, although you can't help but contact your ex at this time, but you have to think clearly about the relationship between the two of you. When two people break up, they break up, although it is not necessary to die and not get along, but we must also be very clear about whether there is any need for two people to persevere, there are many people who fall in love, but there are actually very few people who really stick to it.
If we have to give ourselves an explanation, we have to control our emotions, although in the middle of the night we may secretly wipe our tears, secretly remember the sweet moment between two people, but these are the reasons why we can make such a decisive decision before the past, I think you are all ready, don't leave yourself a way out, a breakup is a breakup, both of you are qualified to find the next happiness, we don't want to affect each other anymore, the other party may be happy now.
We don't want to suffer by ourselves here, we still want to contact each other, so that there is only one feeling of being tortured for the other party, maybe the other party has already died, we must control our emotions, to be able to get out of a relationship, we also have to try to accept the next one, because we all deserve the best feelings, but we have not yet met, we must not be disappointed.
I also had such a situation before, and even felt that the other party still liked me, and then I also thought clearly, if he likes me, he will definitely take the initiative to come to me, and the breakup between the two of us is a peaceful breakup, but I think that since two people can do this, in fact, there is no real love, and I don't need to be entangled all the time, which will only make the relationship between the two of us more awkward, and it is very good to be an ordinary friend after the breakup.
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Treat you really, not really love you, you asked, I feel like I want to give up, two people together, don't hide from each other, love, is to care for each other and attachment!
When two people are together, they want to chat, and they want to feel that the distance between their hearts is close!
Whether this situation will continue depends on your heart, and if you don't get anything out of his efforts, you can continue if you are still willing.
It's up to you If the pain of perseverance is greater than the pain of giving up, then don't continue. That is, if you persevere and suffer more than if you give up, then you better not continue. Copy the translation results to Google Translate.
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